People Mistake Being Shy as Being Arrogant

Being shy is mistaken often as being Arrogent

As if being shy is not bad enough but people think you are arrogant because of it. How can some people be such a poor judge of personalities? So you experience all the downsides of being shy and on top of that get treated like you are being a snob. Being shy is the worse thing that could happen to someone. It is being emotionally handicapped.

Shy people are typically not liked by as many people as they like, or want to like them, but, in fact, are often liked by very few."

People Mistake Being Shy as Being Arrogant

One of the reasons for this is shyness confused with arogance, aloofness or unfriendliness. Even if some people may not see the shy person as arrogant they may simply find a shy person uninteresting. But confusing shyness with unfriendliness is one of the most common problems shy people face.

While people may see shy people as aloof or distant, shy people often fervently want to be well-liked. They may even be more concerned about being well-liked than extroverts, since the goal is more difficult for them to achieve and therefore more tantalizing.

One problem is that shy people's anxiety keeps them from reaching out to as many people as they should. In a sense, popularity is a numbers game. The more people you strike up a conversation with, the greater your chances of making friends.

People Mistake Being Shy as Being Arrogant

But the fact is introverts are the best kind of friends you can always count on them,they always support and understand others,they never interrupt in others personal life. since they are not part of any big group they won't ever gossip around your secrets. Everybody needs somebody to lean on and having an introvert person for it is the best thing ever.

My point is, extroverts and introverts needs each other and together they are unstoppable.

People Mistake Being Shy as Being Arrogant
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