Hell yeah. No emotional attachment means “ZERO emotional pain”. I’m generally attracted to only BRADS and CHADS. The type of bad-boy f-boy that’ll constantly break my heart and constantly cheat and constantly lie. Otherwise I’m not very attracted. I’m not gonna be with someone I’m not attracted to, just to not be alone.
Yes. I don't have to have my mom ask if I'm pregnant yet, don't have some dumbass calling me at 3 in the morning asking if I'm horny (which i don't ever get. Not for a man or woman), no woman saying this is our kid and I need to support them, and no worry of something touching my ass in my sleep and I elbow them in the nose because I forget someone is sleeping with me. :)
I don't necessarily enjoy being single since it's actually very lonely, but in many ways it is better than the alternative which might be a Loveless sexless relationship filled with antagonism and despair. I have had a relationship like this in the past and I far prefer to be single rather than risk having yet another debacle. That said, if I could meet someone and find it within myself to have some faith in her perhaps there would be some hope for the future.
I enjoy being single but I would prefer to be married. But I have only ever been in toxic relationships with toxic people. Probably due to toxicity within myself that I had not awakened to. I'm just being patient.
Think about it this way. Which is more difficult, wanting someone, or something you don't have, or having something or someone that you don't want? I said to a prior supervisor, that I wish that I had children. HIs reply was "Be careful what you wish for"
I love being in a relationship but I also love being single
They have their upsides in their downsides I definitely love the freedom of being single but I do love the flirty and playful nature of being in a relationship
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Why is it always women that complain about being single like wtf. This is the last shit I want to hear from women. A man being single is something I can understand. Men approach constantly and get rejected. It is what it is. But women hold the power to say yes or no. So someone tell me. Why do women still come on here and always bitch about being single. It just does not make sense. Like your job is so easy compared to the mans so how… 🤣. This cycle is something I’ll never understand. Women claim dicks are being thrown at them and yet their so unhappy. Could it be because their ideal man is just an imagination that they’ve made up? Who knows?
@Uptowngirl88 how is one supposed to fix themselves when women don’t find them attractive 🤣. Everyone finds different things attractive. Also why should a man change. Men don’t owe you shit either. It’s just laughable seeing a women complain about not getting relationships when all they have to do is say yes or no.
Stop blaming women. They're nobody is asking men for anything 🤣. U came here complaining. A woman doesn't owe u 💩. Just because u approach her doesn't mean she has to like u
@Uptowngirl88 I’m perfectly fine with women rejecting. But I’m talking about the ones the bitch and moan about relationships whilst not approaching at all. A slave to societies standards and beliefs. Because it’s the women’s job to “drop hints” 🤣
@Uptowngirl88 your right she isn’t obligated. But then why do they complain about not getting into relationships when they can’t even go after the guy they want by approaching?
@Uptowngirl88 ARE U DUMB 💩 I ASKED WHY ARE THEY NOT GOING AFTER THE PERSON THEY ARE INTERESTED IN AND THEN COME HERE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES 💩💩
@Uptowngirl88 WHY DOES IT MATTER? BECAUSE ITS CRINGEY ASF. HOW TF CAN A MAN TRUST THOSE WOMEN IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THEYRE TOO BUSY DROPPING HINTS INSTEAD OF BEING DIRECT
@Uptowngirl88 Id love to argue with a sane person 🤣. Lady, I’m single because I’d rather fuck women then commit to a relationship and be her slave. It’s called the hookup culture. You are too mentally ill to understand what I’m saying. And there is no point to arguing with a disabled street dog 🤡. It is very clear you are a hardcore feminist who probably believes that a man should do everything and get on his knees for the lady. You avoid every question because it’s too complex for your tiny female brain to comprehend. Women like you give enough evidence for people to execute the mentally ill 🤣. I’m not wasting my oxygen on a feminist l. Later hoe 🤡
I can spend the entire day counting pop corn if that’s what I want and don’t have to answer to anyone and can eat nothing but cabbage soup for five weeks without getting yelled at.
I'm a natural loner so yes I rather enjoy it. Not to say I'll stay that way for sure. Someone may roll into my life. Anything could happen. But I'm quite content with the freedom the status quo brings.
I don't think it's more so any less enjoyable than being together with anyone. Being single isn't the same as being lonely being lonely is definitely not the same as being single
@Sam_The_Savage No it's not a heartbreak, I've been single for my whole life 🤣 It's just I've been focused on some other things but also didn't want to get in a relationship just for the sake of it tbh.
Wow you're female version of mine. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜🤣🤣😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I do. I did the live together thing for many years, around 9 with 3 different women. Sure there times of complete awesome that I wouldn't trade for anything but there was a lot more terrible. I used to be a straight up asshole and those 3 could be some nasty bitches in return. I've become a much nicer person being single.
Most of the times yes, miss but once in awhile it feels empty when I have some good news or bad one but no one to share it with.
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Yes, after seeing many of my married female relatives and cousins who regret getting married. For example two of my cousins have to stay with their mother in laws after the death of their husband's dad. They are shocked and did not know that their husbands are mommy's boys. Things like that scares me
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The gender gap on this smdh. This goes to show the huge privilege most women have and don’t even realize it.
There is a big difference between being voluntarily vs. involuntarily single.
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Hell yeah. No emotional attachment means “ZERO emotional pain”.
I’m generally attracted to only BRADS and CHADS. The type of bad-boy f-boy that’ll constantly break my heart and constantly cheat and constantly lie. Otherwise I’m not very attracted. I’m not gonna be with someone I’m not attracted to, just to not be alone.
Yes. I don't have to have my mom ask if I'm pregnant yet, don't have some dumbass calling me at 3 in the morning asking if I'm horny (which i don't ever get. Not for a man or woman), no woman saying this is our kid and I need to support them, and no worry of something touching my ass in my sleep and I elbow them in the nose because I forget someone is sleeping with me. :)
I don't necessarily enjoy being single since it's actually very lonely, but in many ways it is better than the alternative which might be a Loveless sexless relationship filled with antagonism and despair. I have had a relationship like this in the past and I far prefer to be single rather than risk having yet another debacle. That said, if I could meet someone and find it within myself to have some faith in her perhaps there would be some hope for the future.
I enjoy being single but I would prefer to be married. But I have only ever been in toxic relationships with toxic people. Probably due to toxicity within myself that I had not awakened to. I'm just being patient.
Think about it this way. Which is more difficult, wanting someone, or something you don't have, or having something or someone that you don't want?
I said to a prior supervisor, that I wish that I had children. HIs reply was "Be careful what you wish for"
There's parts of being single that are enjoyable, as the freedom to do whatever I feel like when I feel like it... THere's that.
On the flip side is not having someone to hang out with when I'd like a companion...
I love being in a relationship but I also love being single
They have their upsides in their downsides I definitely love the freedom of being single but I do love the flirty and playful nature of being in a relationship
Why is it always women that complain about being single like wtf. This is the last shit I want to hear from women. A man being single is something I can understand. Men approach constantly and get rejected. It is what it is. But women hold the power to say yes or no. So someone tell me. Why do women still come on here and always bitch about being single. It just does not make sense. Like your job is so easy compared to the mans so how… 🤣. This cycle is something I’ll never understand. Women claim dicks are being thrown at them and yet their so unhappy. Could it be because their ideal man is just an imagination that they’ve made up? Who knows?
Fix urself up then if you're sick of bring rejected
If amount of money is that important to you then I'll gladly pass lol.
From someone called "uptowngirl" as well >.<
@yourheart3 you were never an option 🤣gtfoh. Go eat dog 💩
@Uptowngirl88 how is one supposed to fix themselves when women don’t find them attractive 🤣. Everyone finds different things attractive. Also why should a man change. Men don’t owe you shit either. It’s just laughable seeing a women complain about not getting relationships when all they have to do is say yes or no.
Stop blaming women. They're nobody is asking men for anything 🤣. U came here complaining. A woman doesn't owe u 💩. Just because u approach her doesn't mean she has to like u
Get over it move on
@Uptowngirl88 I’m perfectly fine with women rejecting. But I’m talking about the ones the bitch and moan about relationships whilst not approaching at all. A slave to societies standards and beliefs. Because it’s the women’s job to “drop hints” 🤣
She's not interested in the men who approach her. I don't see the the problem. She's not obligated to like a guy just because they approach her
@Uptowngirl88 your right she isn’t obligated. But then why do they complain about not getting into relationships when they can’t even go after the guy they want by approaching?
Because they're not the ones she wants what don't u get?
@Uptowngirl88 ARE U DUMB 💩 I ASKED WHY ARE THEY NOT GOING AFTER THE PERSON THEY ARE INTERESTED IN AND THEN COME HERE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES 💩💩
Why does it matter? It ain't u
@Uptowngirl88 WHY DOES IT MATTER? BECAUSE ITS CRINGEY ASF. HOW TF CAN A MAN TRUST THOSE WOMEN IN A RELATIONSHIP IF THEYRE TOO BUSY DROPPING HINTS INSTEAD OF BEING DIRECT
Women think you're cringey that's why you're bitter and single. Still not getting your point
@Uptowngirl88 Id love to argue with a sane person 🤣. Lady, I’m single because I’d rather fuck women then commit to a relationship and be her slave. It’s called the hookup culture. You are too mentally ill to understand what I’m saying. And there is no point to arguing with a disabled street dog 🤡. It is very clear you are a hardcore feminist who probably believes that a man should do everything and get on his knees for the lady. You avoid every question because it’s too complex for your tiny female brain to comprehend. Women like you give enough evidence for people to execute the mentally ill 🤣. I’m not wasting my oxygen on a feminist l. Later hoe 🤡
No ones reading all that shit. Get a life I'm going to bed
I would rather have a boyfriend or girlfriend to be with. Although being single is great it gets lonely.
Yes, and no. I'd rather be with someone, but I'm better off being single than being with the wrong person.
No I don't, it's pretty shit.
My ex was toxic too, find your core and love yourself for a bit. The right guy is out there, now just isn't the time to find him 💕
🤗❤️🐈
I can spend the entire day counting pop corn if that’s what I want and don’t have to answer to anyone and can eat nothing but cabbage soup for five weeks without getting yelled at.
I'm a natural loner so yes I rather enjoy it. Not to say I'll stay that way for sure. Someone may roll into my life. Anything could happen. But I'm quite content with the freedom the status quo brings.
I enjoy being single but I'll prefer a partner as the best time I've had in life is with other people.
That being said everyone is different so you do you.
I don't think it's more so any less enjoyable than being together with anyone. Being single isn't the same as being lonely being lonely is definitely not the same as being single
Yes, I actually enjoy it 😂 I mean of course there are times when I’m like “it would be nice to have someone” but overall I like that I’m single.
Alright... noted. 🙃
@Sam_The_Savage 😂 hello again
You don't deserve to be single...
I bet guys go on knees for heart like you.
Why you choose to be single?
Heart break?
I'm really sorry for asking serious question... please laugh I have 🍿 for you. 🤣
@Sam_The_Savage No it's not a heartbreak, I've been single for my whole life 🤣 It's just I've been focused on some other things but also didn't want to get in a relationship just for the sake of it tbh.
It's alright 😆 I'll take the 🍿🤣
Wow you're female version of mine. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😜🤣🤣😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜😜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I do. I did the live together thing for many years, around 9 with 3 different women. Sure there times of complete awesome that I wouldn't trade for anything but there was a lot more terrible. I used to be a straight up asshole and those 3 could be some nasty bitches in return. I've become a much nicer person being single.
Most of the times yes, miss but once in awhile it feels empty when I have some good news or bad one but no one to share it with.
Yes, after seeing many of my married female relatives and cousins who regret getting married. For example two of my cousins have to stay with their mother in laws after the death of their husband's dad. They are shocked and did not know that their husbands are mommy's boys. Things like that scares me
The gender gap on this smdh. This goes to show the huge privilege most women have and don’t even realize it.
There is a big difference between being voluntarily vs. involuntarily single.