What did you learn in your 20s that you wish you knew in your teens?

[Kingofkings1992]

[Rosexøxø]

Don’t open a savings account unless you’re working.

Savings accounts don’t work for just gift money, and they’ll shut you down when you go under 😂.

All the gift money your grandpa gave you for your birthday- SAVE IT THE FUCK UP FOR YOUR CAR WOMAN

STOP TREATING EVERYONE TO THOSE LIMITED EDITION BURGERS AND KAYAKS FOR Christmas BECAUSE YOU won't BE ABLE TO DO THAT FOR LONG IF YOU DONT GOT THAT CAR

JESUS CHRIST 😂

Take that trip after internship and stop spending that government stimulus on your “friends,” whom you don’t speak to anymore from that same internship lol

SAVE UP FIRST

GET ESTABLISHED

THENNN

TREAT EVERYONE

Work as soon as you think of it. You’re ready, then. If you can’t get paid, do it as volunteer, until you’re ready to start a paid work history.

Be firm with asking your parents to teach you to drive.

Spend less summers on the phone and more working.

Forget your nephew and your single sister, they will turn out alright without you 😂. Nor will they thank you for any of the times you did help.

YOU DID HELP. Never forget that.

Move out before your sister so you can rub that in her face and take that to the grave. FUCKING JUMP ON THAT OPPORTUNITY LIKE A TIGER.

Ignore the relatives who just wanted you to give them attention, but in turn were demanding your focus to be away from your priorities and goals. You don’t owe them that attention. Give them the attention when you’re set. What were they willing to give you?

Never stop the grind, and think out the box earlier. Realize the truth, and forget those people you never needed, but assumed you did.

Remember love isn’t real. It’s a fairytale.

The only thing real about people is what they will do to assist you, work with you, and how well they’re willing to treat you- they don’t rate that on a word called love, they determine how well they will treat you by what they see as mentally fitting.

Their limits are within their I. Q. level.

You will outwork them and treat them like royalty. They won’t ever recognize it, so get yourself established and give yourself 90% of those efforts and the 10% to them. It’ll be more than enough for them.

Forget those men from the dms. You won’t ever start a real relationship like that. The no one falls in love with just a message. Messaging is entertainment. Sexting is a time passer and a risk.

Continue to see the messaging as a way to see their values as a person. Understand the live they live.

Find someone to live with later on when you’ve lived, and when they’re at a point where they know how to live, and want to.

Life is an adventure. There’s no purpose to it. It was a chemical reaction. You’re doubly crazy to be a part of that.

Never get angry.

All those years angry didn’t need to happen. All you had to do was realize the truth about anger. Could’ve spent half the time, but it’s okay.

Get your footing.
Get the leverage.

Change the system.

Then pursue your dreams.

Treat all well.

Never listen to another person and what they have to say about you.

They don’t understand you.

They weren’t with you.

They don’t know you.

They’ll never be you.

They don’t care for what you care for.

They’re not even going where you plan to go.

Never listen. It just won’t practically help you and the cause.

[Anonymous]

That the whole feminist promotion of promiscuity and having sex like a man with as many partners is bullshit. I just felt so used and abused and lonely after. Like one time I had a gangbang on holiday with 10 hot guys at the same time and it felt good at the time but after I'm lying on the bed naked and sore covered in cum alone while they all went out partying straight after. No you got to respect yourself as a woman.

[Anonymous]

Investing. Though I don't regret it. Because you gotta save, invest and make your money work for you. But you gotta enjoy life to otherwise what's the point? You're not going to live forever. I got serious about it in my mid twenties. That's still a lot of years to compound. So many people don't even start till thier 40.

[JBlade]

Stop being naïve and wasting time/energy being interested or worrying about girls. Not worth the trouble, better to keep to yourself.

[NathanDavis]

eating badly will mess up your insides... I knew it already but I got the confirmation

[kylee2437]

Wanting to causally date different guys doesn’t mean I need to screw them also

[Guy13]

Study more and party/drink less

[CoolCatMar1]

I am 18 so can't answer thisss

[Kingofkings1992]

Those in their teens need not answer. Lol 😆

[CoolCatMar1]

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