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Girls, Women have ruined dating with their unrealistic expectations : Why do women make dating feel like a job interview?
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You get what you can get vs the compromise you can afford. If their expectations are too high, they will end up alone, or with no "fun". If they are available to wait for some months or years until that "high standard" potential partner comes along, then that's also their choice and drawback. Some women can stay single for years, some can't bear that even for one month, so the level of compromise is up to them. Some want a relationship (majority I think), some want only fun with no strings attached.
On the other side, men are free to have high expectations in the same way and have the same type of compromise about time. You can do selection in the same way, I have a male friend who is single from at least 3 years and keeps going on dates, turning them all off, because of high standards regarding a lot of things that are not just "appearance". He is okay in being single, so why should he lower that? No drawbacks... And that puts him in the position of being the "company that interviews a candidate", not viceversa.By reading your comments under replies I think you have unrealistic expectations too because you seem to expect to have a "fun dating life" with lots of happy and easy women around, but you go picking them in contexts that are not meant for "so" casual dating, then complain. Well that wouldn't work that way. If you set a "normal" date with a girl she is most likely going to check you out as a potential partner, with expectations, so you should be clear from the beginning as well about what you are looking for, to not get a delusion later. Considering probably most women are serious and want a relationship, if you want that kind of casual dating then you should go to parties, events, beaches, clubs, and maybe using some dating apps that are mostly used for casual dating (I can't suggest any because I don't use any).
Other than that, if you don't like this way of "interview dating" yet look for a relationship at some point and not just casual dating, you can definitely avoid the whole dating process, ditching dating apps and getting to know women more naturally, through friends of friends, hobbies, courses, events, online communities, gym, jobplace etc. Just improving your social life will naturally take you to know more women, statistically. If you get to know them in a normal way like if they're not instantly "dating material" but actual regular humans (like if they are males, or your sisters), you'll give them a chance to know you better before jumping to conclusions, and you have the same chance on their regards, maybe discovering they weren't that great as you initially thought.
If you end up talking more personally with them like a friend and that goes spontaneously towards a closer and closer bond, well you pretty much bypass all the dating process. (Which I hate too, and I never been on a date except once in my teenage which led me to think: never again).
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303 opinions shared on Other topic. Dating is an interview for a life partner or for someone to spend time with
And that go both ways
If man have no standards honestly, its there issue, and its an issue when they go on then to compline they can't find anyone good, you dig your own hole there
Some may have unrealstic excpactions but some man do as well
Like when you meet man that think there woman should have no life what so ever outside of them, no friends, no family, no life, just them and the house
Or excpect to get photoshop models like only
What I personally want is a man that fit my personality, someone I can vibe with, and have a talk with and have a sense of huomor
If that is unrealstic then dam this world is sad
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What unrealistic expectations? My expectations are that he doesn't do drugs, smoke, or drink. Ideally, he has a similar personality to mine, but I have had crushes on men before that were different from me (but having said that, those were not fun crushes). I have heard men say that women have the impossible standard of men needing to be both passive and authoritative at the same time. However, I have actually been with men who have lived up to this standard in ways that were good enough for me. One of my ex boyfriends for example, always went along with whatever I wanted to do, but he would also initiate ideas for what to do on holidays, and he would offer to take the initiative to call places that needed reservations.
actually it's the men who made it hard imagine i am accused of hating my friends in elementary and everyone when in my dream with his wuest for the best mate he had bern followinh my classmates, relatives and even my sistets
he expected me to be all-smile while i am suffering heavily suffering in my house withthe ocd and dizziness and then expect mw to be grateful fir my erp which is also suffering
so what do you expect Adam i'll say " oh thank you i am sleepinh in a sauna-like environment, thank you for this erp" " oh thank you while i'm dizzy i have to do chores and kerp makinh my life moserable even outside the house
no person literally no person can endure this kind of torture!! n he wants me to be grateful for torturinh me because it is erp- m
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Quite frankly, because most women aren't stupid. When they want a relationship, they're not going to waste time with a bum who can't hold a job, a guy who thinks all his friends and family are "against him', or a guy who has no intention on being the best version of himself.
Women don't need to date potential, they need to know whos in front of them, what they're offering, and whether or not that person is actually in a place to back up those promises with action. - 1.3K opinions shared on Other topic.
If women didn't do that and were less picky and more willing to date then you would be the one calling them promiscuous whores and saying how they aren't respectable or dignified and when they get screwed over you would say that they were on the wrong for not choosing wisely.
Women are no longer swoon by just being nice because we're realizing that being nice is just an act if it is without genuine kindness.
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My expectations are that he’s reasonably intelligent, sensitive, has or wants a full time job and is at least ever age looking, my height and has hair and isn’t rough and uneducated. That’s not asking too much.
Some women could maybe stand to lower their standards, sure. But I think the bigger problem is, sone men have no standards. Which makes you resent someone that does.
435 opinions shared on Other topic. Because it is, in fact, an interview. That's the whole point of dating unless you are just wasting time.
People can't help but think " are you the one" . Just let it go 😐
Because fuck you, that’s why 🖕
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