Well I knew it existed , but it came to my attention after writing my first take: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/relationships/a25895-what-do-women-want-what-do-men-want-problem-solved
And a writer's curiosity took over me to investigate and an idealist in me to make another take.
Well this little war of yours is not really what you think it is. It´s not who is better , it´s about who sucks less. And boys and girls , we are BOTH losing it!
Like a country covered in a civil war , killing it´s own citizens and destroying its own infrastructure , like an autoimmune disease killing the body it was meant to protect , this war is killing us , humans , humanity!
From the moment we are born , we are separated , divided. Gender , country , color of our skin , religion , social status. Think about it , you never head choice with that , including religion , we all did what our parents and schools told us to. It´s all pre default for us so it would be US against THEM! That's how society works , divide and conquer. But there is no "them" only us!
We focus on this petty little differences but we are all more alike then we think. This world is interconnected , we all need each other , hell we need other species of this planet as well.
If there was an alien species observing us I would bet they would have a hard time knowing who is male and who is female. They would have a hard time because greed,ego,shallowness,stubbornness... both men and women are guilty of this.
But! Selfless,unconditional given love,sacrifice,empathy and caring for others...both men and women share this virtues!
And thankfully , only boys and girls fight this war , but men and women don´t , so grow up , it´s not about the age, it's about maturity
I hated woman , got hurt real bad , "you are all bitches" I used to think , I was a boy then. Now I´m a man and can see both sides of the story.
Yes there are bad people ,and just like I got cheated and hurted , somebody else will also get hurt. And from that pain will raise another crusader for this stupid meaningless war.
Bad things and good things aren't based on the sex , but on a person , both male and female. Yes there are "bad" people , please don´t be one. Love is a giving thing and the more you give , the more you have!
Love you all guys and gals out there!! Stop showering each other with insults that hurt us both , but shower with praises and love , we need it like flowers need water!
Make this world a better place , for everybody and be awesome!!!
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Your distinction between boys and men shows you're nothing but another brainwashed feminazi...
By your logic men have always been nothing but boys when we all know that it's the exact opposite. In other words, modern men are the ones who are feminized... so please stop pretending you are a SYMBOL of "real men"
This is just a feminazi shaming tactic used to coerce and indirectly force men to comply with modern feminist society.
Right , brainwashed. No , I have a heavy dislike for feminism , I´m more for humanizam... hell all this "faminazi" thing is typical American shit , iif I didn't stumble upon this site I wouldn't even know that thing exist , cause you see with the exception of those crazy Russian chicks , we don´t really have it in Europe. I pity you , because there's so much beauty in this world , yet you choose to be bitter and pathetic and don´t see the power that you have , to be what ever you want. Still , I might be wrong , I don´t know anything , I´m trying , I want this world to be better for everybody. Anyway , as long as you post your opinion as a Anonymous , for you , I am a real man.
Dude, you're whole comment SCREAMS feminism. Europe is completely overridden by feminism and 99% of the men like you are indoctrinated by feminists since childhood... albeit to varying degrees...
Feminist language like "bitter" and "real man" needs to GO. No matter how much you use these words and try to coerce others into complying... the awakening will not stop... men are waking up to the nature of women, which has been hidden by feminism.
You are nothing but a trained dog. Wake up!!
. I do find your emotional reaction to this take quite interesting and your need to go full attack. I know your kind I was born and raised in Croatia during the war and do have a shaddy criminal history filled with tough guys that aren´t that tough as they thought and pointing a gun in my face. Now those days , thank fully are behind me and I do know I want to be a father one day , but I don´t want anybody to live in this world in it´s current state. So I changed to show there is a way.
Instead of hiding behind text , why don´t you put your foot where your mouth is. Now I´m no idiot to put my real name here for everybody to see , but come on , send a message I would love to see what went wrong with you , I´m in a helping people business and you do seem to really need it.
Otherwise... fuck off. This are your two options from this point on and any answer here instead of my PM is going to be ignored ,
I'm not trying to be mean to you, it's a FACT that you are using EXACTLY the same language as feminists... due to the fact that you have been trained to do so all your life... and I don't blame you.
You are also falsely likening me to a criminal & murderer like a typical feminazi... Just look at the extreme to which you are willing to go!! This is the power of brainwash.
Phrases like "real men" and "bitter" shaming have only come up since women's lib. Same goes for maturity shaming "grow up" which is very typical of women to do in order to coerce men into supporting their nonsense.
Wake up! Men are oppressed 2nd class citizens in the West and are severely discriminated against in a large number of areas. You can't feel the full effects in your country because you are still years behind us... stop blindly following us!
In approaching, dating, relationships, marriage, divorce or anything there is factually NO EQUALITY for men. Women have ALWAYS been hated, and rightfully so!!
Men were always right about them... you have been brought up on nothing but lies and bogus agendas...
Unbelivable. I've been in your precious States and you aren´t really that advanced as you think you are and my current shitty place of residence is Leipzig , Bundesland Sachsen , Germany. So don´t sell that bullshit to me. Second, I see your point and if you would send that bloody PM you would see that you read this take so wrong, because I and feminism have nothing in common, if anything your precius little States are the cause of all this shit in the world. I hate feminzam, it´s an old concept, did it´s job now is retirement time. As I said, I´m for humanisam, for both sides! And yes, I do agree with you, there are guys that are feminized and I have no respect for them, women do get away with to much shit, but in truth, through out the history we did a lot of shit to them. This has to stop and that is the point of my takes, because I´m sick and tired of reading the same old crap, same old accusations without people actually doing something to change that!
My takes are all about change for all of us , for something better then this , for humanity , yes I am a fool , I believe in humanity despite the fact it showed nothing to deserve it and will fight for a better future , not just sit here and a little comment here , little comment there.
The point is that shaming language like real men, bitter, grow up, grow a pair etc. has cropped up since women's liberation and needs to GO. This kind of BS never existed in the pre-feminist world and doesn't exist in the non-feminist world.
You cannot continue to manipulate others and get us to comply with your "beliefs" using these tactics like a typical feminist.
All women are liars. All women are lesbians. All women are hoes. All women are bitches.
This has ALWAYS been known. It's a feminist myth that women are equal to men or the same creatures as men. Women are different in both mind and body. There is enough scientific proof for this as well. Women's liberation has FACTUALLY led to the oppression of men and now we are mere 2nd class citizens in the west. Women are also the enemies of equality and have been offering heavy resistance to the men's rights movement since it began, although most will now agree to some level of equality due to the fact that the power of men who support their own rights has risen greatly in the past 5 years.
However, the vast majority of women are still using and abusing their power and will not give it up until we fight for our rights. Wives also nag their husbands to death and women's emancipation has also led to a STEEP rise in mental illness.
The list goes on and on...
I give up , you are an exactly a male copy of a feminist , you get into an argument with a feminist , this is how it looks like. I´m neutral , I love life , I was inspired by good people that want to change the world , that give , that don´t belong to any groups that we know right now. I´m neutral , I want something better and I´m not here to put my ideas down someone's throat.
I´m sorry for you , I do know that feeling , I was hurt by women on multiple occations , I´m short so there were many times that I´m a great guy but there is no chemistry. In those moment I turn and I leave , just like today.
I bid you farewell and do hope that by the end of your life you do menage to break free such a darkness and hatred and fear. I manage it´s not easy , but belive everybody can. But you have become exactly the same thing you are fighting against , that is sad my friend. I wish you all the best.
It's just how it's always been... stop being such a feminist and wake up! You are a traitor to mankind
Nice take liked it a lot.