Did he really "accidentally" touch me or?

[Anonymous]

So we work in a small food truck. There's always at least four of us working. Yesterday it was me and two other girls and this guy I have a crush on.

Well, I was prepping everything before we opened and one of the girls grazed my butt with the back of her hand and I said "hey!" (In a joking way) and she right away said sorry. It happened again but with my other female coworker and she apologized before I could say anything. I know these two times were complete accidents.

Now, when it happened the second time, my male coworker asked what happened and I told him that our female coworker touched my butt and he said "my turn?" And I just shook my head and laughed. Well, ten mins later. We're both setting up our prep table and I feel his thumb and pointer finger (I think that's what it's called) hit my butt. Lightly. I turn to look at him and he apologized. He was like "I swear I didn't mean to." Blah blah blah. At first, I believed him that it was an accident. But now that I keep thinking of it, it seems like too much of a coincidence.

Do you think he did it on purpose?

[markscott]

There is no way to know for sure if it was deliberate or not. I do know, that with experience with working in tight quarters, it's almost impossible not to have accidents where you touch ladies butts or what not. I have done this myself, with honestly, no intent of touching her inappropriately. You get busy, and it's too tight, and there's no way to avoid it. It also works both ways, where sooner or later, if you are moving around fast to get the work done, you will touch him somewhere that is not usually touched by coworkers. Of course, if it seems to be deliberate, pay more attention. As a side bar. I worked with a girl who was a virgin, religious girl. She and I started to move at the same time, and we had to stop immediately. We both teetered, almost falling over, struggle to keep our balance for a few seconds. One of her hands was right on my cock, touching it, but she couldn't move without falling, and I couldn't either. It literally took a couple of seconds before we could get enough balance to move out of the position. And again, she was an innocent church girl. So, things happen.

[Partywithtom]

Hard to say but here's my thoughts. I worked in a restaurant for a decade and accidentally touched people regularly same with me being touched. They were mostly grazes sand I even have hit boobs a handful of times. No one ever got mad or upset.
But in tight quarters I can see that happening all the time.

[Asker]

Yeah. It happens. The part that gets questionable is where he said "my turn" as in. His turn to touch my butt and then it happened a few mins later. He's also asked to see my nipple piercings.

[Partywithtom]

I would have said the same thing. Would I actually have grabbed it? No. I'd grab your arm and make you grab mine then act all offended and make a scene.

[TMarissaWL]

Lol I honestly have no idea. There's really no reason to believe it was on purpose if it were completely accidental two times in a short period of time by two diff people

[Asker]

Because he made the comment of "my turn?" As in. His turn to touch my butt. He's also asked to see my nipple piercings.

[ObliviousJester]

So to some level it sounds like he is into you, to what level is debatable. So most likely did it on purpose

[tezequal]

I would say 37 percent it was on purpose.(random percent to show how low) The joking means there is a slight spark in his mind for your personality tho.

[Asker]

What do you mean spark for my personality? I thought he might have done it on purpose because he's also made other comments. Like when he found out I had nipple piercings, he asked to see them.

[tezequal]

A flirtatious chemistry to see how you would react or because he likes how you react.

[iChris28]

Shit, I've seen this post before. But instead of a food truck, it was in a restaurant... is this a repost or something? Same old words i believe, except for the food truck

[Duke1985]

Pinch his butt as soon as you're alone. Please do it, and tell us all about what happens then later.

[es20490446e]

Did you told him on purpose?

[zeusOfolympus]

That was not accident

[Asker]

You think he did it on purpose and tried to pass it off as an accident?

[zeusOfolympus]

Yup. What will you do now?

[Asker]

What can I do? Lol

[zeusOfolympus]

Confront him or leave it like that? You can tell him you like him lol

[Asker]

What if he doesn't like me back tho? Lol

[zeusOfolympus]

What if he does. Unless you are super ugly I bet he does.

[rockrewls]

In a small tight food truck I could see it.

[ajay1612]

No is mean not purposes

[hotdoggy]

Sexual harassment

[ObliviousJester]

Quick, join #metoo

[TMarissaWL]

@ObliviousJester HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA