My boyfriend accidentally touched the side of my boob, was it an accident?

[Anonymous]

So I’m 20 and my boyfriend is 22. We’ve been together for a month now and the most we ever like to do is to make out intensely without sexual contact since we both have talked about sex and we both want to do that later in life cause we’re just comfortable with that at the moment. So today I was at his apartment and we were watching tv while cuddling, and during one of the commercial breaks, we started making out and then I lied my head on his chest while his hand stroked the left side of my hip up to my rib cage. At one point, when his hand was coming back up, he ended up accidentally going a little up too far touching the bottom side of my boob. I’m thinking it was an accident cause when he realized he went up a little too far, his hand sort of froze like deer in the headlights for a couple seconds then slowly moved his hand back down acting as if it never happened. Rather that or didn’t know that he touched a little bit of the side of my boob, but I doubt that was the case cause my boobs are a size 36C, so I’m thinking it was more of an accident since they’re pretty big, but I’m not sure whether or not it was an accident. Reason I’m asking this is cause again, he’s told me he doesn’t want to do stuff that would make the both of us uncomfortable, which would included touching like that. What do you all think? Do you think it was an accident?

[justtechh]

I think he was testing the waters to see how you react. or he got too nervous to keep going. or both. of there haven't been anything new happening lately then he might be unsure if you want him to or not, could be second-guessing himself about whether he should or not... I think if you want him to advance, show him he has permission next time by guiding his hand to somewhere beyond where it's been. even if it's just a little further than what's happened so far, it makes it clear that you're giving him direct permission for that without an awkward conversation about it.

[markscott]

It's very possible that it was a mistake. It's also very possible, he was seeing if you would let him feel more of you. You say you make out intensely with him. That turns him on, and he is probably very tempted to touch your boobs. If you continue to 'make out intensely', then you can expect him to try to feel more of you, including your boobs.

[yucychan]

I feel you are challenging my common sense.
So you two are already making out intensely and also cuddling with each other, and that's not sexual?
You two already have some form of sexual contact so don't think you two are that innocent and pure.
Even if it was not an accident and he touched your breast deliberately, what are you going to do about it? Don't tell me you are gonna accuse him of molest.

[Bellice]

He’s your boyfriend, you’re making out already, you’re both over 20, how is touching your boob not okay? I understand waiting for sex totally, but holding and feeling each other’s bodies? What’s the big deal? I think he was testing the waters to see how you’d react and you are well and truly over thinking it.

[Kayla45]

I don't really see how this is a problem though, if it was an accidental touch and he apologized I'd accept it and act like it didn't happen. ALTHOUGH, since it's your boyfriend shouldn't you feel more happy he did it by accident? I mean I'd be flustered and loving by it, maybe have a good laugh.

[Anonymous]

Don't over think it. It sounds like it was and can easily happen. But if it wasn't you'll know soon enough because it'll keep happening or he'll try for more. But it sounds innocent enough. I've even "grazed" a girlfriend's breast and not realized it before while making out. She did, but I didn't.

[simonqq]

Could be an accident or an innocent way to test the waters. I think it's time you explore each other, doesn't have to be sex but just touching and see how it makes you both feel. I can be wrong but I think he is ready for the next step.

[Marilynjuana]

Might've been an accident, might've been testing the waters. Most guys don't want to be left hanging for too long, even when they say they are okay with it..

[Massageman]

He could be "sending up a trial balloon" or it could be an honest slip of the hand. Ask him about it using open-ending questions: his demeanor when answering should give you a hint as to his motives.

[iamdesperate]

If you consider it "accidental" touch, be content with it.

[20yearsolder]

You've been dating for a month. Let him touch your whole titty.

[TadCurious]

I'm very sorry this happened to you. It must have been terrible.

[bandito18]

I’m pretty sure it was a mistake especially since he froze up when he touched you

[2os4ngeles]

Could be an accident. Also, he's telling you what you want to hear. Of course he wants to fuck you.

[outside_Toronto]

how could touching your boobs be uncomfortable? WTH

[Scarecrow13]

My guess is, it wasn't entirely an accident and he was testing the waters.

[SatanClaus]

I don't see whats the big deal is here. He is your guy for christ sake, not a stranger.

[tara987]

He's your boyfriend, let him touch your boob.

[NeroClaudius]

You haven't let the dude touch your boobies for a month? Thats just evil.

[JesseJayNeak]

If you said accidently, then you're pointing out the obvious

[spartan55]

Side of your boob? Wow, that guy is a risk taker.

[Hamsteroids]

You’re thinking wayyyy too hard 😐

[reptocarl]

You must believe everything you hear

[skeetskeetskeet]

I know this much. That was no accident

[Shiva987]

Guys never do accidents they create one

[GreenGold1992]

never an accident

[Jus-jon]

Just touch eachother