My sister doesn't talk to me or say hi? Any guess?

[Anonymous]

Me and her have this clash about kids, how she has them and I dont. She had kids cause she wanted them and I chose a life to be child free. But that doesn't mean I hate kids or that I don't enjoy seeing her babies, I hold and kiss them alott, I love them alott but she doesn't seem to love me back at all.

Iv had failed relationships cause of my life choice and she feels bitter towards me. I feel it's not for her to get angry and it's my life not her's and I don't judge her life at all or her past of relationships or events.

And over all I'm guessing this. So I don't know why she remains distant from me?

[Guy13]

Sounds like she does not trust your judgment

[Asker]

My judgement of what?

[Guy13]

In general.

[CuriousMufuxka]

According to your description, my guess is that she holds some sort of regard over you. In other words she acts like you ain't shit.

[Asker]

Why? I don't feel inferior towards her or anything like that..

[CuriousMufuxka]

My guess was based towards her behavior..

[Asker]

So like what is she thinking?

[CuriousMufuxka]

Hell if I know! You asked for a guess.

[Asker]

Lol okay.

[Anonymous]

Have you two always been this way?

[Asker]

I honestly don't know. But is it my fault?

[Asker]

We always had differences in our life choices.

[Opinion Owner]

You should think about it, because if it’s been like that with her then I doubt she’s feeling some sort of way about you not wanting kids and it’s just how her personality is. But in any case no, it’s not your fault for not wanting kids.

[Asker]

My mom also feels that she is distant from me..

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe, but not all siblings are close. Like for me, I’m super casual/distant with my sister and closest to my cousin as if she were my sister instead..

[Asker]

Really how come?

[Opinion Owner]

There’s not really a reason. I grew up with cousins as well, but I connected more that one than I did my sister. Maybe it was our personalities, our vibe was different.