My son accidentally watched a video of my boyfriend wanking... WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is currently in Canada and sent me a video via Skype randomly without warning. I left my computer open for two minutes while I went pee and when I came back the video was in full screen and all you could see and hear was him stroking himself!
My son was sat quietly watching the TV and turned to me and said: "I just wanted to check that it wasn't a virus". He definitely saw everything I can tell by his reaction. He is only seven years old, what the hell do I do? PLEASE, I can't live with myself for this!

[WhatTheHellAmy2]

Okay. He knows what a wiener is.
He probably has heard about masturbation now. He doesn’t know about it. But he has heard the term.

Explain what sex is. Explain how he shouldn’t have seen that but that accidents happen.
Monitorize his activity online but always be honest. Don’t make up some lies.

[Tyliah]

Yikes. I don't even know how to handle that. It was an accident so don't beat urself up to much about it.

[Tyliah]

Thanks

[Asker]

Thank you too, this comment helped me calm down and talk to him about it. I still feel so shameful but he seems to have moved on.

[Drumlin2001]

Talk to him, apologise for what he saw, explain it was a grown up thing. Ask if he has any questions. Then never mention it again.
Maybe tell your boyfriend not to do it again, and be more carefull bout leaving you PC unattended

[Reddwolf]

Sit down and explain to him what was going on he was just curious

[zippididooda]

I don't suppose the flimsy excuse that "sometimes men have to wash their privates" will work, will it?

[josephinelcajon]

Time for the completely honest talk! You lie to him now he will find out and never listen to you again. Just ask him if he has any questions. Answer what he asks you. Above all make sure he knows its normal and ok for him to do in private.

[boggboss]

There is not much you can do to be honest as what's done is done

[outside_Toronto]

I'd suggest you not leave your computer open anymore

[Iron_Man]

Send him back to his father because you're doing bad things

[Dionigi]

Time to have "The Talk"

[simpleguy34]

Steer into the skid. Make it a teaching moment

[ravenengr]

Not much you can do. You can't erase his memory

[Gedaria]

Ask him did he like it and does he do that ,?

[AkshiJanjua]

he's gonna ask his dad😂

[esotericstory]

He is gay now, its over.

[WhatTheHellAmy2]

Haha dude, well done XD

[esotericstory]

@WhatTheHellAmy2 Thanks.