Do you think the average person can survive your trama?

[Anonymous]

How many people do think could not only make it through your trama but make it as a functional adult.

Me personally I say nope I pretty sure the average person would be a meth addict if they fallowed my path

[Sonorous]

Well I've experienced some major lows in life. To the point where I have entertained thoughts & even preparation for suicide. But I don't think I can know how the average person would handle it. 🤔 I don't think my trauma amount, survival length, & current mental state are anything anomalous/a statistically significant deviation.

[AaronKrieger]

Sure. However, I don't think many would deal with it in the same way I have. I'm not saying I am particularly special, but that my brain handles trauma differently. It's oddly objective or self-aware to an extent.

For example, as a kid, I saw my mother cheat on my step-dad and I told him about it. I was given shit for it, but it never tainted how I saw my mother. This was despite potentially losing the 5th guy she had brought into our life (first guy she remarried after my dad). I never thought about it further, since there was no point. My brain just knew it was best to move on.

[Agape93]

Nope. I was nearly murdered and tried to kill myself twice so far. Only reason I survived was help from loved ones

[MemeSupreme]

im somewhat functional lmao so i can't really talk. i feel like it'd be narcissist to think no one can

[Christoff92]

See. I can control my emotions most of the time. Someone with my emotions would walk infront of a moving vehicle and end his/her life. That's why suicide and attempted suicide is so know. Especially here in Toronto, Canada.

[ShesRad80]

no effin way- those who know me on here, know my story and why i can say that so freely

[ProbablyClueless]

Um... I've had some pretty wild stuff happen to me, so probably not.

[Anonymous]

I don't think most women could. But otherwise yeah.

[Asker]

Most women?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, this isn't meant as a knock on you or women. I've been single my entire life. I think women have "need" to be pair bonded more than men. I think this affects women mentally more then guys. Guys are conditioned to swallow thier feelings more than women are.

[Asker]

It is definitely pushed harder on a women to be paired up by the time they are 25 but I've been alone in every aspect and I'm 23 no family no friends and no lovers I honestly don't got beef with it

[Anonymous]

Doubtful, loneliness is hard enough for normal people. 10 years of extreme loneliness is likely to lead many to end things. And that doesn't include the trauma of an abusive father.

[DomeVélez]

probably cause I barely experienced any trauma

[DryGermanGuy]

"Trauma" or "drama"?

[Asker]

Trauma

[TrillXHippy]

No one would survive