Who does this user think they are?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

To tell me that I don't have empathy like they know me. To think I'm trying to be "cool" about saying that I like dismembered corpses. All I did was gave her a little info about me after I said that I was searching for Bianca's nearly severed head because I take an interest into looking at dismembered corpses. It's not like I do it for a living; it's not everyday that I decide to took at dismembered corpses. I know it's not normal and all, but for crying out loud, can't anyone have a interest without getting criticized for it?
Everyone has different interests. What point of me having a different type of interest can't the user get in their head?

[Anonymous]

no, you can't have an interest in taboo topics without receiving a fair bit of criticism for it.

I'd also note you seem annoyed by her making judgements about your thoughts without really knowing you. You also then don't really know her? So perhaps you shouldn't be judging her thoughts. Accept she's got her own ideas based on her own experiences

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Then that makes the two of us. She came at me with criticisms, yet she said she wasn't uncomfortable. Maybe it might've been a sensitive topic, and I don't really know what's sensitive to people anymore. Yeah, we don't each other, so how will I know that I'm making this person annoyed or uncomfortable or both? I quit trying.

[Opinion Owner]

"Then that makes the two of us."

That was my point, and not in a snarky way. I'm just encouraging you to recognize just like you might react emotionally to what she says, other people are doing the same back. None of us are perfect rational beings.

It can be hard to know what topics are sensitive to people, but death, gore, atrocities, abuse, sexual abuse are often enough that it's worth getting a sense of other people's thoughts. I'd add to that religion, ethics, politics, abortion, transgender rights as areas that some people are interested in discussing calming even when they disagree, and some people are very uncomfortable having their ideas questioned in that space.

[Anonymous]

Totally agree. I get a similar reaction from people when I tell them I like to forcibly restrain and sodomize 17 year old girls against their will and people just freak out about that. Why is that such a big deal? It's not like I do it on a day basis or anything. It's just a personal interest of mine, so what?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I'm going to respect your interest because when I was 16, I wanted to seek out a pedophile and let them have their way with me.

[justaguy173]

I do think younger girls are sexy so long as they're not children. I think most want sex at about 14

[justaguy173]

So did you?

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Nope. I didn't know where to look, so I gave up.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

At 16, I was sex craving that the only thing to pleasure myself was with the dildos I have.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Dude that is rape.

[Opinion Owner]

@justaguy173, @MysteriousDarkness Of course it is rape, and it's just as sick and fucked up as what the asker was saying in her question. I'm sorry you missed the irony and sarcasm in my response. I'm pretty sure you missed the sarcasm in her "question", too.

[Aurora1010]

I don't know what happened, but bianca most likely had family and friends.
How would you feel if someone wanted to look at your daughter's dismembered corpse because it was "cool"?
There is a reason they say "rest in peace" you should let them rest and there should be some respect.
It's just a question to ask yourself

[Aurora1010]

Oh, I used the wrong word cool. I meant "interesting"

[Youryeodongsaeng]

I would really know how I'd feel. I can't interpret that feeling yet.

I'm that person who wants to look at things that I know I shouldn't and then leave without a word.

[Berethor]

You like looking at real dismembered corpses? well it's creepy interest.

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Yeah... Though I don't regularly talk about it. I rarely do.

[CocoMonika]

@Berethor your trash man

[OlderAndWiser]

TROLL ALERT!

[Youryeodongsaeng]

Huh?

[emperor90]

That they are better