As a guy whos been both. i think i prefer being just average. sure you get lots of attention when your popular. but not being someans that if someone befriends you it probably because they like you. not your status
I dont care about being popular but I'd rather be not unpopular. By that I mean I dont want to be actively avoided but at the same time I'm happy with a low key social life.
Popular is an image you create and surround yourself with. If you feel the need to be popular you are wasting your time. Be someone that people recognize for a good reason instead of trying to fit in with a fad.
Nope, only to the extent that allows me to have friends, occasionally go to parties and date good looking girls. But being really "popular" sucks, plus you unavoidably waste your life on social media that way
I shouldn't but i do. I've always been used to being the odd one out or the different one while everyone gets on with one another, sometimes i do wish i was the 'popular' one
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As a guy whos been both. i think i prefer being just average. sure you get lots of attention when your popular. but not being someans that if someone befriends you it probably because they like you. not your status
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no, i don't care and i don't want to be popular either.
Yes I'd like to be popular but I'm not popular. But in a different way than high school popular.
Not really tbh, and besides what's the point in having other people like u, when u may not necessarily like yourself?
I dont care about being popular but I'd rather be not unpopular. By that I mean I dont want to be actively avoided but at the same time I'm happy with a low key social life.
Never have. Don't care what most people think in general.
Popular is an image you create and surround yourself with. If you feel the need to be popular you are wasting your time. Be someone that people recognize for a good reason instead of trying to fit in with a fad.
Nope, only to the extent that allows me to have friends, occasionally go to parties and date good looking girls. But being really "popular" sucks, plus you unavoidably waste your life on social media that way
Popular is nice but I'm too introverted to be popular. I settle for being nice. Most of the time.
No, I've never cared about being popular nor do I think of myself as being popular.
No, I never cared about it. I have a few of my friends that I love and trust and I don't need others opinion or superficial friendships.
To the extent that people recognize me for what I am and not what they see when they look at me on first glance.
no I don't lol and I'm well known I guess but I wouldn't consider myself popular
I'm not popular at all and I don't care about it as much
Couldn't care less to be honest.
I'd rather be myself instead of just acting out for the sake of being fake and popular.
No, i only care about certain peoples opinions on me.
No and no. No one is popular in college. You just get your degree and gtfo.
I never had a desire to be famous or popular. Maybe it is being a Wayne family member, in the end I am already popular.
Used to. Not anymore honestly. And I admire those who don’t care about it
I shouldn't but i do. I've always been used to being the odd one out or the different one while everyone gets on with one another, sometimes i do wish i was the 'popular' one