I'm 23 and pretty much still single and wondered how to attract a woman without turning her off, coming off as a creep/perv, and cowardly weak?

BlueberryJam
reason why I asked is because I feel like I'm missing out on everything while falling far behind in this so-called competitive mating game. It is like a rat race on who gets the biggest wedge of cheese the quickest.

I'm not sure if I'm the only guy who is struggling since their are many guys like me going through the same but perhaps many were misguided by mainstream media which often displays a stereotypical male and how should all men be like in today's modern society. It's a lot of pressure aswell among modern women, not just men.

It's often overwhelming for me since many often consider this such a big deal which often makes many of us try too hard to mate with the person who we wish to be with.

To me, this is really sad and only leads to more of us feeling less of ourselves when single then being in a relationship in my opinion.

I often feel like I'm misguided by stereotypes rather than solid facts and ik I'm not alone on this.

At the end of the day I just want a girlfriend who accepts me for who I am the same way as I would for her. As long as both sides accepts themselves for one another then that is definitely what love is.
I'm 23 and pretty much still single and wondered how to attract a woman without turning her off, coming off as a creep/perv, and cowardly weak?
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