Would you rather people to consider you to be sexy or cute/handsome?

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Added handsome because some guys rage at being called cute

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

I am fine the just the way it is... because it is genuine when they say it

I never get called handsome because well, I am not the conventionally handsome celebrity type and that has NEVER been a problem to me, lol

I get called cute often, but it is never about my looks, when they say it they always mean something about my character or personality that they find particularly endearing, kind, sweet, considerate and all stuff like that

and then, there's the sexy part... which can go both ways, the more obvious one being the body I have after 25 years of sports, but also... they say it because of my personality, my presence, my attitude or my character, situational of course...

so, for me... it is just the way it is, and I do not see any reason for me to want to change any of that, because it is already as genuine as it can be, from them, the women and also from me

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

I try not to be prideful or anything. But…. I mean. I do sometimes think I’m ugly and sometimes I think I look good. Sometimes I get a lot of smiles and kinda shocked expressions. So I guess that’s a good sign?

Sometimes if I ask someone out of curiosity they looked shocked and say I look great. Lol.

But I don’t know. Truthfully depends on the day

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Cute is positive but not all that great. Beautiful, attractive, elegant, good-looking... those are all preferred over "cute."

Sexy is sort of temporary, like an aspect of you. But if you're only sexy to another person, and nothing else, then they are probably just into you for your body, not personality, character, soul, heart, all that.

Emiliamazing · Accepted Answer

I went with cute. It creeped me out a little bit if everybody I encountered thought of me as sexy.

481632 · Answer

Although there are so many better terms to use other than "cute" or "sexy" I choose to be sexy. I'm a grown woman and I feel that being considered "cute" is a bit juvenile. A kitten is cute. A panther is sexy. Now I'm not saying that I'm not juvenile on occasion. I love my animal onesies. However, even when I'm wearing it I'm sexy. Do I look like a dork? Probably but I own my dorkiness and that's sexy. A 20 something just starting out in the world, trying to find herself is cute. A grown woman who knows who she is, is confident with who she is and doesn't hide from who she used to be is sexy. I choose to be sexy.

FreyaRed · Answer

People describe me in terms which make no sense in English (Laska, szprycha , sznala... etc.) what means in a rude way attractive because less attractive girls will be never called that way. Term cute in meaning of endearing isn't very common and I've never been called that way in my country.

SnowedIn · Answer

Handsome please. But, @amandayvr nailed it as far as "Beautiful, attractive, elegant, good-looking". :)

Bethany22 · Answer

I would prefer to be called cute, because sexy doesn't lead to long term relationships

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I think I would rather everyone thinking I was sexy… but cute is maybe better after looking at all of the other replies.

Anonymous · Answer

I had always wanted to be the cute girl. I always felt they were more respectfully approached. And I never dressed sexy outside of clubbing.

I was complaining to a guy friend back in high school about how men would be so forward with me at best.

He said that I "oozed" sex without doing anything. It didn't help.

Nowwww, I am happy I'm not the cute girl because I know how to wield my aura.

Heolurt · Answer

I'd rather the truth and not make people think of me how I want them to. If someone sees me as ugly I don't want them to call me anything other than ugly. If someone genuinely was to see me as handsome , I would accept it, it would take time to but eventually I would accept it as their truth. I just don't like lies even if the truth hurts me.

Weapon77 · Answer

Maybe my answer is because I'm a virgin, but I'd like to be called sexy. I've never been called that by a girl who wasn't awful or a whore. And the gitls who called me cute or handsome never had any intentions of dating me.

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

I don't really like "cute" unless it's coming from someone I'm dating. I prefer pretty, gorgeous, beautiful etc. I don't like sexy because it suggests purely sexual attraction, but I prefer it to cute.

RichardoStyle · Answer

I prefer him to find it sexy.

nolabels · Answer

I'd take sexy every time, especially in a situation where the difference in the two types of compliments could result in notching up the intensity of an encounter.

Cute or handsome is nice.

'Sexy' would be 'Fabulous'!

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’d prefer cute. I don’t wanna be sexualized as “that girl.”

Anonymous · Answer

I’ll rather people think of me as “cute”. I don’t like the thought of people thinking of me in a sexual way. It’s very objectifying

freja_sonja · Answer

I think it depends... If one is considered hot or sexy all their time, compliments about their cuteness would be more effective and heart-winning and vice versa; also if a woman for example finds everyone hot but a specific man "cute" it changes a lot in the perspectives

beebella · Answer

Can I just be gorgeous? Is that too much to ask? 😭

mstbooblover · Answer

No real idea. In both cases I would feel a bit odd, but be sure if a girl said anything similar to me and clearly invited me into intimacy, I certainly would feel very happy !

JPresidente · Answer

What if we’re a 🦄 and have the whole package? Or what if we have nothing? ☹️

AsaKyo · Answer

Would be nice to be called "sexy" once in life  Cute is all I ever get

Sparkie460 · Answer

I've had women calling me all of the above. Personally I think they all need glasses. Lol

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I have little interest in mass appeal, and in a perfect world my one person would think i’m all of the above AND a bag of chips! Ell oh ell!

Fireguy17 · Answer

I would have to go with ruggedly handsome. I've been around the block a few times, so I have a few battle scars here and there, but I think I would be a solid 5 or possibly a 6.

Soremain · Answer

I'd prefer sexy or handsome.. Sadly I've only been described as cute and pretty.. Puppies are cute and girls are pretty for fuck sake..

Zolly99999 · Answer

Sexy all day long.  I don't like the word handsome.

Fuentes · Answer

Handsome Is fine but everything else is SuS if you ask me lol

KelleyNice · Answer

Sexy is good. That doesn't imply I should dress skimpy.

YourFavoriteFriend · Answer

Sexy for sure! Been cute will not take me far in the end of the day!

dustybiker · Answer

Cute. Only my SO gets my sexy side.

exitseven · Answer

I think handsome. to bad I know it will never happen,.

Noahzaid · Answer

Anything that gives me the impression that you find me strong and confident.

Aikol · Answer

I would prefer to be called sexy than cute. But, paradoxally, I prefer a girl that is cute to a girl that is sexy...

UnknownSwede · Answer

It's a tricky situation for men when it comes to compliments. Cute or handsome you don't know if it is meant as they find you attractive or if it's out of pity like someone would say "look what a cute/handsome little boy" about a dog or child.

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

What is the difference between being Cute and being handsome?

Agent_Elflord · Answer

Cute/handsome. Sexy just doesn’t fit me, and I’ve grown to like cute.

TroyDT2 · Answer

Realistically I am average in both. I'd like to be considered fun and kind.

AdithyaR · Answer

Honestly I'd be happy if i heard any of those. Happens extremely rarely.

Guardian45 · Answer

Casanova and Cyrano de Bergerac were sexy, NOT cute or handsome. So are MANY celebs. I would prefer to be and am sexy!

Anonymous · Answer

Mostly cute, but sometimes sexy (especially with my man)

Sixgunsound · Answer

I don’t want the vast majority of people to consider me either option, or really notice me at all.

aquamarine321 · Answer

I’m already handsome, people tell me all the time, but they never said I was sexy

Dnice1 · Answer

Well I'm happy to be called cute which most people call me cute given my looks

OddBeMe · Answer

Not sure the difference. But sex is always the objective. So sexy

Grubhub · Answer

Cute, handsome ain’t enough for a woman to be into you

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I personally do not mind at all either way. I won't ever be offended if someone gives me a compliment.

Sarataí · Answer

It’s a compliment so I’m fine with it , except if they call me handsome lol (I’m female) 🤪

humanearth · Answer

Man I am so Hot, That I'm all of them

bigpauly · Answer

I’m already all 3 😎

Charliefretz329 · Answer

Sexy so they’ll give me rub downs lol 😏

bananathunder · Answer

i'd like to be a sexy mofo lol

Vikkrram · Answer

Nothing... i am not both at all 🤣

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Sexy sounds cooler.

Mamaganja · Answer

I’d rather be both lol. It’s possible.

LavLavLuv · Answer

cute

Brando10222 · Answer

I've been called both so I don't mind

DrBanana · Answer

Either as long as they are being honest.

thorboy · Answer

I prefer to be considered a GOD

EaterPeter · Answer

Whatever gets me clean pu**ys

Lee1515 · Answer

sexy and cute

Dat-Alpha-Lion · Answer

Cute cuz I don’t want any sexual harassment.

Anonymous · Answer

None of the above, they'd be lying to me to do it

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I am cute 😜

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