My cousin is my same age (26) and she's been with her boyfriend for 3 years now. Even though her family like the guy, she's uncomfortable whenever her mother and other older female relatives keep saying ''your future in-laws''. When it was Mother's day, in private her mother said along the line ''oh I'm sure your MIL will like it''.
Her family are treating the guy too nicely and overdoing it. The family keep praising the guy for taking her on trips, spending time with her, showering her with gifts sometimes, etc. He's gentleman alright, giving her eveyrthing, everything except an engagement ring, LOL.
I think while there is no engagement ring there is no victory there. He can still enjoy her company for the meantime (all the feeling and free access to sex, big deal... any boyfriend can give a girl that) break up any moment and leave her childless. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but in my observation that relationship has slowed down by now.
For anything in life, isn't it stupid to be claiming victory when you're not even close to the finishing line nor even reached it?