Why is it that we're entitled if we rely on a man but also entitled if we're independent?

[Anonymous]

It seems like a lose-lose situation either way. We're insulted either way.

More men are complaining about women putting little to the table besides sex. But if a woman (like myself and a couple others too) is on her own, puts more to the table and clearly doesn't need to rely on man, she's entitled too?

So this leads me to questions what do those men want then? It seems like she'll be judged either way.

[DoctorSex]

Think of it this way. If you wanted to give an Eskimo in the middle of nowhere, a gift... would you give him a self sustaining heater, a knife and a fishing rod.. or would you give me 100dollars?

If you're intelligent you'd give him what he needs, not what you think is more valuable. Get it?

What modern women are claiming they bring to the table, isn't what men have ever claimed they wanted or valued, yet many still want it to count.

And why can't you give him what he actually wants? Because the cold hard truth is..

YOU GAVE IT AWAY TO SOMEONE ELSE.

You know it, we know it... The cat knows it.

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[DoctorSex]

*What modern women are claiming they bring to the table, isn't what men have ever claimed they wanted or valued from a woman.

[Truth0225]

Whether ur independent financially or not, when ur with a man you are relying on him regardless. If someone breaks into your home, who will defend you? The man will. You are relying on him for security and protection. Entitlement isn’t the issue. The issue is feminism is trying to prove that women don’t need men, and women are equal to men. Which isn’t true at all. Women and men arnt equal. We both have things that eachother cannot do.

[Anonymous]

I have literally never heard anyone say a woman is entitled because she's independent. The problem with so-called independent women is they tend to walk around with a neon sign over their heads that says "I don't need a man". No self respecting man is going to be interested in a woman like that.

There's nothing wrong with being independent as long as you have a good personality, healthy attitudes toward men and relationships and know how to treat a man right.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll add that men like to feel needed, just like women do. Men show their love for a woman by doing things for them. If you take away any opportunity for a good man to feel needed, I guarantee he won't stick around long.