uh... for some reason i feel like when my brother starts to find someone he uh... likes... it feels like he is leaving me behind... i.. dont know why i feel this way... is it because he was always with me instead? uh... im not the type that would stop him.. Just im worried... i can't shake the feeling that he would feel far away from me... uh... part two of the question is... am i a bad sister for worrying about this?
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So uh... why am I worried about my brother starting to date someone?
Yeah i understand. You love your brother very much. You hang out a lot and to have another girl taking his attention away from you makes you worried that he will forget about you. That is ok to feel that little sister. But i imagine that your brother loves you very much and would never forget about you. You will be fine my love. Did you feel the same way about your sister?
uh... depends... i only ever saw her get mad when she found out someone was being mean to me... i had to calm her and tell her its fine even though deep down my feelings were hurt that day... reason i had to calm her is because she tried throwing fists at the bully! 😮
just a warning... she might get jealous and try to shoo you off like your a puppy and say you can't be near me 😆 theirs an anime character i saw that acted the same way! 😆 forgot which one though.. :/
It sounds harsh, but grow up. A big part of growing up is coping with the way people change. You might miss your brother being available all the time, and that does not make you a bad sister; your just young.
Many relationships don't last (I'm not telling you to break them up), that's when you can be there for your brother. And if it does last you should try to become the in-laws that get along. Surrounding yourself with a large extended family could give you the confidence and variety of experience you need to get along with others elsewhere.
Don't be overly scrutinizing and you'll be fine. Plus, if you don't normally find fault with his girlfriends, he will likely believe you if there is something to worry about.
@Rin_Chan_ *turns 50* whut up sonnn! But you know what I meant, right? And you don't have to be old to be mature. Learn what you can and try to be quick, you'll be fine and maybe a little better than your age. :) old school emojis
Aww! How sweet! You love him as a Brother, and can't have him leave you. That's pure love. My sister was the very same way when I moved out. I'm over 1000 miles away from my family, and my little sister misses me dearly. It's one of the most beautiful, sweet things on this planet.
You can have any number of friends, any number of lovers, but family is always unique and forever. You won't ever lose your special position of his esteemed sister. I wouldn't worry too much as you will always have each other's back. Try doing things on your own then how about? Like make new friends.
Hmm, well I don't have too many friends myself, but I find that making friends is easiest when you are doing your hobbies. Spending time around the same people breeds familiarity, and I can tell you people like familiar things. Good friendships take years to form, so you have to remain patient til then.
Sounds a lot like me back a few years ago. There are people online in video gaming communities, depending which games you play. I know for a fact there are many communities with anime, especially on Discord. To find new hobbies and acting cities nearby me I use an app called Meetup, which shows me all the events and groups like Boardgame Night.
No, it orobably means you just have a tight bond with tour beother. And oerhaos you rely on him. So you realuze the territorial nature of wimen and fear of being cut off from him.
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