How can I overcome my fear and anxiety about getting married?

[renodnol32]

Im currently engaged. Getting married later on this year. The thought is just scaring me. Too many what ifs. What if im not good enough for her? Really nervous.

[HawkPerception]

You asked yourself "What if I'm not good enough for her?" That already tells me you're ready for marriage. You're thinking about her needs and not about your own. A LOT of people aren't ready for marriage and the thought of officially tying the knot stresses them out because it means officially moving to the next phase of your life. It's like having kids. Not many people are truly ready until it actually happens. It doesn't matter how much you plan for it.

You'll be fine. And once you get the marriage over with, you'll feel the weight off your chest go and feel proud that's the woman you married. Congrats in advance brother.

[Chazmatazz269]

Don’t. Your good sense is challenging your need to conform. You should be scared. There is absolutely no benefit to men in marriage these days. Intelligent, self respecting men don’t marry anymore. We need a complete reversal of current marriage and divorce laws before it makes any sense again. That’s not even accounting for family courts biases in child custody and support cases.

[Nikki1989]

That is normal. I would be more concerned if you were completely calm about it. Choose your partner wisely, and you will wonder what the anxiety was all about.

[ThisSiteSux]

Your 29. Your almost out of time. All the good people are already married. If you don't want to die alone or with no kids you hardly have 1 year to find someone. Jesus Christ.. no pressure

[Veronika_p]

How do you comfortably say this to people? Do you care how they feel?

[ThisSiteSux]

I comfortably say it because it is true. I say it because the truth, although bleak, is better than telling you a lie. Fertility is a well studied science and you are running out of time fast.

[bingbongbangbung]

Men don't need to marry in their 20s lmao

[bingbongbangbung]

Fertility for men lasts until well into senior years, don't know wtf you smoking

[ThisSiteSux]

Nobody is talking about men. But. Real men are married before 20. To a good woman

[Anonymous]

What if you to good for her
If not sure have doubts don't get married. It just hurt both

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I think everyone is anxious about that