Not really, nobody can buy a house when they’re young unless they get a big inheritance otherwise I would’ve loved to
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haha, i suppose so. for more than just one reason
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I think most girls grow up dreaming of romance, marriage and babies. They've mommied dolls, seen all the Disney princess movies, and heard all the songs about teen romance. They have unrealistic notions about love.
Once they pass puberty and get their new bodies, some girls think they are ready to fall in love with their first crush, have babies, and live happily ever after like in the movies. They think a man's job is to take care of them the way their parents did.
Other women have more sense. They aren't ready to end their life and become a servant before they have even begun to live it. They don't want to get tied down until they have gained education, survival skills, independence, life experience, and the ability to discern men who share their values, hopes, dreams and needs.
I think most women dream about marriage and babies. That's why they pursue relationships. But some are smart enough to wait until they find a man who will make a good partner for life.
I've read that the ideal age for a woman to have her first baby is 30 years old. By then, she is still in prime physical condition and has also developed the maturity to be a good mom.
And guy's brains don't mature until they are 25 years or so old. Plus, most men aren't in a position to support a family financially before their 30s.
My mom was 30 and my dad was 34 when they got married in 1953. I was born in 1954 and my sister three years later. So I don't think there is any rush to get married.
I think marriage is for life. It's a solemn promise. It's the most important decision we will ever make. Unfortunately, some people get married for immature reasons.
Some guys have a fetish for young women and virgins, so they are butt hurt that women no longer get married off in their teens. They are upset that women are no longer dependent on men for survival and won't put up with a guy who thinks he is the boss. They want compliant, dependent, submissive women. In other words, they don't respect women.If you can afford a good down payment - and especially if you have duel income and are situated career wise in a consistent area long term 5yrs+ getting a house is a great financial move. Payments may be similar to rent but you are building additional equity off each payment bi-weekly over time. It may also appreciate in value very minimally over long time horizon if held (not always though so be careful when expecting that).
As for getting married young - young woman may have a lot of benefit in that they are desired by both males their same age and males slightly older than them simultaneously. They will naturally try to find and attract the best suitors possible for themselves (whether that be one or several on rotation is up to the individual to decide what makes them happiest - and males will do the same).
Some girls may want to get married young to one person right away - others may chose. to explore and adventure. more. with different people rather than doing so with one person exclusively - that is a reasonable choice too. And males will do the same. Ultimately the individual should choose what choice will make them the happiest over the short and long term taken into consideration overall and pursue that choice - and hopefully they will find a partner or be with partner (s) who they love sharing life with who will want the same.
I think its two general reasons as there are two general types of women in this situation.
1. First type of woman wants to spend her teens, twenties and early 30s having fun, going on holiday, hooking up with different guys and maybe find a guy in her 30s to marry her and have kids with. She may accidentally gey pregnant at some point and have a kid or multiple abortions due to not being on birth control
3. Second type of woman meets her future husband in her teens or early twenties. Wants to get a college education, get a decent job, wants to save up for a wedding and a house, gets married before 30, gets pregnant a year after marraige.
Okay you gotta explain to me where those correlate lmao. I wouldve been fine marrying 18+. I would have been fine having a baby 18+. The majority of people in my family, class and town were doing so lol. And i didn't want that because they did it. I just always wanted it and was glad to see it would’ve been considered common here. Anyone who didn't buy a house young was just simply because they couldn't afford it at the time. I know for me, I never intend to buy one thats already been lived in. I want to build a house. Maybe some girls and guys feel the same/opposite? Lmao um I don't know. I still dont see the correlation.
I don't really comprehend the question. I married young, and my husband bought a house young. And all of our friends of both genders have tried their hardest to get married and buy a house Young.
I don't think so, young men don't want be free to "hookup with every apartment that catches their eye then settle for a house in their 30s"
Not only have I never heard of someone not wanting a house, most don't cause they can't afford it. I just don't think these two points are comparable.Women do want to get married young, every woman I know who wanted to get married either wants or wanted to do it young so I don’t know what you’re on about.
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Thats not true many women that I have seen would prefer to get married young
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I bought three houses before 30... I'm not married yet
Most woman wanna be married young? I never heard this different unless it's new but at the same time idc cause I'm not wifing nothing but this bag 🎒💰💒💍
they are other priorities. But I can refute this because buying a house young is equity. You want something to look good on your credit report
Everybody want to marry after achieving his goals
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