So...boyfriend broke my rib on accident. Do I tell him?

[xxxmegan]

We were having an intense tickle fight and at one point he wrapped his legs around me really hard. It was all bruisey and such, but I bruise easily, so I thought nothing of it. Until I had trouble breathing. So I went to urgent care and sure enough I broke a rib.

I know he'll feel super bad about it, so should I not tell him? If we get in another tickle fight, I'm sure I'll feel it's pain. But I also want him to know that he's got to be a little more gentle with me.

Updates

+1 y

I told him and he got really upset that I didn't tell him sooner, and of course he felt super bad about breaking it in the first place. Now that he knows it's broken, when we go out places he acts like a linebacker and a bodyguard so no one bumps into me and even bought heating packs and put stickers on them. That's cute. But now he treats me like I'm a flower that will perish at any touch and appologizes for stuff like poking my arm. I guess we'll have to find a happy medium to the new issue :D

[Hidden_P]

Thanks for updating!

Aww, I think that's good. Of course he'll treat you like that, you ARE his precious, rare rose!

I have a broken wrist that isn't healing, and my boyfriend gets REALLLLLLY twitchy if I lift anything, and I mean anything! I lifted his guitar last night and he appeared behind me, grabbing it off me, telling me off...

But I know as soon as it's sorted out, yes he'll always keep half an eye on me but he will relax about it. Give him some time, I don't think you should talk to him about "you're being too sensitive with me". Just enjoy it and if it annoys you, playfully be like "oh stop it, I'm fine!"

:)

[xxxmegan]

Awwww :) I think I will do that, sounds like we both got lucky with guys <3

[Hidden_P]

haha aww, you're very sweet!

yeah, I mean I spoke to him about it. I said, you don't need to treat me like china, and his reaction was, if I don't who will? and you won't look after yourself so I need to!

i think your boyfriend will be the same

good luck though hun, wishing you all the best bab! x

[Tamikaze]

You have to tell him regardless. What if it came up by accident months later or years later? He would probably really feel awful then, wondering why you felt the need to withhold it. Also, as you already recognize, what happens while you are healing. This is going to take a while to heal and during that time you may not feel 100% and may pull back from activities you normally would be fine with, so better he knows why then think you are acting strangely around him.

[oranges123]

Just tell him, but make more of a joke out of it. If he can take that kind of humor haha. At least then there won't be any tickle fights until you're better. And if you make it no big deal then everything will be a-ok! :D

[rdr005]

Tell him, its best he knows so he doesn't attempt to tickle you or something while you're in this treatment... less he injures it more. I understand the whole intimacy thing through tickling and such, but there should be a limit to avoid injury so that he knows when to stop or at least... tone it down a bit. As long as you don't make him feel guilty about it and put pressure on him, he should be fine. He'll naturally (or should naturally) feel sorry about it and may show an over sense of "its my fault, I didn't mean to..." so just tell him its OK and that at least in the future you two know to just be a little more careful.

[taster]

Yes! He needs to know...if my female had that smile of urs I would want to hug her to death..but he can't do that can he? Need to be straight forward and honest with the lucky man...and let him know that you expect him to be straightforward and honest with u! It is OK if he feels bad...after all...he hurt his lover...but (if you feel he deserves it LOL!) you can tell him that you forgive him...if THAT doesn't make him love that pretty face and GREAT smile...then you deserve better!

[JakobJ]

If your gonna tell him you should tell him that he can make it up maybe by buying you dinner or taking you to the movies and maybe try'n joke a little about it! I'm pretty sure he won't feel so bad about it after that :) after all he it was an accident

[taster]

Thanx for the Update! You did the right thing...tell him that he is forgiven and he does not need to be overprotective..I think he loves you (AND I DON'T BLAME HIM!) Have a GREAT Day!

[xxxmegan]

Aww thank you! You too! :)

[christian2724]

You should tell him, before he grabs you in that area and re-breaks your rib

[ShootingStar5]

I definitely agree!

[haijal]

I agree with this guy

[sylar]

Definitely tell him .. he has to know you're not made of steel. He'll feel bad of course but he must learn control. By the way you are adorable he should treat you like a princess.

[Anonymous]

Make him a rack of bbq ribs, but break the ribs in half. He'll appreciate it and get the message.

[standUP]

ofcourse you tell him, or wait till he body slams you because he's a freaking idot trying to hurt his girl thinking your one of his guy friends he likes to roll around on the mat with... tell him then smack that dumbass !

[standUP]

update, OK I will reconcider too, glad he figured it out !

[siobhan1989]

Tell him, but make sure he knows that you know it was an accident and don't want him to feel guilty

[Hartmut]

Ninja'd.

[haijal]

^ ^

[theydidntnameme]

ooooouucchhhhh tell him! before he breaks another rib lol. just tell him its okay though and your not mad at him or anything.

[jyoung20]

Tell him but say he only cracked it and that it was a small crack then when he's feel all sad about it give him the best damn blow job you've ever given him and all will be better from there on out.

[Anonymous]

Of course tell him. If he's that much stronger than you, he needs to learn that you're more fragile that he thinks!

In my experience, if you start the tickle fights and you let him know where the limits are, he'll respect them if he cares.

[trinababy_x]

No. you just let him get away with it.

Of course you tell him! It's not like you're telling him you are pregnant is it lol.

[billy2340]

ya you need to tell him. maybe as an apology tell him to go down on you?

do you need surgery to fix your rib?

[A_Guy]

Tell him but don't sound angry about it. He will probably buy you a gift lol.

[eidahl]

By the way, you're awesome!

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[taster]

Think we should start a fan club? Heh Heh

[xxxmegan]

Hahah, thanks!

It hurts to laugh -_-"

[eidahl]

Haha, sorry. =p

[kevin_s]

Yes, tell him. He needs to know so you don't get more serious medical issues in the future. Yeah, he'll feel bad, but he will get over it. You don't have to tell him you can't tickle, but you should let him know what happened.

[cjwright79]

Ahhh I'd rather tell him than have him think everything is fine when it's not.

[cjwright79]

re: update

terrific! he sounds like a kind-hearted gentleman :)

[probabilist]

i broke a girls wrist once by accident - felt so bad.

[bleepbloop]

lmfao is your boyfriend an anaconda?

[Shaun]

Yeah, tell him so it doesn't happen again.

[sexpertstella]

Of course you tell him!