Should men stop being shirtless?

[Anonymous]

Let's think about hot weathers, like 25°C to 50°C. Men are roaming around shirtless while women are wearing clothes (with bra and probably another layer inside). Both are feeling hot but women are having it worse especially with no air cooler around. But women cannot go topless because it's nudity but for men it's normal and he is feeling burned out. Since it's a matter of public decency, shouldn't guys be decent too? Also many women feel uncomfortable around topless guys just like many guys feel uncomfortable around topless girls. But girls don't complain because a guy being shirtless is normal. But shouldn't both be decent?

Yes. Men shouldn't be topless.

No. Men shouldn't be topless.

Yes. No one should be topless.

No. Everyone should have a right to be topless.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If that's the case then no one should be topless. Also, why do you even ignore the biological difference when it comes to being topless? But when it comes to society being more hostile to men hitting women than vice versa, men fighting back a woman who hits him being "unacceptable", men being having heavier sentences in jail for the same crime a woman made or any other double standards men face, you'd hear more of that "Because men are biologically stronger". that implies you saying men are just different from women. Well yes we are indeed biologically different and the reason why it's a bigger deal for women to show their boobs is because they are indeed sexual organs which is a part of the reproductive system and a baby can't grow without boobs. Men's boobs are just useless which is why it's not "valued" as much. And if you really like to argue that they aren't really sexual organs, then it wouldn't really be the case for some women to use their boobs to seduce men, get triggered over a female character with big/almost showing boobs because they feel it's a sexualization of women or they'd make it somewhat of a big deal if a man just accidentally touched their boobs or even just simply looked at them. A guy complimenting your face, not a big deal right? But you'd get uncomfortable if a guy compliments your boobs the same way they'd just compliment your face, clothes, other things not even in a sexual way. It's you who'd assume it's sexual when it comes to boobs which is a part of a reason why it sexual in the first place.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

"Men's boobs are just useless which is why it's not "valued" as much." <--- This made me think of another example. If a girl touches a guys boobs, no one would care but if it was vice versa, it's the end of the world. If you really like to ignore the biological difference, then society should just treat you like men.

[NewsReader]

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[Asker]

Wearing a bikini is fine at the beaches. Some places don't allow that.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because it's not a designated area for bikinis just like how you cannot smoke in areas that are not designated for it

[Asker]

yes. But I also feel it's unfair that men are roaming shirtless on the streets but some women are not allowed to wear tank tops even at home. My point is, everybody is human and everyone suffers from the heat but at some places women still have to wear layers. I mean, it's pointless to wear shorts in winters, unless you consider fashion. For me, comfort comes first.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And don't you think those other examples about double standards for men i gave are also unfair? Nobody is saying that no humans don't suffer from the heat but a light clothes is not enough to get someone to burn. Personally i don't really mind if men are not allowed to go topless because i don't go topless anyways even though i live in a hot tropical place because it's just not hygienic. If no clothes are going to absorb my sweat then nothing will. If you want to address the issues about women having to wear layers then you can address that issue. That is still however different from addressing your "issues" about women not being able to go topless.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh i only go topless if i am in my own space but i don't do it in public. Not only it is on hygienic but i also do feel uncomfortable and there is a reason why MOST men actually wear tops in public. Also if you want comfort first and you really want to go topless in public then don't complain if plenty of low life men would stare at your tits. There's a reason why precaution is being taught.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I asked you this question then. Should women be drafted? Why?

[Asker]

I used the wrong term, layers is more appropriate. In my area men walk topless in the streets while women wear layers. And as for the example with touching. I personally think it's inappropriate with both the genders. No one should do that. A guy definitely feels uncomfortable when a woman does that and I feel so bad that they cannot complain about it. People just move on. Some even say "lucky you". I am so disgusted by it.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Talking about layers and talking about being topless are two different stories. And if you really mean women not being able to go topless in public is actually an issue then you're still ignoring that biological difference that i'm talking about

[loveslongnails]

Check your local statutes. It might not be considered nudity if you have tape over your nipples, or some sort of covering on your nipples. If that's the case, go ahead and take your shirt and bra off and put on those pasties, and watch what happens!

[PrettyPriya]

This isn't so much of a thing where I live. You don't see guys just shirtless wandering around. So, it isn't much of a problem for me. Now, on holiday at a beach resort, sure I see plenty of them.

Doesn't much bother me though. I don't really even take notice. It is the way it is. I honestly do not feel the need to go topless just to prove a point of equality. I am perfectly fine wearing swimwear when I am at the beach.

I also do not give a toss that the guys don't. I think this is also going to vary from culture to culture. Some places are much more conservative than others. I know of plenty of countries (including my own but have very few) that it is more common to be nude than it would be clothed at a beach.

Now, just shirtless in public for no purpose? I do not run into that really at all. I also do not wish to go topless anywhere it would not be considered appropriate.

[Asker]

I think it's truly about the locality. There are places when women can't even wear jeans after the age of 14 or something.

[PrettyPriya]

I would agree with that. Locality + Culture is going to be a big factor. Not the only ones but big ones.

[Asker]

Also it's more about suffering. Bikini is fine but some areas don't even allow that without passing snarky comments.

[PrettyPriya]

That sounds like people that cannot mind their own business.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[LazerBean]

Unless you're at a beach or a pool, you really not going to see any men wondering around without a shirt. I lived basically all of my life in multiple different areas of the south, it doesn't happen. It's seen as trashy, and the maybe two times I've seen it happen in some random parking lot those boys were getting hardcore judged by the people around them. Even around beaches, a lot of places will specifically put up a "no shirt, no shoes, no service" sign. Now if you want to go move to a place where women popping their titties out is legal, then by all means. Just don't complain when you get judged and stared at the same way the men that do are.

[Asker]

Where I stay, men roam around shirtless. Not only at home but also at roads. At beaches women are dressed (covered), most men are topless.

[LazerBean]

That's interesting, when I go to a beach I can usually see between the butt cheeks of 50% of the women.

[Asker]

I think it depends on where you stay.

[LazerBean]

Maybe so, it's common in the south and on cruises though.

[Asker]

How is the temperature there? I mean there's no logic in wearing less clothes if it's not hot (unless u want fashion).

[LazerBean]

During prime beach season it's anywhere from 80 to 100 F

[LazerBean]

Most places I've lived at gets near 100 in the summer, but you're still not going to see anyone walking around shirtless if you aren't at a pool or at the beach.

[Asker]

Bikini or monokini is fine but at some places ever tank tops are frowned upon. You don't need to go completely topless to evade the heat. I cannot edit the question now otherwise I would have added that.

[NamerOfStars]

As is the case in so very, VERY many situations, women emphatically don't have it worse. Smaller size means less heat buildup from movement, and greater muscle mass (even more than the size difference would suggest) means it's higher still. On top of THAT, women channel heat less efficiently, and bleed it more. He's going to be quite a bit warmer than you are, even if your movement is the same.

That said, it makes more sense to extend rights than to retract them; don't let your bitterness make you lose sight of that.

[Asker]

I didn't know about that thank you for the info!

[Asker]

Also, I just asked, I haven't said retract their rights. These are all questions. I didn't affirm that. There's a question mark in the end.

[Anonymous]

In 1936, men on Coney Island protested for the right to swim publicly topless. https://fortunescrown.com/free-the-nipple-how-men-fought-for-their-right-to-be-topless/

At least women's nipples are actually useful, for men they serve no utilitarian purpose. Women should be allowed to go topless if men are allowed to do so.

[PatriceONeal]

Womens breasts are sxual organs used to attract males. We're the only species where women's breasts are enlarged while not pregnant becuaae they use it to attract men. So to flaunt your sex organs around in front of children is beyond disgusting. Yes for the millionth time your breasts are a sexuall ylly exogenous area and should be covered in public.

[Sjoerd85]

Everyone should have the right to be topless, also woman. And nudity is not indecent, as long as there is no sexual intend by the person who is not wearing clothing.

[FreyaRed]

Nope. Pretty boys shouldn't be allowed to go outside while wearing a shirt by warmer outside temperature than 19C.

[Asker]

What about other guys?

[FreyaRed]

I don't care, I don't see them anyway. XD

[the_bruh]

Wow, i never thought women would feel uncomfortable around a shirtless man.

[Asker]

I have heard people saying that they feel uncomfortable watching shirtless ken and they cannot strike a convo without feeling shy or disgusted.

[the_bruh]

Then I think the answer would be as to why they feel disgusted or shy by talking to a shirtless guy. I think seeing a shirtless guy isn't that bad of a situation, it's just the question of why he's being shirtless and what others would think of the shirtless dude and how they perceive it when you talk to them.

[Asker]

They don't question the man. But some women actually feel shy just like men feel shy.

[LimitedBenefits101]

We are men we do as we wish😎

Women in the other hand have to follow the law

But I do want to see pretty women topless not landwhales tho🤮

[KostasKouvalis]

Some of them. Like I don't wanna see your waxed shining chest or ripped 6 pack

[serious]

I think that is a choice.

[gorydetails]

suck it up, buttercup

[Snakeyes7]

You can't stop them.