When I was little, I got real sick. I ended up having to get open heart surgery and a feeding tube in. It looks similar to these pictures (yes, they’re public pictures for everyone), but I have a flatter stomach. I think I’m a fairly attractive girl, I have this scar, tho, and sometimes I’m human and feel self conscious. If this is a turn off, please be kind in the comments. Will someone overlook this side of me one day? (Like it said these are public pictures for everyone so i have permission to share them).
Just think that if anyone prioritizes your scars over your personality, character and intellect, they are the wrong person to be with.
Those would be the type of superficial humans you don't want to be with in your life because they don't see what is beyond the scars.
There are more people that accept a person with a scar but a good overall personality than the other way round. Don't worry about these scars. They show that you are a fighter and that you did not have it easy in life. It is a life experience that carved who you are. Either they take you the way you are or they don't. If they don't, they are not a big loss for you. They are toxic people in the first place.
Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I have slightly worse scars: one on my chest and one on my leg. They aren't deep imprints on my body like yours, but they are slightly larger in terms of surface area.
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May I ask what happened? If you don’t respond that’s cool
I had to get some suspicious moles removed. They turned out to be dysplastic nevi, which is technically precancer but isn't super uncommon or dangerous, tbh.
Scars fascinate as much as turn off people, If a ;lover has a scar she tries to hide I try to pay attention to ir lightly running my fingers over it until she feels like it's a turn on- often true- to me. Often beauty is enhanced by an imperfection
You’re welcome... but here’s like the thing. A guy (or anyone) hears a girl say “I have scars because I am emotionally unstable so I cut my wrists all through high school” he’s going to think “this chick is unstable, better run”
I girl says “yeah, I had a heart issue and had to have surgery, this is my scar” - that isn’t something you had any fault for... so why would anyone care?
It's not a turn off. But things like that bother you women more in general then they will us. If anything like that is a turn off for us, we simply don't focus on it and instead look at a part of your body that does turn us on that's all lol
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