Called another girl in front of me!!

[Confused_Me]

OK, this thing is really irritating. Today, when my boyfriend and I were on our way to drop me home. So he called someone from his cell and I heard it was a girl, he was talking to. Maybe his friend but still he was talking to her really nice, and I could understand by the way they were talking that they had plans later on. Why the hell would he call another girl and make plans with her? I didn't asked him, I was really angry at that time but rite now I am just so irritated that maybe they are having fun :O

what should I do? he doesn't care about me, that's y he did that? please help!

[Anonymous]

i personally think its really rude that he was on the phone with anyone else while he's with you, unless its family then your time together should be your time only. About the phone call I would calm down and talk to him about it I would calmly say what bothers me about it. And it would really depend on how long he's known this friend like for years is ok but months I wouldn't consider that a true "just friends". then you'll know whether to be ok with him spending time with her. if he's know her for years chances are its just two friends hanging out, but if it hasn't been very long I would wonder about that. just when you talk to him just play it like its cool then find out what you wanna know and if you don't agree then all you can do is tell him and if he doesn't like it then I would move on to someone who will respect what you want. ur oppinion should matter to your boyfriend. when he answers you'll know if he cares or not

[Confused_Me]

I know, it's rude!! yeah, I will talk to him camly. .does'nt help with freaking out! Thnx!

[rebecca1327]

Whoa don't jump to conclusions too quickly. I'd casually bring it up later, there's a good chance its just a friend. Guys are allowed to be friends with girls. Don't be accusational when you talk to him about it either. That'll just make him get defensive.

[Confused_Me]

I dun mind at all him being friends with other girls, I trust him but the thing that is irritating me is why meeting another girl alone and calling her when I am with him!!

thnc!