Guys , are intelligent girls sexy?

[Anonymous]

Or is this just something guys say? Does being really good at something naturally or being an intellectual really turn people on? or is it rather a turn off? from what I've noticed ( from the guys around me of course not every guy ) a lot of guys seem to dodge girls who are smarter than they are, or they just choose a more easier to deal with and talk to type of girl. I've also noticed many guys place importance on how the girl socializes and they place more importance on other things than intelligence. I've rarely seen any guys who go out of their way to date a girl who is smart , or maybe that's just the guys my age? I'd love everyone's opinion on this.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

A woman who is smart or intelligent is such an unbelievably sexy thing I can’t even explain lol. It might just be me though. I wouldn’t care if my woman was smarter than me, but if she was smarter than me why would she be with me? Lmfao. Usually women secretly want the man to be a little more impressive than they are, just to feel more secure and protected I presume. It’s RARE to find a truly intelligent woman though. Most of these women probably do not go out much, definitely do not club, rave, drink, or party that often, if any at all.

[Sauron2099]

If you are intelligent and you approach me with something that we both have in common, you might end up getting your future husband if that's what you're looking for. Yes some like it and some find it intimidating while I would only be intimidated and only to an extent by someone who might work for NASA as a spaceship designer or something of the sort.

[Asker]

Why is the last part intimidating? You know if a girl who say works for NASA approaches you?

[Sauron2099]

Designing rockets involves a lot of complex math, making it successful project requires a lot of complex thinking and would make her a bit intimidating but again to an extent. Why? Because she can be the best mathematician in history and but not the best at everything. So this wouldn't affect me in the slightest, just a simple remark on my part.

[charlotte5]

But is being intelligent not defined by the guy, like he can say : oh maybe she is not good at math but she is so smart in blabla?

[Chaz269]

First of all, it's actually very difficult to compare intelligence. You can't do that without a standardized test, usually an intelligence quotient examination. So, I have to jump to the conclusion that you meant guys aren't interested in more studious or better educated girls your age. There's probably some truth to that, but it's far from universal. Chances are there are plenty of educated and studious guys who are interested in the smart girls, but those girls are too busy pining over jocks and bad boys to notice. That was my experience in youth, and things haven't changed much in that regard.

[MMarina]

I wouldn't think an intelligent woman would go for the jocks or bad guys. Maybe the standardised thests have failed you...

[Chaz269]

Well, you would be tragically mistaken. It's actually quite common. It's so common that I have to assume you're a complete idiot, or simply trolling.

[MMarina]

My argument is that a truly intelligent person would not choose someone bad for them (referring to the bad guys of course. I don't have an opinion about the jocks)

[SidKnee]

Maybe in your experience but it's not like that

[mrsatori]

Oh Lord, I'm terribly sorry for the people who find intelligence a turn-off. Intelligence, thirst for self-development and self-sufficiency are the three pillars of a girl to win the heart of mine in no time, with no effort. And if, on top of all this, you're kind and look confident, you're just perfect.

[Anon-ymous1]

No... SEXY girls are sexy.

Whether they are intelligent or not has nothing to do with looks, and everything to do with personality instead. Personality matters a lot but it doesn't make someone "sexy." Sexy is about physical attraction-- period. Whether or not you like them as a person, or are attracted to their *personality*-- intelligence matters a lot then.

[Anon-ymous1]

This girl is sexy. And whether or not she is also smart does not have anything to do with that.
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[TheUglyMonk]

Not sexy but rather interesting. I would prefer to be with someone intelligent who I can have discussions with on a daily basis whether it's about politique, religion or any subject over someone who doesn't care about these subjects and always has an opinion based on nothing (like many people I've encountered).

[FaresY]

Well, I believe that my life would have more sense with an intelligent woman, what makes it hard is to deal with the stupid people, never straight and so unexpected as they're making efforts to spread their stupidity 😂😂😂

[root123]

Oh my god i have yet to find one that isn't ridiculously hard to approach, but when i do i am not lettin' go of that shit. That , sarcasm and shitty toilet humor are the fckin best 😃

[Asker]

Is that one of the reasons why guys might not be into intelligent girls very much? Because they aren't easy to approach? Or what has happened from your experience?

[root123]

Well I do get more intimidated, I'll admit, but i also think it is much more worth it. The few times it almost worked out were some of the best moments. And for the record I think that being harder to approach is a good thing sometimes, means you are smart enough to not take any shit.

[winterfox10]

Intelligence is sexy, what's really annoying is girls who feel the need to remind you that they are intelligent.

[Asker]

Those type of girls are usually insecure and try to compensate by doing that. In general I dislike that as well , when a man does that as well its a turn off for me.

[silverqueen]

Guys love intelligent women

[Asker]

Really? How do you know? Any story or experience or so?

[silverqueen]

Usually when they meet a not so smart woman they don’t respect her as much. They also don’t take her seriously, and wouldn’t consider her “wife” material.

Note: I’m also talking about intelligent men. I personally take them more seriously and they earn my respect

[Asker]

I agree with you , but that wife material part is not necessarily true. You're right about the respecting her more part , but a lot of guys that I've met and observed seem to not care about the girl they're dating to be intelligent or so , even as a wife. I don't know if it's just a thing where I live but so many guys go after girls for their looks or femininity or confidence or so , mostly things like that. never seen someone say 'I dated that girl because she is intelligent' or if you ask them what they find attractive they don't place importance in intelligence as much as other traits.

[silverqueen]

Yeah, but one thing is for sure: an intelligent man will definitely want an intelligent woman to marry.

[Asker]

Yeah I agree with that. Except guys who are intelligent but insecure about their intelligence. Those type of guys from what I've observed don't choose well.
But an intelligent guy will always want an intelligent girl and vice versa.

[eatyourveggies]

I like smart, independent girls. But really dumb guys who are insecure about being dumb usually don't like dating smart women.

[Kese04]

"Guys , are intelligent girls sexy?"
Yes.
"Does being really good at something naturally or being an intellectual really turn people on?"
Both and these aren't mutually exclusive.

[loveslongnails]

Generally speaking yet, but they STILL have to be sexually inclined, feminine and not hung up in bed !

[Walrus_au]

generally speaking, intelligence is a must in my circles.

[Mischa7711]

Every girl is sexy on her own way. Nothing to do with intellect

[ImDAplayer]

intellectual people are a turn on when they like the same topics and areas of knowledge

[CHARismatic110]

Intelligence in general, is pretty damn sexy.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes intelligent girls are sexy.

[wilco999]

The older I get, the more I like it

[SuperRobot]

Hell No... Intelligent people are not sexy at all.

[Asker]

Why? Any reason?

[SuperRobot]

Because they don't have time for looks

[Asker]

And is sexiness only about looks? I've met really attractive girls who have low self Esteem and it doesn't exude sexiness as would an attractive girl with an equally sexy and attractive personality.

[Asker]

And intelligence can also be sexy , in a confident type of way. Like you know you can get stuff done ( without rubbing it on people's faces or being arrogant of course ) and hold conversations for a long time , and you can be confident about your intelligence and also take care of your appearance.

[SuperRobot]

Sexy is d word which u can use as prefix with any traits like intelligence, looks, talks, dress, walking style, eating style.. Etc. It depends how and where u r differentiating the sexy word and in which context.

[Deathraider]

Yes. It can be very attractive trait to have.

[Streak]

VERY

[Asker]

Do you go out of your way to approach those type of girls? Or is it simply an attraction to them?

[Streak]

I would approach them in a heart beat. Intelligence is the hottest trait someone can have