Name one thing women can do better then men?

[coachTanthony]

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Amazing how all the women list things that men simply can’t do by given nature like give birth lol Not the question ladies lol

[Rosexøxø]

Well…I didn’t even have to think, after reading the title of the question, lol.

We can usually spell a larger amount of words “better” than* men can. Better spelling in our main languages and even when learning new languages. I have spoken to men from India and then afterwards their sister or girlfriend, who were also learning English, and the girls- 2 times out of 3- spelled better and spoke more fluently, than their male relatives/companions.

My nephew and a friend of his still struggle to spell and read, a bit. They’re 10.. and I knew a lot more complex words at their age, and pretty much could spell anything in the “layman’s lingo,” (according to state) up until… I don’t know, maybe middle school-level vocabulary.

I obviously couldn’t handle ALL of the high school-level words at my primary level (back then). I learned the high school vocabulary, and a bit of college-level at that time (high school), and then that was about it. I plateaued and halted on increasing my vocabulary, as I wasn’t looking to become a writer professionally, didn’t have a social circle with an adept vocabulary base, and most people my age and in these 21st century societies of the latest decades, have not resorted to using anything college-level or above. It’s rare to see that.

But yes, that’s one thing women can do better than men- express their emotional selves- better than anyone could ever translate, and of course speak with fluency, and have nice, legible writing styles, as well as efficient spelling.

I would have to guess women (USED TO) be good at social cues and social psychology. Not all of them, today, and not always, as people these days are somewhat drifted/ distant from social/ financial/ religious/ theoretical stereotypes and/or “norms.”

[Rosexøxø]

I always took pride in my spelling and my social skills in the public arena. If there was one word many adults, from different events had said, it was I was very mature for my age (then). When I took spelling tests in elementary school, around 1-3 grade- I was always getting 100% on them. I was actually shocked to see people trying to cheat on those as spelling the words seemed pretty self-explanatory, hence the teacher saying “sound it out.”

Phonics… Phonetics…memorization. How much easier could it be?

[Rosexøxø]

It’s particularly interesting that women usually have nicer hand writing these days, and can convey their emotions well (usually), when back in the day, women weren’t even allowed to read, and such. Some read, but still couldn’t even write. I don’t know- I guess they romanticized that subject of writing.. psychology, and all.

Don’t ask me to spell anything today, though. 👐 I threw most of it in the back filing cabinets, and some may have flown out the window. Why communicate well, when nobody listens or even gives a Hoover Dam 🦫 😆

[strateguy632]

so "spoken" shows how they spell?

[Rosexøxø]

@strateguy632 let me clarify both text feedback and audible.

If a guy is skipping words in his spoken effort to speak English and I notice those same missing words in his text format it’s clear to see he had skipped or didn’t put a lot of effort into his learning. Not all who attempt to learn English are this way, and I’m not making stereotypes either. I’ve spoken to enough who made efforts and those who were clearly careless and even admitted they never took a formal class.

I also know you’re a non-English speaker and that’s why you felt the need to reply to my comment, maybe you have tried but not as much? I won’t discuss your own efforts actually.

If you’re taking what I said personal you can just ignore me.

You’ll be okay.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You're not better at expressing, you're just given an easier time to do it.

If women are told to man up, they can't handle it like men do.

[Rosexøxø]

@Aiko_E_Lara I said express themselves better than anyone can translate meaning no one knows a woman’s emotions better than herself. Guys like to be good and even really great at things. Practical things. Technical things. But men can never ever know how a woman is feeling better than herself. Many times I have conveyed my reasons for disappointments and men I have come across have tried to assume “what was the matter/ issue.” Many times they would guess falsely and try to “comfort” me with some object, action, or word that was completely irrelevant to what I was feeling/has felt, and/or why I had felt that way. As far as ABILITY to express which is something I can tell you’re quite passionate about, I would say yes women are better because women do struggle with shame or embarrassment if they cry in public and that’s because they don’t want to be seen as weak. Just as men don’t want to be seen as weak by their male peers or father figures? Anyways it is usually other WOMEN who provide or try to provide a safe/ non judgmental atmosphere for a woman who seems to be experience troubles coping with emotions, traumas, or life difficulties. I don’t see men offer this to women. Men nowadays in 2k23 tend to be apathetic, bored, fake, etc. when they see a sad woman, treating her like a boy who cried wolf or just a channel on the tv. I don't know the reason for that- could be a plethora but I assume it’s even worse for men amongst themselves as ALSO nowadays in 2k23 it seems men tell other men to toughen up, grow harder, stop giving shits, leave things be, throw one back 🍺 , light one up 🚬, hit the gym 🥊 etc. sure yeah beat your demons but seems increasingly hostile. I hope men get what they need.

[Rosexøxø]

Despite what their own kind and mankind’s society has put them through, I don’t see any guys actually trying to express or others trying to create that environment where the bros they cared about could express.

Women aren’t the ones to blame for this- back in tbe olden days men and women were given roles-

Native Americans had duties to their people their ancestors and their descendants. That duty usually quieted their access and liberty to express themselves. The same is so for the Europeans and English. In courtships, roles of housewives, husbands, maidens, bachelors, etc.

I didn’t give any man the role- just clarifying that 🤷‍♀️

Don’t confuse SOME women and SOMEEE men today who talk about “roles” because that’s usually according to their own RELATIONSHIP needs- for support; etc. nothing hallucinatory. Some do abuse those *requests*

But this is not my battle. I can’t be a spokesperson for all men and women. I expressed what I know. I shared my opinion in regards to the question, and whether I clarified further or not, you can’t change my opinion.

If you, yourself have been truly hurt by a female or in general by society; etc, I apologize for THAT alone. Nothing else.

[Rosexøxø]

To add and to be fair every ethnics culture laid out the list of duties expected from Europe to china Africa and all over the globe. Those “duties” were given by strict parents, strict leaders, and etc.

People in the same age groups MAY have given some level of harsh rebuke for any “softness” displayed but usually that was not the case. So recognize who you’re mad at and don’t put everyone in the same boat 🤷‍♀️

Women and children first

LMAO IM JUST KIDDING IM JUST KIDDING WE WILL ALL RIDE THE BOATS AND DIE TOGETHER LMFAO

[Aiko_E_Lara]

TLDR all of it but you can perhaps skip to the point if you're so good at expressing. You given an easier time doesn't make you the better one at expressing. Lets have a race for example. You take the plain path, i take the rocky path and if you win, that doesn't make you the better runner. Its because you had the plain path. And its not even just men telling other men to man up, its also women and women may tell men that its ok to open up, but they are just going to use their emotions to their advantage or theyd just do it wrong. Men being told to man up is to encourage and help him strengthen up by appreciating them which men appreciates men more than women do instead of what women do like letting men just accept defeat and not even just appreciating them.

Anyways, you're saying men never ever knowing when it also takes two tango. Women can never ever know what a man is feeling better than himself. You're speaking for men yet you yourself don't even know what it's like for most men.

[Pinay_ako]

Make something hard without even touching it …

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣

[pierre7i]

@Pinay_ako - brilliant !

[legalboxers]

on point.. no pun intended

[AviatorTom]

@Pinay_ako That's very good... Remember that Men can make something wet without even touching it... 😎

[Pinay_ako]

@AviatorTom touché

[andreasderjuengere]

Ha ha :) ... thinking about it: how would the world be like if also the ladies become hard... 🤔
I suppose, that's ''equality''?

[JesseP1nk]

Mans life? :)

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[RavVid]

It is hard to find anything actually. I am taking that to be best of the best.

Even in make up and hairdressing and fashion in general men dominate.

Cooking - men dominate. Even in child rearing single male households do better I heard last night on Pearlythings.

Even with a specialized speech center in the female brain that men just don't have (we have a specialized spatial center instead) the best salepersons are men and the most notable literature is by men.

I think there is a reason why women are picking being a woman as what woman are better than men.

Evolutionarily there just haven't been the same benefits for women to excel as there was for men.

[tylrswftversion]

i don't think doing better at something has anything to do with the person's gender (except things related to the body nature like sports that need physical strength because men are naturally stronger but women do better in sports that need flexibility because they are more flexible by nature), as i said it's not about the gender but about that person's intelligence, skills and hard work. And if men are dominating a lot of fields, it's not because they are better or smarter, it's because first there are still girls denied access to school in various parts of the world or they are given limited opportunities by stopping them from leaving their countries or sometimes even cities for studies, second even in now developed countries women have only relatively recently begun to gain more rights and given chances , while men have been leading for ages now, so of course this disparity of years will make men powerful, and in fact women are still suffering from lack of opportunities and discrimination and still sabotaged by men in work, also the traditional gender expectations for women to take care of their families and houses put limits to women despite their potentials ; there are a lot of women who gave up promising careers to take care of their families and i'm not against it at all (in fact my mom did this and i would do it too because i simply values family more than career), what matters is to be given the choice and not forced to do it. SO if men are doing better in many fields it's not because they're more skilled and smart but it's because a lot of women don't compete either forcibly or by choice.

[Anpu23]

Walk in heels, have you tried that?

[coachTanthony]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Anpu23]

Thanks for MHO coach!

[Alli39]

All women collectively as opposed to all men collectively? Nothing in particular. Individual variation vastly outweighs sexual dimorphism. But trend wise, we tend to be more flexible (the number of guys that can't touch their toes is actually kind of funny to me). Socially, we're taught to be more empathetic, supportive, and often nurturing. We also tend to be less intimidating due to differences size/appearance so it can be easier to approach people without causing problems.

But like, not all women and not all men, ya know? Being female doesn't make me inherently more empathetic that every dude on the planet and I've met guys that are way more flexible than me because they've put in the effort to become that way. It's also true that a lot of gendered social behaviors are learned rather than inherent.

[Rosexøxø]

I like you :]

Very advance approach to the question and thought process here. I like what you know.

[Deformate]

See, this kind of level headed and unbiased, intelligent answer is the kind of response I look forward to reading.

[Rosexøxø]

@Deformate don’t ruin the link with your contaminated upsets. Let logic be.

[Rosexøxø]

@Alli39 and you know the question does say what one gender can do better than the other and tbh it’s biased of a question

No demographic does anything better as perfection is not exactly a destination but a constant journey and everything in life is learned. I also think societies, for the most part, are past any biological/physiological factors that help in a certain job.

The difference between men and women would have to almost 100% be physical and rarely cognitive as there are few limits on what we can learn and/or remember.

[Deformate]

Rose? I was saying that when people speak like Alli did, with an open mind, level head and unbiased attitude, its a delight to see. I can't see how any part of that was negative and I don't know what a contaminated upset is but I'm very sure you misread what I said.

[Alli39]

@Deformate @Rosexøxø Please don't argue in my replies 🥺 I'm glad you both are enjoying my writing and appreciate the compliment.

[Rosexøxø]

🥹 o sorry

[Alli39]

@Rosexøxø np np :)

[RingOfFire]

I find it fascinating how people in your generation struggle to find contorted ways to prove that there is no inherent difference between men and women. I agree with your point that out of 7+ billion people on the planet you can always find a tiny percentage of exceptions (a few men who are more flexible than a few women, etc.) That proves nothing. The physical and mental differences between men and women that are not related to learned or practiced behavior, but rather to millions of years of evolutionary adaptation and natural design are VAST.

Your generation has become so obsessed with disproving the obvious that there are many of them who believe that men can become pregnant! It's lunacy!

Flexibility by the way, since you brought up that example, isn't simply a function of how hard you work on it. Women are far more naturally flexible than men because of their bone structure, their greater amount of the estrogen hormone and elastin in their muscles. It's one of an enormous number of differences between the male and female body. Many of the differences in women, particularly the flexibility advantage is an adaptation from nature that relates to child bearing as the pelvis area of women is particularly structured for extra flexibility.

I think far more of the differences between men and women, both physical and mental than many people think, especially people in your generation, are natural not learned differences. I think the notion that they are learned causes people to try to force themselves to live out of sync with their natural design and that is why there are so many in your generation who seem lost, depressed and suffering from gender confusion.

[Deformate]

@Alli39 @Rosexøxø No no we aren't arguing. I think we just had crossed wires. We both loved the answer.

[tylrswftversion]

i don't think doing better at something has anything to do with the person's gender (except things related to the body nature like sports that need physical strength because men are naturally stronger but women do better in sports that need flexibility because they are more flexible by nature), as i said it's not about the gender but about that person's intelligence, skills and hard work. And if men are dominating a lot of fields, it's not because they are better or smarter, it's because first there are still girls denied access to school in various parts of the world or they are given limited opportunities by stopping them from leaving their countries or sometimes even cities for studies, second even in now developed countries women have only relatively recently begun to gain more rights and given chances , while men have been leading for ages now, so of course this disparity of years will make men powerful, and in fact women are still suffering from lack of opportunities and discrimination and still sabotaged by men in work, also the traditional gender expectations for women to take care of their families and houses put limits to women despite their potentials ; there are a lot of women who gave up promising careers to take care of their families and i'm not against it at all (in fact my mom did this and i would do it too because i simply values family more than career), what matters is to be given the choice and not forced to do it. SO if men are doing better in many fields it's not because they're more skilled and smart but it's because a lot of women don't compete either forcibly or by choice.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I don't even know, and I'm a woman lol.

So I'll do a guy version of the question.

"What is one thing men better than women?"

Honestly though, dudes have a much wider variety of T-shirts like anime, music, video games, etc..

Us women's clothes just has fucking flowers, polka dots, stripes, and plain solid colors.

Dude shirts all the way. Extremely comfortable and not constricting.

[gothbxtch]

inherently, all women? we can identify as women better

[Spongebobssocks]

Being nurturing, we have better patience when it comes to take care of kids. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5110041/

it's ingraved in our DNA.

[Deformate]

Agree to disagree. There are many studies showing the contrary.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Deformate can you provide accurate links with studies to your claim?:)

[Tshsjjdshjsu]

@Deformate showing what? That women don't have more patience?

[Lionman95]

Take care of details that later turn out to be important. Like a guy can clean a house but women are better in making it look good and choose the right interior.

[DermalPunch]

And leave the bathrooms to the women.

[Lionman95]

You mean in terms of using or cleaning?

[DermalPunch]

Well using too for me. I hate sharing a bathroom with a man 😨 But yes cleaning is what I mean.

[Lionman95]

@DermalPunch Not sure if I agree on that because I think guys should know how to clean the bathroom. Especially a guy who thinks he can pee standing and not sitting down.

[DermalPunch]

Men's idea of a clean bathroom and women's idea are contrasting to say the least.

[Lionman95]

That´s true though.

[DermalPunch]

See what I mean. To be fair, if women See one spot near a toilet we freak out.. oddly, in work bathrooms and at school women's bathrooms are like a gate of Hell so I don't know what's going on there.

[Nikki1989]

Listen. Most men are like talking to a wall. In one ear and out the other.

[KingOfMe1]

That's not a gender thing... So you're wrong.

[msc545]

A lot of women are very tangential when they speak.

[AviatorTom]

@Nikki1989 I respectfully disagree with that assessment. In general, men are very good at listening, it's just that we men get bored when the story is too long. Women tend to tell long stories, while men tend to tell concise stories.

[AviatorTom]

@Nikki1989 Here's a perfect example of women and men talking...
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/NEOdNNmTYSM

[Nikki1989]

@AviatorTom That hasn't been my experience at all.

[strateguy632]

as if women listen. they dont.

[msc545]

@strateguy632 Women listen just enough to learn things they can use against you.

[nastyb]

Empathy, communication, parenting skills, being caring, listening, not commiting crime

These are all things women are better at than men

[ShadezMcgee]

Capitalize on their sexuality and make money.

[Siri137]

Empathise. Apply makeup. Endurance swimming. Keeping violent impulses under control. Give birth (men can't do that at all). Tolerate pain. Read minds. Connect with the spiritual realm in general. See a greater variety of colours, and shades thereof.

I could go on. :)

[Siri137]

Oh damn, I just saw your update. Okay, scratch "giving birth" from the list.

[Tshsjjdshjsu]

Do you think women keep violent impulses under control better, or do they just have less? Because if they did keep them under control better, I'd think that would apply to impulses in general, and I don't see that and we do know that men have more violent impulses to begin with, because to violent impulses that don't need to be controlled, like the 'impulse' to develop in martial arts, we see it much more in men.

[Bricealan]

1) Pick the best clothes for a man. Most men have no idea how to dress for any function.

2) Pick the most practical options when buying a new car (My lady friend helped me accessorize my Tesla S, and the options were absolutely the most bang for all the bucks.

3) Plan a party, or any kind of get together with friends.

4) Shall I go on coach?

[Johnny4473]

1? Seriously... just 1?


1. Dress
2. Be intimate
3. Nurture
4. Gossip and reputation destruction (seriously ladies you are the Champs in these)
5. Hugs
6. Make silly and cute faces
7. Be vulnerable
8. Gaslight
9. Make you feel strong enough to be able to handle anything.

[Yannishka]

Have the opposite sex throw themselves at you for simply existing.

[dolemite58]

that is one of the most truthful things i’ve ever heard a girl admit to 😂

[Staximus]

Yeah I don't have that problem very often🤔

[chrissykerdock]

make a man hard... look better in a miniskirt... give a blowjob... have intercourse with... have babies,,, if you don't agree than your obviously a homo sexual not that there's anything with that.

[nik0102]

only at the making babies part...

[Anonymous]

We are better with dealing with our emotions and pain. We are better in communication. We are better with concent. Better in empathy. We have a better balance. We can flirt better. We are more flexible. We are more creative. And we eat pussy better 😂 I can make my women cum. Many males have a hard time doing that.
I can list more things. But I just like women better in general.

[Apple1996]

Express our emotions

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Let's have a race, You take the plain path, i take the rocky path and you won. That doesn't make you a better runner.

Women don't experience the whole man while man up like men experiene and yes it is also from women which makes that an obstacle when we have to express our feelings.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You're not better at expressing, you're just given an easier time to do it.

If that also the case then women should be able to handle and not complain when being told to woman up better than men being told to man up.

[Apple1996]

@Aiko_E_Lara that is all true but it's because of other man that men feel the need to man up and not show emotions. Not because of women so not much i can do to help that besides allow men to be open around me

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That is if you actually know how. Also may haven't tried being told that it's ok to open up then later take advantage of their feelings which happens to a lot of men opening up to women

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You see that's what i mean by obstacles.

If women had been told to man up, i don't think they're going to last.

[Apple1996]

@Aiko_E_Lara taking advantage of someone is never good.

And honestly I don't think it's just men. I've been told basically to man up/get over things many times in my life. Had someone here just the other day telling me to get over my depression. As if I can control that lol. Also have been told not to cry or show emotions mostly as a kid but a few times as a adult too. I think some people just don't know how to be supportive so they choose to tell those people not to show emotions instead of being supportive

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Anecdotes don't prove anything when the statistics shows men commits suicide 4 times more than women, it's very clear that men have experience worse on AVERAGE.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also, you as a female will have an easier time reassuring as there's always those people who have soft spot for women. Article about "women are wonderful effect" explains it

[Apple1996]

@Aiko_E_Lara women are more likely to attempt suicide. But I don't think it's some competition. If someone needs to express their emotions then they need to find a safe place to do that just because a lot of people are judgmental and won't care regardless of your gender

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You forgot one thing. Success tends to come with attempts so think again. Sometimes attempts can be ignored if succeeded or they can just be ignored at all. Being dead due to suicide is an objective thing anyone can record. Someone talking about wanting to commit suicide can just be ignored in which case, happens to men more due to the sympathy gap.

[RingOfFire]

You could call it "expressing emotions" or you could call it "constantly making a big deal out of nothing" depending on how you look at it. 😁

[Grond21]

Pick up on emotional nuances when other people are speaking.

[FreyaRed]

Better eye hand coordination and more precise fine movements. For jobs under microscope or behind a scope are girls better suited

[ManOnFire]

Studying people. Even if it's really annoying.

[Anonymous]

Here we go again with the usual generalizations and gender bait

[midnightmoon05]

Nagging.
Im a woman and hate when women nag. Men don’t do this.
men may complain about stuff…but I don’t they they nag like women do.

[Luopio27]

Example please!

[midnightmoon05]

@Luopio27 example of?

[Luopio27]

Nagging!

[midnightmoon05]

@Luopio27 you want to be a smart ass? End of conversation. Lol…see you can’t get me to do that.
If anything, you need to proof to me/us that you can be one. But I doubt it.

[Luopio27]

Now I get what you mean by nagging. Thank you.

[molonski2]

Washing / Ironing / Cleaning , speaking generally of course.

Throw in make up I suppose

[andreasderjuengere]

... walking in a set of shoes that defy basic laws of physics?

[inhua]

emotional manipulation whether on others or themselves

[DermalPunch]

No. Men have that part cornered. Calculating always trying to get the best of a woman for nothing.

[Simslover92]

I'm not sure. Can't say make-up because I've seen some guys do that better on YouTube.

[WhitneySnow]

Most women are better at wearing makeup but some guys are good at that too

[Sparkie460]

Have babies, nagging, complaining, manipulating.

Sorry ladies

[Likes2drive]

Getting the opposite sex’s attention and getting lucky, multi tasking, typing, linguistic, and ballet

[AngryCarl2]

Women are actually really good at spending money, even if they mostly spend it on useless junk.

[LiamJHayden]

Universally if fertile: give birth. Generally, show compassion, listen.

[dolemite58]

they’re extremely skilled at complaining about things and making life miserable for people around them til they get what they want. 😁

[Anonymous]

Bounce their tits, take sperm up their cunts, make babies and milk, squirt, sing the high notes, math.

[DermalPunch]

Carry and give birth to children.

[strateguy632]

better means man could but not as good.

[DermalPunch]

@strateguy632 I know my answer is off the mark some. I just felt like saying it though because people seem to forget how much of an important thing that is. People almost look down on women for giving birth these days.

[Anonymous]

Argue for hrs. on end without ever making a coherent point.

[msc545]

Makeup, hair, have babies.

[madhatters4]

deliver babies

[BoopBoopBeep]

Clean their vagina

[Billlewis]

Make me jealous as hell.

[XXblack88]

talking your ear off

[Anonymous]

Express emotions, comforting others, looking good, be sympathetic etc.

[jennifer_bloom]

Decorate their room pretty colours

[JackCarter]

Is a comparison neccasary?

[Alwayreckles93]

Being over dramatic.

[katiesmuff]

In most cases eat pussy!

[sheenagwapa]

women are more beautiful than men

[DrKrieger]

Distinguish colors better

[Rosexøxø]

Totally forgot about that one. Nice

[MemeSupreme]

multitask

[Dargil]

Bear and breast feed children.

[najekim]

Be a loving mother.

[Unit1]

That picture sums up what i was gonna say.

[Anonymous]

Change diapers!

[Anonymous]

Being flexible in various positions as requested

[Staximus]

Not start stupid wars

[grega239]

Manipulation.

[grega239]

Funny that i could think of anything positive.🤔

[NamerOfStars]

Get pregnant.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Some women have that inability.

[NamerOfStars]

@CrimsonAngel09 True, but he said "women", not "every woman".

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Women are better at being women

[legalboxers]

make us stop and stare...

[SxcSierraa]

Carry a baby for 9 months lol

[Jmmmfi4]

Cooking and cleaning

[Mallic00]

Women on average are way more flexible.