Girls, if a guy takes you out to an expensive restaurant?

[death01]

do you feel like you have to put out? what if he takes you to a cheap place

[Anonymous]

Any place is a great place. As long as you don't say "I don't know, what do you feel like?" then we are fine with anything. Except for cheap places like mcdonald's or a fast food place. I think it would be better if you took a girl out to a restaurant that had reservations, then she'd know you put some thought into it. And if you went to a dinner reservation that was her FAVORITE restaurant, she'd love you for that.

[Karen2016]

Why would that even cross your mind? You are talking about someone you just met, right? Hell to the NO. If he took you to a nice place, compliment him on the choice of restaurant, tell him how great the meal tastes, maybe place your hand on his leg during dinner a few times and squeeze it or rub it a little to let him know you are attracted to him, etc... but never sleep with him as a result. Keep it classy!!!

[YouAskedForMyOpinion]

I don't feel like I have to put out if a guy spoils me with presents, dates, complements, or kind favors. If he wants to do something nice for me I'll gladly thank the heavens for delivering me a guy who knows how to make a girl feel special. Lol. I try to make it a priority to let them know I appreciate their effort though. I'd want them to appreciate any extra effort on my part.

[YouAskedForMyOpinion]

I forgot to talk about cheap places. Sorry. Cheap is fine for day to day, but for a date I'd prefer a place with a server. Usually the price for 2 at a casual restaurant would be around $20- $30. Since you're also from the US you might know some of these restaurants: Applebee's, Roosters, Bob Evans, Olive Garden (they might charge a little more), and Steak n Shake are some examples of places I think would be appropriate. You could also consider having lunch or dessert together. It's usually a little cheaper that way. :)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I don't feel like I have to do anything but enjoy the date. whether he takes me to a 5 star or applebees won't influence me to have sex any sooner

[Prilee1992]

1st date? Probably not advisable. You want some places which is cool, fun to hang out with, park, cafe etc. Spending too expensively might indicate you bribe her for sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. Average women are all prostitutes and will give a hand job for a taco, bj for a steak and the whole enchilada for a plate of burritos. GTFO

[Adaeva]

If a guy takes me somewhere to eat, it because it is a place he or most likely his parents that drive can afford. I might just order a salad and water with lemon or something in the price range of what they order. Regardless, I am not for sale.

[BrookeAZ90]

I'd 100% insist on splitting the meal on a 1st date just to avoid any feeling of entitlement like that.

[amberluux]

In neither of both situations should you have to feel like you should put out. If you wanted to. well then.. go for it lol.

[princesswitch]

No. Under no circumstance would I feel like I owed my body to another person. His decision to take me out has nothing to do with me in that way.

[Anonymous]

i NEVER feel like i "have to put out"... NEVER.. its his choice to spend what he wants. no one made him...

is that what guys think? that if you take girl some where nice they will have to "put out"? LOL Guys are dumb..

[electromagnetic]

I don’t feel like having to do shit except enjoy the meal.

[Anonymous]

absolutely not lol. thats ridiculous! i wouldn't feel as if i had to put out at all. if you take a girl somewhere nice, it doesn't mean you're entitled to sex afterwards.

[PrettyBama]

No. I feel like I have to eat to my hearts desire at both then go home and knock out.

[Anonymous]

LOL! Expensive restaurants are for GIRLFRIENDS--they are NOT for first or second dates. Girlfriends are regularly servicing your D. Now you'll never have the problem of taking a girl to an expensive restaurant and not having her put out!

[Massageman]

I never had an expectation of "outputting" when I dated, regardless of where I took my date, or the length of time we were dating.

[Anonymous]

Put out?

Are you still in high school?

[ImCoasting]

First few dates don't take her anywhere expensive.

[mommymommymommy]

It makes the sex feel less cheap

[LiamJHayden]

I hope they don't feel like that.

[BrunetteNYC]

Christ, hell no.

[WhitneySnow]

No..

[Anonymous]

Fuck me