What's the hardest decision you had to make so far in life?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Don't disappoint me ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[Andres77]

I'll say that the decisions were big and occasionally led through difficulty but actually making the decisions weren't hard. Circumstances evolved in every case to the point where it was just time... so actually making the decision wasn't hard.
Dealing with the consequences well, both good and bad was the challenge.
Each time I got married, the two divorces, going to Ranger School, not quitting when I got recycled (I hadn't learned how to be an asshole yet. But I have now...😉), applying to a new school, pulling my kid out of highschool and getting her in the local college to get her HSED (GED), moving houses, changing jobs.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Damn, did you regret any of the decisions

[Andres77]

I regret marrying the two succubi... but that's about it.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough

[Apulu_Imback]

To start working on my passion. First of all my family especially my mom are very against of me becoming a writer and musician and always hold me back from it if I think of it more than hobby. I was suicidal and depressed when I made this decision and also going through the bad time given by my so called best friend. From the situation and the decision it was the hardest decision ever to make. It's just like shooting arrows in pitch black. You won't know whether you hit the spot or not. I still don't know if I can make it but I will just give up my everything because it's better to do that rather than regret later. I'm just giving it a shot.

[TheMajesticKing777]

At least you are trying, that's good 💯

[Ghen30]

Not wanting kids and risking a happy long life with a future husband, or living single and regretting that decision because a lot of men seem to want children... xD Not all men but a good portion of them want families, and that's not what I want. I want a husband, to spend time with him, enjoy our youth, and not worry about financial problems.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Seems legit

[HighlyVolatile]

As odd as it sounds, I don't think I've ever had any difficult decisions in life. Well, I've had ones that maybe some people would consider extremely difficult but I'm headstrong and impulsive when I don't have much time to make a decision and extremely analytical when I have lots of time. That has made the bulk of my decisions easy to make in life.

[HighlyVolatile]

That's not to say I make good decisions all the time, mind you -- not even close. My hastier decisions are often quite bad. But they were easy to make since I just picked the first one that made some sense in those cases. I figure I'll just face the bad consequences if they have bad consequences and try to toughen myself up to deal with them if there's a risk of bad consequences.

[HighlyVolatile]

I suppose from an emotional perspective, ones like putting my beloved pets to sleep when they grew old and ill took the heaviest toll. But the decision was easy to make in the sense of figuring out what decision seemed most right; that was rather obvious. It was just difficult in the sense that it hurt me to make it.

[TheMajesticKing777]

This was disappointing to read because it's so long and no hard decisions were mentioned lol

[HighlyVolatile]

Well, I'm on the second day of an 8-day no drinking challenge! So I'm constantly faced with the tough decision not to reach for those beers my wife keeps in the fridge. :-D

[TheMajesticKing777]

That's a much better one 🤔

[Msputiton]

I had 2 colleges that gave me a scholarship to choose.

One was closer to home and the other was 14hrs away.

I didn't want to be too far from my family but the college that's 14hrs away had a very good basketball program and the other was horrible, since they both had a very good degree program that i was interested in I chose the school with the better team.

I knew the one closer to home i be a guaranteed starter but the team was so bad, i would be miserable losing all the time.

The good team wins and even so far got me two conference titles, and we go deep each year even though i mostly a bench warmer i don't think i would have the amazing teammates and coach i have if i chose the bad team.

[TheMajesticKing777]

That is a well thought decision I guess 🤔

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Pushing aside morals and giving in to survival instinct to shut down a threat.

Losing a friend by portraying myself as the baddie in order to save her from bullying.

Abandoning family for my own mental health.

Being myself. Society looks down on crazy. Shuns them.

Moving on from a death of a friend. (Different friend!)

[TheMajesticKing777]

Damn you got quite a bit of them

[Yucy_Gluttony]

I think we all have more than one if we sit down and think back

[TheMajesticKing777]

I guess so, fair point

[jennifer_bloom]

Trying to decide what to write about and deciding not to date a guy I liked a few days ago - now I think my email may have been hacked so it’s possible I did all that work for nothing, cause someone could steal my idea or alter it etc..

[TheMajesticKing777]

Did someone hack it tho?

[jennifer_bloom]

I was warned dozens of times by a secret person that someone was reading the emails I sent people so now I only email people who have university mailing addresses.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Have the warnings stopped

[jennifer_bloom]

That’s for me to know and no one to find out

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough

[Bratsondanielle]

I moved away with my boyfriend to a new state, then into a off grid place and now we're getting married

[TheMajesticKing777]

That's legit 🤔

[Bratsondanielle]

Totally yeah no worries

[Anonymous]

Whether my fucking bills are worth paying when that alarm goes off on Monday morning to go to work. 🤣

[TheMajesticKing777]

Eh fair enough

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry if that was odd. I’ll stay off your questions. 🤝

[TheMajesticKing777]

Nah it was just leaning a bit towards the disappointment side lol

[belle_kai]

Accept my dad is gone, he passed away when I was a teenager. I struggled and suppressed it for a long time. Its my day off today!

[TheMajesticKing777]

Damn sorry to hear that

[bigpauly]

I had a really hard time picking out which pirate SpongeBob picture to chose for my profile pic.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough lol

[josephinelcajon]

Join the military. It was a very good decision

[HeartFullOfGlue]

To move on and keep living with it as a secret

[TheMajesticKing777]

What 🙃

[HeartFullOfGlue]

something personal

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough

[Anonymous]

To keep living.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Ooof

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

stop falling in love

[TheMajesticKing777]

You don't gotta stop falling in love, just don't fall in love so easy