Do you thrive on conflict?

Question

Do you get a kick out of starting/engaging in conflict with other people?

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Not at all. I react very quickly to conflict instigated by others though, sometimes, anyway.

I’ll make myself available for conflict if the situation warrants it, haha.

But left to my own devices, I’m not looking for any of that bullshit. I can’t stand drama, or even just being drama-adjacent. That’s one of the top things I avoid in life, really. So you’ll never find me instigating any arguments or fights, ever.

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NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

nope... that would be both stupid and dangerous, and I am just not into that kind of nonsense

but, as a man, and in the region I live, it would be even more stupid

I cannot just start bullshit with people around me... lmao, they will make me stand for it and it might not end up pretty

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Depends, mostly I don't and try to be out of any conflict and end it immediately (being a libra, it's understandable) but sometimes the aries in me comes out.
I can definitely go off but it's really rare that someone pushes my buttons that much.

My ex once said 'you never even get annoyed with me' then months later we were at a family gathering and I nearly ripped off the head of my uncle lol

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I rather watch the drama then be apart of it Watchin Reality tv is a guilty pleasure for a reason 😭

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

It honestly depends, because I don't like starting things with people I care about. I don't mind conflict but it's not a nice thing if you care about the person. I do enjoy it any other time, it's nice to know what makes someone tick and how to get under their skin.

OneManOnly01 · Answer

Yes, I may be insane or something but I like to stir things up sometimes. When some relatively minor conflicts happen, I do get a kick out of it.

Not that I want to watch people murder each other but let’s say if two girls start a cat fight while I am watching or two guys tear each other’s clothes off in a brawl, that can actually be quite funny to watch lol.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Oh I hate conflict. I’m just extremely comfortable with it. I spent so much time around conflict in my youth that I can be in long drawn out, bitter conflicts for years on end without it bothering me too much. That said, I don’t want that for my own life.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I like a bit of debate now and again to flex my silver tongue, but I would prefer to be positive most of the time.

Conflict when needed though can be very thrilling. I've never felt more pleasure that I have when winning a life or death street fight. It was beyond sex or even any mind altering substance I've ever tried. Pure animal joy.

AmandaYVR · Answer

I hate conflict. But I no longer avoid all conflict. Once in a while there's a benefit to facing it more directly. Also, people can't change, relationships can't change, if you don't tell them what you are thinking.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I don't think so. All things considered, I'm really not all that confrontational. I'll engage in it if I have to though. It just depends on the context, place, and reason.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I do not like conflict. I try to avoid it. But some people do thrive on it. To me those people can be hard to get along with.

menina · Answer

I don't, I avoid conflict. Unfortunately 2 of my sisters love a conflict and they always try to argue with me.

Blackcosmo · Answer

I hate conflict but sometimes I have to say something if it's worth it even if it'll end up in an argument.

dustybiker · Answer

I never start it. Always stand up against it though.

spartan55 · Answer

I do not BeeBella, however I have no issue with it if necessary.

sage2021 · Answer

Nope! Never have, never will. I'm not into negative excitement.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I am no shit disturber. So no I don’t thrive on conflict

LexiXide · Answer

Not really but sometimes I'll do that to my friends jokingly though

Fuentes · Answer

No but I'm with the bullshit 100% if you bring it lol

YollyM · Answer

I only get a kick out of engaging in conflict with narcissists 😅

Idkwtfimdoing96 · Answer

hell yes I'd like to be the main character that has been through a lot of shit and gets into any and everything bad damn that'd be cool asf 🤩 lmao

Anonymous · Answer

I enjoy riling people up a little bit. But no, I don't want to make anyone "angry". I hate "drama". And I'll go out of my way to see that I don't have it in my life.

Anonymous · Answer

I understand that it's necessary sometimes, but I wouldn't say I enjoy

duttyjamagyal · Answer

Not thrive on it but have no problem jumping in if they start something

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I'll engage in conflict when necessary but I don't thrive on it. I try to avoid it when I can.

OnTheLevel · Answer

I'm not averse to conflict, but I don't seek it out.

dolemite89 · Answer

no cuz i’m not a female 😛😂

jengeorge26 · Answer

No I don’t, I don’t like to argue

WhitneySnow · Answer

No. Definitely not.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I don't thrive on conflict :p

Wise4myage · Answer

I am not a fan of conflict.

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

Depends on the conflict

Bubbles16 · Answer

Oh no I hate conflict

maximumpower · Answer

There ARE people who do, however,

lilyanony1 · Answer

No I prefer harmony

Msputiton · Answer

Hells naw.

clampfan101 · Answer

I hate conflict.

Joker_ · Answer

I don't

SunnyHeythere · Answer

Yes unfortunately

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