They Will Not Date Their Own Race Because Of Self Hate (Page 2)

[Matchmaker7072]

It's not the phenotype for most people but the culture that comes with it. It's not the end of the world if you make generalizations as long as you treat everyone the same on an individual basis. Everyone is different but it's easier to find a Japanese girl who likes Japanese culture then a white girl who does.

[Jack_S]

I haven't ever met or heard of someone refusing to date someone of there own race until i had read this post.

anyone else?

[Stacyzee]

Oh wow, you're living under a rock. I've heard it plenty of times. I will not date -insert race here- because I am not attracted to that type of people.
I've even seen people here that are Indian and Asian ask a question if White women would date them, most voted no.
We can choose to be in-denial and act like racial discrimination does not exist.
But being in-denial is contributing to an ongoing problem.

[Stacyzee]

I mostly feel those who are white will make the same opinion you stated. From my observation "not all" but "some" white people act as if no real problems regarding race exist because they've never been on the other side of the fence.

[Stacyzee]

I hope I did not offend you. I am just stating something that is true according to my observation.

[Jack_S]

Im sorry, i should rephrase

"Anyone else, other than the poster?"

In regards to what you describe, you could be right. I've lived in the same country my whole life. Perhaps i haven't seen enough of the world.

All the same, you should consider this;

If people are legitimatly less attracted to their own race and are therfore self hating,

Then

Me refusing to date another man because i dont find him attractive is also self hating (just in regards to my gender).

[DooMguy]

DooMguy has joined the lobby.

Yeah I can second this, you might see on GAG a lot of questions like "do white guys date black girls?" etc. and it implies that they just looking to avoid their race and look elsewhere but you have to wonder why, or if not it's the opposite and you get I only date inside my race. Im not taking sides and saying that one's right but I'm just wondering why

The point she's getting at is that if two people meet in a random place and things go well then that's alright but if people saying "I only date, whites, latinas, blacks" then that don't make sense excluding a whole group

That's more or less the gist

(correct me if I'm wrong)

[Jack_S]

You do make good points. It may be raciest to close yourself off from dating a race, but that means you should also consider all other forms of eliminations as descrimination as well.

Same sex, as mentioned above is an example.
Another could be "I won't date someone who is morbidity obese," is discriminating towards someone's size.
or "i won't date someone with down syndrome," is discriminating towards the handicapped.

[Jack_S]

And i have for certain seen and heard people saying they won't date (insert race), just never about thier own.

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

so are you referring to those men and women who have a fetish or really want biracial children because " they are superior in looks". because the people who fetishsize biracial children irk me.

[GreatnessRevamped]

It's too big a GAP to say that a person's preference for another race is self hatred based. Maybe they REALLY like that race and it makes them EXTREMELY horny.

It could be loving others instead about hating self.

[Stacyzee]

Excluding ones own race is about disliking self and of course loving others.

Why else would someone say I would not date u because u are black like me or whatever race

[GreatnessRevamped]

"Why else would someone say I would not date u because u are black like me or whatever race"
That statement is self hatred.

"I like Asian girls because they turn me on!!"
This statement is NOT self hatred.

[Stacyzee]

You're not addressing the fact that this person refuses to date their own

[GreatnessRevamped]

Listen, most guys, like me, are NOT racially, ethnically, culturally specific when it comes to girls. We like whether they are hot or not, and if they will accept our invitations. Apart from that, I don't care.
Maybe some guy does, but most don't.

I noticed that women are more racially biased than men, though.

[Righttobeararms83]

My own opinion is that dating preferences go out the window when you find someone you love as you won't be dating anyone else and your partner can't change their race.

[Anonymous]

There is so much self hate across all races. I've even felt some myself due to hearing all the insults towards my race. I now feel very able in my skin, and have a large dating pool since I am attracted to all races.

[Anonymous]

I'm a black girl... I only like white boys
. Does it mean I hate black people? No, it means I don't find black males physically attractive. Sad but true. I can't help it.

[orphan]

as long as we have eyes.. appearance matters. as long as appearance matters, we're going to have preferences.

[theegreat017]

I actual prefer interracial because i like to be a part of other cultures and experience it from my partner.

[buttheadkakakak]

Yeah seems kind of weird that someone would have a problem with this

[Vncmc]

I am an arab who wants to bang only 'em ehite bishes

[Anonymous]

I dislike seeing white women with black males because the statistics show she will be a single mom and me, the tax payer, will be footing the bill.

[Anonymous]

I don't date within my own race simply because I don't find indian girls that attractive.

[Stacyzee]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I just find some races more in general more attractive than others. im sure the same applies to you too just the races that we are most attracted to might be differ. it's a preference thing

[Pilulu]

I personally prefer people that aren't the same race as me. I just don't find them attractive.

[StickStickity13]

I would only marry someone of my own culture.

[Stacyzee]

Different races can have the same culture. Do u mean marry someone of the same race?

[StickStickity13]

I've never met someone of a different race that was in my culture

[John_Doesnt]

It's probably an aesthetic choice.