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How much, if at all, does your personality change when you're around different people?
With my family I am 100% me except I hold back things I am ashamed of and I don't tell them those things or twist the truth about them.
With friends, it depends on the friend but I'm a bit different. I try to be funny and make all kinds of jokes. Sometimes I feel like I act a little bit dumb on purpose to get the person to laugh, I don't know why I do it... I know I shouldn't. I am also super polite and I try not to ruin things.
When I'm around co-workers, I don't try to interact with them. My last job I didn't smile I had a straight face, I kept it strictly business. There is a reason why I am putting my walls up. But one of them is because I'm not looking to make friends I just want to work/no drama. That literally didn't stop the few guys who ended up trying to ask me out still. I was flattered but I was also not looking to date. It's shocking that you can act like a soulless person and people will still flock towards you. I was hoping for people to leave me alone.
When I am by myself, I just stare into space. I am probably 100% myself but I'm also not trying to smile. Like around my family they'll get upset if I'm not smiling and so I always find myself fake smiling around them to make them feel better. When I'm by myself I dance a lot to the music I am listening to lol and I feel like I can really let my hair down and show my goofy crazy side but I only show that to myself.
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What a great question! Honestly it does change a little more so in energy (either I'm more energetic, more sofisticated, more relaxed, more romantic, etc.) and the things I talk about (with some people about girly stuff, with some boy stuff, with some politics, health, sports, etc.).
Some people know me differently because we talk about different stuff, but it's all always me. I never pretend to be someone I'm not
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It doesn't. I don't care enough about what most people in the world think of me (about most things, anyway) to change my personality around them. If people like me, great. If they don't, that's fine too. I'm not someone who is looking for a thousand close friends - I have a small handful, and that's plenty.
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Birds 🦅 of feather flock together and we normally lose more than we give until we are settled into a flock. The game ends and the real you shows up and it is not pretty. We are fallen and no matter what you think…you will find a place to Roost.
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i'm generally nice and friendly regardless of eho yoy are. with friends i'm more chatty. with my relatives i have funny relatives i jjust usually laugh and losten to them. i don't if this is included but i'm very much different online and irl. online i can have that feisty tone and i love jokinh because my comedy is more on written form. irl i always have that friendly tome. whwn i talk to my parents I don't know maybe it's just because we are talkinh long distance on a phone or it's because how they talk they talk loudly. i feel like i'm always screaming but we are just havinh normal convo no one is mad. when i talk to my ex or anyone on the phine i'm just chill.
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I don't think my personality actually changes but the way I act can change a lot based on things like how comfortable we are and how well we know each other, whether I think they are nice, whether they have authority over me, whether they are older or younger than me, and whether they are male or female, there are many more factors that could affect it but you get the idea. It also can be different based on whether I am tired, distracted, upset or happy, whether it is cold, etcetc. JMO!
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When I work with teachers and teach students at work, I go by the book and am civilised with everyone Wvhen I am with my closest friends I gre up in high school, nothing had changed. We male up stories and diss esch other at timres. We make fun of our own races, friends, families, societies government officials and even more of each other just for laughs like immature teenage boys.
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We are ourselves in front of the mirrors and disguise behind the filters of social media. The one who doesn't split based on the context, is all alone. There's only so much vulnerable you can ever be, a little more you're at a risk of being taken advantage of, little less you miss the edge of keeping a relationship going. Balance is a key to happiness and devoid of any tactics that requires active thinking.
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The perfect quote to sum me up is "My personality is who I am. My attitude depends on who you are"
So I adapt and change my attitude according to other people's personality.
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I make a conscious effort to maintain my personality. I may adjust certain greetings. I have to use mutiple languages on a daily basis so my personality will vary depending on what language I am speaking in.
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My personality is the same around people, but very very different when I'm alone.
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There's a slight difference between who I am at work and who I am with friends. And a very large difference between both of those and who I am when I'm alone.
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Oh mine does to much extent... in a sense of the way i treat them n also tye way i react... and also im not same type of person in chat and in real to those whom I've never met irl
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I think the only real difference is in how freely I speak. I'm also a little more fun with young people and more reserved with elderly people.
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I try to be professional at work 🤣 but my true personality shines through when people test me… how I act will depend on how you treat me.
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Just some minor changes and modifications depending on the situations but otherwise by and large it is the same.
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The only time I noticeably change is when I am around a cute girl and am intimidated… I get really quiet and usually a slut toe chocked up.
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It doesn't I'm always the same I'm a clown though 😜 What about you are you shy around people you just met
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My personality depends on how the other person acts. I don't like any BS or anything from others.
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My personality makes no changes. Just a different side gets triggered.
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All the time I kind of adjust or filter myself to whoever I’m with lol
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I'm able to blend in with so many different groups that I have been asked if I was schizophrenic.
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I can be both genuine and fake when I need to be. hahaha
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