Do you like being pushed outside of your comfortzone and vice versa?

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This dude that I literally just met today is already tryna change me and I ain't bout it  🤣 And he’s like “I bet I’ll change your mind by or before tomorrow”. Like ohhhh wanna bet? I broke one rule and this mf think he “got it like that”. Nah, you ain't winning this game of uno! Lol OVER HERE we make rules up as we go. I’m stubborn and set in my ways so I don't know why he think he’s doing something 🤣 The only thing I’m considering changing is my phone number so he can’t contact me again #FeelFreeToList

TrueConfection · Accepted Answer

Nope, not really. It's especially aggravating when I bend and take that risk outside of my comfort zone to make someone else happy and then I'm expected to do it again or do more. I found myself in that situation just yesterday. It makes me regret giving in the first time!

"Give them an inch and they'll take a yard."

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

Depends on the situation.
Someone is just calmly and in a healthy way wanna try something new and I'm comfortable with the idea, sure.

The dude you're describing? Hell nah.
I would have ghosted/ignored him right after that sentence.. no matter if it's over text or in real life. Ain't worth a breath.

Lliam · Answer

I sometimes go out of my comfort zone willingly and wind up have super fun. But I hate being "pushed" out of my comfort zone.

For example, one time my future wife and I and some of her friends were at a restaurant and a fat, belly dancer came out to dance. At one point she pointed at me to come up. I shook my head and tried to ignore her.
Then my future wife started laughing and pushing me and saying "Go ahead."
I gave her a sharp look and said no, but she didn't get it. She kept saying "Go ahead", all giggly, as if it would be so much fun.
I finally walked out onto the floor for a bit.
After we left the restaurant I was really pissed. I told her not to EVER do something like that again. When I say "No" I mean "No!"
She couldn't understand. She's the kind who will play along with just about anything for fun.

Like on our honeymoon, we visited the Trapp Family Home in Stowe, Vermont. You know, the Trapp Family from the movie Sound of Music? There was a large lawn sloping down to the house. I said it would be funny if she pretended to be Julie Andrews. The next thing I knew, she took of running across the lawn and spun around in the middle singing "The hills are alive with the sound of music" at the top of her lungs. Everyone around stopped and watched her. I couldn't believe it. I was laughing so hard that I almost fell down.

That's just the way she is. I'm not.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I believe a little stress makes life enjoyable so there are certain stressors I accept, such as going on vacation when I’m often exhausted or thirsty. I also like to go on long walks even though it can lead to foot pain, or carry heavy objects for the work out.

Shark_61695 · Answer

There are areas where I wouldn't mind and areas where I would. I want to do more stuff but I don't want the relationship to progress too quickly.

Screenwriter · Answer

Change is always up to the person in question. Anyone thinking they can change someone else is quite foolish.

On the other hand, don't be averse to change. Sometimes other folks, whether you want to admit it or not, have good ideas for you. It's sometimes worth considering change you've never thought of...

AdithyaR · Answer

Only if I do it myself. I'm fine pushing myself out of it but I hate it if others try to do so

Siri137 · Answer

I don't, I'm very resistant to it, but at the same time I see my comfort zone as a trap, a prison I have to break out of so that I can be far more spontaneous and willing to try things that are scary but may be rewarding.

Red-Blaze · Answer

I mean I like to try more stuff and going beyond what I did before But its still me, and what I set as a limit is a brick wall that no one can push over

Sour-rose · Answer

No, i don't but if I didn't, I wouldn't be writing this at 6:35 Am after getting off my shift of my job that put my feet through hell but I did work.

Christoff92 · Answer

Damn hell yeah 😁

RobT312 · Answer

It’s nice to be challenged on occasion, so yes. but if the point is to “change someone” then no

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am a rebel. I am comfortable being uncomfortable.

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Lol

RavVid · Answer

I prefer pushing people outside of their comfort zone rather than the reverse.

hiyamotherfers · Answer

Sometimes. It depends who is pushing me. I need it to be someone I trust or someone I'm beginning to trust that way the trust grows.

Anemone978 · Answer

No I don't but sometimes it is for the best.. to become a better more well rounded person.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I actually prefer to stay in my comfort zone

Anpu23 · Answer

I like challenges, I am often pushing myself beyond my own limits. So yes, I do like it when people push me a little.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Not really no I don't like being pushed to do things I clearly know I don't want to do.

Rudon00 · Answer

Frankly speaking I don't like change , but I know its envitable and I detest having to operate outside of my comfort zone

Msputiton · Answer

Like to be pushed depending on what we talking about.

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