What goes on in a guys head when he accidentally touches a womans breast?

[hellobye76]

I was sitting in class with my senior & we were talking. He was trying to grab my arms but he accidentally touched my breast. He apologized & said sorry. I didn't react or say anything because I felt really awkward...

[MrOracle]

I suppose it depends on the situation. It's happened to me a few times over the years.

When I was around 15 or 16, I was walking in a group of friends to a convenience store a couple of blocks away to get Slurpees - it was a hot day. One of the girls in the group was a known klutz - she was easily distracted and would often fall or run into things, etc., and she joked about it pretty regularly. Anyway, we were standing loosely together on a corner waiting for the light to turn green, and she took a couple of steps back and tripped on the uneven sidewalk, and was about to fall backwards onto a fire hydrant. And of course, this particular hydrant had a big nut/valve on the top, so it could have seriously injured her. I jumped towards her and managed to catch her just before she crashed down, arms flailing, but I had two handfuls of boob. It took some effort and a couple of seconds to get her back on her feet again, and I apologized for grabbing her that way, but she didn't care at all about that, especially after seeing what she was about to fall onto. As for me, my first thought was that she was going to have a serious spinal injury, and then that I was going to drop her because she went limp as soon as I had a hold of her, and I was trying to get her standing again. I didn't even register how I was holding her until I was able to let go of her and be relatively sure she wasn't going to fall again.

Imagine falling backwards onto the top of this fire hydrant.

A couple of other examples would be crowd-surfers at concerts. I tended to stay out of the mosh pits and would stay over at the sides, and it wasn't uncommon for crowd surfers to eventually get shoved my direction, out of the pit, and where the crowds were thinner. I would generally try to help them down and try to keep them from falling. A lot of the crowd-surfers were dudes, but there were quite a few girls too, and at some shows, a lot of people would end up hitting the ground, and a few needed medical help and even ambulances, so I always tried to keep people from hitting the ground - at least in the limited area around me. This would sometimes mean getting kicked or kneed or elbowed if someone got shoved my direction, and sometimes people would be sideways or face-down and even I couldn't always catch them, but I did my best.

Quite a few times, catching a girl meant literally catching her as a group 12 feet away shoved her towards me and in a split second she was falling on me, and I would have to grab whatever I could - which sometimes meant boobs and sometimes her ass (and sometimes her head, or her leg, or whatever). You can't intentionally grab someone that way - things happen way too fast in most cases - and it's all you can do to keep them from falling 10 feet to the floor - which in some venues was hard wood and others concrete. No one ever complained and a couple of girls kissed me on the cheek for catching them.

I did also once bash a dude in the nuts trying to grab him, and only managed to grab one leg, and just barely kept his head from hitting concrete. That wasn't intentional either.

And in those situations, again, I wasn't thinking about their boobs, but rather their brains being smashed into the floor and blood going everywhere, or them being paralyzed with a cervical fracture.

[hellobye76]

Alright !!! 😀👍

[FunkyMonkee]

It depends on if he knows he did it. If he didn't even realize he did it, he wouldn't think anything of it. If he knew he did it and she never said anything about it, he'd probably just think, "Nice! I just touched her tits! They feel pretty nice."
One night, I was in the audience talking to one of my fans and I accidentally bopped her boob and I apologized to her and she just said, "That's okay, I don't mind.' So, I played with them intentionally for a few seconds and she started kissing me.

[hellobye76]

In what scenario would you consider thinking that she was just shy or felt awkward so she didn't say anything?

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know. Any time I accidentally touched one (in some situations, it can't be helped. Like, on a very crowded bus) she would just take it as part of being on a very crowded bus and either not say anything at all or, once she noticed, she'd probably try to change her position to prevent it. In some such cases, if she says or does nothing about it, I have to wonder if she can even feel them being touched. Maybe having them in a bra prevents her from noticing. I really don't know.
I'm reminded of a scene from the movie, "Dead Solid Perfect" where the two main characters were walking side by side on a golf course (I think) and as he was talking, he was using his hands for emphasis and accidentally smacked one her fairly large tits with the back of his hand and you HEARD the sound and it was VERY obvious that they both know he hit her tit but, neither of them said a word about it.

[FunkyMonkee]

The scene is at 50:20.
https://youtu.be/72rvbwwb7Y0?si=RSuX9Iwv0b6gLPAM

[hellobye76]

Hmmm yeah I see

[hellobye76]

Alright, then. Iam relieved none of your answers say that she might have enjoyed it because she was silent

[FunkyMonkee]

Unless they do it again in another section of the movie, that's not exactly how I remembered it. I'll watch the whole movie again later tonight. I haven't seen it since it first came out 35 years ago. I remember the guy being nearest the camera, them walking left to right across the screen and his left hand hitting her right tit, both of them looking at the hand an tit for a second and then just walking on. In this bit, he bumps her left tit with his entire right arm and all she does is readjust her tit as if nothing happened. But, like I said, it's been 35 years since I've seen it.

[Fiercekittyyy]

It depends on how your breasts look, if you have normal unnoticeable breasts then he may did by accident but if they are nice looking obviously he did it for later, yk what i mean

[EmmaMary]

The question here should really be why was he trying to grab your arms?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Whoa, He must have a deathwish if He doesn't keep His hands as away from women as possible... In my case, the thoughts would be along the lines of: "Okaaay, so when's the next flight to Latin America from the nearest airport? Also, I could really use a list of countries that have no extradition agreement with <whatever -country-I'm-currently-in>." And that's even if it was a 100% proven accident, say, in a crowded public transport vehicle.

[DishLady]

LOL! Automatic fight or flight reflex. If she minds she’d probably smack the guy half-way through that thought. He’d never make it to Latin America… Accidents like that probably happen all the time in the crowded metro or bus, no?

[CalmUntilAbused]

Tch... A smack means gettting off lightly, especially given that it's basically an alert that a court battle might be incoming, leading to more motivation to actively seek asylum before it happens... And I don't think a smack mark would prompt the security detail on an airport to turn me back to where I came from. As for these accidents happening regularly... I've achieved a certain mastery in avoiding female touch. I can squeeze into really cramped spaces or get glued to natural barriers in order to avoid these incidents. Not to mention I always seek out single seats whenever possible, so that no one can sit right next to me. And I keep my hands low and glued to my body whenever it gets crowded. That is actually sometimes problematic at a different height level, so I attempt to find better options, such as holding these hands up like I was surrendering or shoving them, curled into fists, under my chin, so that the forearms take the most impact on themselves and the insides of my palms are imposible to be touched by anyone. It's better to bump chest to chest, forearms to chest, or basically whatever can happen than allow that specific area, the insides of my palms, to make even a milisecond-long contact with any woman. It's a bit more tricky to avoid legs touching in a big crowd, but I can really bend into hardly possible shapes in order to avoid that, too. If I had to, I might learn levitation, as there's usually some unoccupied space above everyone's heads.

[AMS700CX4u2]

In my Senior year of High School my elbows seemed to pe a the perfect level for bumping breast in crowed hallways. I always apologised and was embarrised by the occurance. The other end of my lower arm was alway appreciated more readily. when invited.

[Flatmanlewis]

For the most part I’d be embarrassed and worried, if we were coworkers. This is the epitome of frightening as a man.


IF we were friends and this wasn’t a work-based scenario I may just be able to laugh it off and make a joke about it as I apologized.


No matter how you cut it, it’s uncomfortable but it’s really how she reacts that’s going to set the tone.

[DryGermanGuy]

Normally "ooops", sometimes "hooonk". ;-)

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Rv3UVZyhH6c

[Anonymous]

If it’s really an accident, it immediately register that I accidentally touched a body part. It’s more embarrassing than intriguing. I accidentally bumped into a girl’s butt with the back of my hand and I was way more embarrassed than turned on.

[Anonymous]

It has happened to me 3 times mostly in middle school and I have never forgotten any of them, I still fantasize about how they felt now sometimes.

[hellobye76]

😂😂 even if you had a girlfriend?

[handsomelad70]

Trying to club her !!!

[Opinion Owner]

Not really mostly when I'm single and just happen to think of it.

[JacobJordan]

For me nothing it happens and a few women have made it hard to get by without least I think they did

[DrPepper12]

Regret and embarrassment and fear of claim of sexual harassment.

[Anonymous]

Probably about the same. I remember accidentally doing that with a girl a worked with many years ago. She just smiled. That made it more awkward.😆

[Tomisworthless]

nothing, if it were accidental he wouldn't know what he touched but you asking shhowss you like him and would like it to be more intentional

[Caliguy88]

Mostly just embarrassed. I don’t find anything sexual about that.

[jahaims]

I'd worry she'd think it was on purpose when it wasn't.

[OddBeMe]

Just imagine our dicks hanging off our chests and giving us hugs.

[MrZameer]

He will think that she has nice or sexy boobs,
Her boobs are soft, perky or firm lol

[Anonymous]

Fear, he gets pulled up on a metoo statute and that's it he's dead, firing squad

[MaxUsefull]

If your breasts are hot, he probably get aroused

[katiesmuff]

Usually just sorry as it isn't any big thing.

[Reem12345reem]

i guess he'll fantasize about it later on

[RHK36]

Regret, embarrassed, deflect and forget.

[Starrrboy]

Depends on how touch deprived he is 🤣..

[Friendlybro79]

Ooops.

[Friendlybro79]

I've done this a few times by accident. Once a stranger because we walked into each other and I just I was sorry as genuinely as I could and the other was a friend where I was telling a story..

I use my hands when I talk and I can't help it. My friend walked right into me and I didn't see her on my peripheral. I landed a good one by accident and she laughed at me because I was embarrassed. It was her fault and she knew it and to her amusement told her dad on me and even be laughed at me because of the face I had on. He could tell it was an accident.

So overall it's awkward and you just try to not make it worse lol

[hellobye76]

Oh alright. This response somewhat answered my question

[Friendlybro79]

Yeah when it's an accident any decent person just feels bad and or embarrassed.

[exitseven]

Nice coconuts!!

[noohair]

Accidents happen.

[Anonymous]

"Nice."