Been dumped by a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

Yeah so the title says it all. I fell for this girl real hard and had my doubts about her sincerity but after several months of getting to know her (or so I thought) it turns out she was just in it for the material things. I never had much in the first place but I did my best to help her out in her life. Trying to be kind and taking her out to have good times and even supporting her emotionally and somewhat financially as well. Things were looking up and I felt like I was totally in love, then almost as if it was out of the blue. She ended it..apparently two days after we had made plans to move in together her (rich) ex called who is married and offered her a "job" at his company... apparently the next day we were over. Ain't that sh*t? Anyways...I feel totally used up and crapped on and right before the holidays as well not sure why I'm ever writing this but I figure maybe someone out there can relate with having been used and played. Cheers

[Anonymous]

I am sorry to hear. Sounds like she is making a terrible mistake ditching you for a married man, what a stupid girl. I hope you recover soon without a permanent scar.

I just broke up with my boyfriend of nearly three months myself. This dude was so stingy with me that on our last "date" he insisted on me paying for his 7 dollars sandwich and 1 dollar bottle of water. I often buy him chocolates he likes, I bought him clothes from the department store, I cooked for him... he buys expensive things for himself, yet he was too stingy to even take me out to a movie. He said all he wants to do is to do nothing, yet he sent me lists of movies to download on my computer, so he could watch them when he is at my place. Last he paid for dinner, it was at a hole in the wall sushi place, where he ordered me a 4 dollar sushi roll. The low class redneck even joked with me "Come on, you make a hell lot of money. Bring home the bacon woman!" I saw the warning signs very early on, but I kept on hoping that I was wrong, that he really is a great person deep inside, turns out I was right all along, he IS an asshole who is too cheap to even pay for 2 dollar parking to come see me on a Sat. night. Granted he is good looking, I am quite good looking myself too, I could do much better than this.

So yes, I can relate to you of being used and played.

I am gonna hate man for a couple weeks.

Cheers!

[sss1111]

Man that does suck. I have been there once and I can say I've learned from it. Don't be suprised if sh*t hits the fan with what she is doing now...which it will...you might get a text. Girls can be so f***ed up sometimes. It's now the holidays which in result makes this worse. Hit up as many parties as you can, spend time with your closest friends and if a cool girl comes by don't be afraid she will ruin your life...as I made that mistake afterward. Just be aware of the signs!

[Asker]

Hey thanks man, I'm sorry this crap happened to you but hearing that I'm not the only one who has been duped and ended up being "too nice" is somewhat reassuring. It's sad in a way because I will be a lot more cautious now. It's kind of interesting how girls like this tend to give birth to the assholes which in turn make more girls like this.

[Anonymous]

You probably deserved it