I think he was testing the waters to see how you react. or he got too nervous to keep going. or both. of there haven't been anything new happening lately then he might be unsure if you want him to or not, could be second-guessing himself about whether he should or not... I think if you want him to advance, show him he has permission next time by guiding his hand to somewhere beyond where it's been. even if it's just a little further than what's happened so far, it makes it clear that you're giving him direct permission for that without an awkward conversation about it.
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It's very possible that it was a mistake. It's also very possible, he was seeing if you would let him feel more of you. You say you make out intensely with him. That turns him on, and he is probably very tempted to touch your boobs. If you continue to 'make out intensely', then you can expect him to try to feel more of you, including your boobs.
I feel you are challenging my common sense.
So you two are already making out intensely and also cuddling with each other, and that's not sexual?
You two already have some form of sexual contact so don't think you two are that innocent and pure.
Even if it was not an accident and he touched your breast deliberately, what are you going to do about it? Don't tell me you are gonna accuse him of molest.
He’s your boyfriend, you’re making out already, you’re both over 20, how is touching your boob not okay? I understand waiting for sex totally, but holding and feeling each other’s bodies? What’s the big deal? I think he was testing the waters to see how you’d react and you are well and truly over thinking it.
I don't really see how this is a problem though, if it was an accidental touch and he apologized I'd accept it and act like it didn't happen. ALTHOUGH, since it's your boyfriend shouldn't you feel more happy he did it by accident? I mean I'd be flustered and loving by it, maybe have a good laugh.
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Don't over think it. It sounds like it was and can easily happen. But if it wasn't you'll know soon enough because it'll keep happening or he'll try for more. But it sounds innocent enough. I've even "grazed" a girlfriend's breast and not realized it before while making out. She did, but I didn't.
Could be an accident or an innocent way to test the waters. I think it's time you explore each other, doesn't have to be sex but just touching and see how it makes you both feel. I can be wrong but I think he is ready for the next step.
Might've been an accident, might've been testing the waters. Most guys don't want to be left hanging for too long, even when they say they are okay with it..
He could be "sending up a trial balloon" or it could be an honest slip of the hand. Ask him about it using open-ending questions: his demeanor when answering should give you a hint as to his motives.
If you consider it "accidental" touch, be content with it.
You've been dating for a month. Let him touch your whole titty.
I'm very sorry this happened to you. It must have been terrible.
I’m pretty sure it was a mistake especially since he froze up when he touched you
how could touching your boobs be uncomfortable? WTH
Could be an accident. Also, he's telling you what you want to hear. Of course he wants to fuck you.
My guess is, it wasn't entirely an accident and he was testing the waters.
I don't see whats the big deal is here. He is your guy for christ sake, not a stranger.
He's your boyfriend, let him touch your boob.
You haven't let the dude touch your boobies for a month? Thats just evil.
If you said accidently, then you're pointing out the obvious
Side of your boob? Wow, that guy is a risk taker.
You’re thinking wayyyy too hard 😐
You must believe everything you hear
I know this much. That was no accident
Guys never do accidents they create one
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