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What to do with a guy that won't give up?

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A friend I know, is a dedicated customer at a local grocery store by his house. He stops by usually 2 to 3 times per week. He spots a female cashier he likes, particularly because she had on a pair of Air Jordans he really likes. And so when he's done shopping, he goes to her register, has a short convo with her while getting everything paid for, compliments her on her shoes. He asked also what does she do outside of work, and says to me that she mentioned he was in college. Two weeks later, despite him being very nervous, he puts her on the spot invites her to hangout. He claimed that she had a dazed, confused and irresponsive in her face when he asked her. Fast forward another two weeks, he stops to pick up some stuff, and claims she saw him wearing the same pair of Jordan sneakers she wearing, makes his way to her register and says: "Waddaya Know? Matching Shoes." She says to him, "cool." After getting everything paid for he leaves her a letter stating how he feels about her and that he really would like to get to know her.

I know he means well, and he's not a bad guy. But I still have two concerns: 1) What exactly would you do if you were the female cashier being bombarded by a male cashier that wore the same sneakers as you on purpose just to get your attention? 2) If he didn't see her again, but leaves the note with her coworker, mentioning the matching sneakers, then what? I only ask this because even though he's just being nice, he's trying to hard, and I don't want nothing bad to happen to him. Your opinion would be greatly appreciated.
What to do with a guy that won't give up?
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