MOST women that match the proper qualifications for marriage are average looking, true or false?

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Hold up hear me out before y'all poke me with pitchforks, I capitalized MOST because I'm clearly not saying all but for the majority I have noticed that MOST of the women that meet the certain requirements for marriage that make a guy feel comfortable about seeing a future with them are on the average side, they aren't stunning, I'm not saying they aren't beautiful because they might be but they aren't stunning, I've noticed MOST women that carry highly blessed genes in appearance are flawful in personality in one or several aspects, this is what I've personally noticed so I want to see if it's true to anyone else.

Now ladies, this isn't a gender war thing, I would also like to hear about anything you've noticed when it comes to something like this, have y'all noticed something similar like this in men? 🤔

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I mean, most people are average looking, right? And are most people marriage material? Debatable😂

To be real with you, don’t handicap yourself in the love game with all kinds of rules and standards. Obviously maintain decent standards in terms of not dating women who are no good for you in a practical sense of some sort, but don’t get too hung up looking for this perfect-on-paper woman with all the measurables. It’s a huge world with literally billions of women. Don’t wait around til you’re 33 to find someone who meets the criteria just to take on a first date.

You want to throw a fair amount of darts at the board. You hope to only have to throw a couple before you get somewhere close to a bullseye. You gotta go through it to get to it. You don’t have to tear through a hundred women, but just experience different ones and really get a feel of what you want and what you don’t. And you’re gonna be hanging out with her in sweatpants on the couch a lot more than you’re going to be making grand entrances at cool events, so don’t worry about finding a beauty queen. This is supposed to be for life, and half of it you’re gonna be old and wrinkly, so make sure this is someone you really get along well with, that you can be yourself with. The most beautiful woman is the one who love to spend time with and the one who loves you the best, trust that.

Don’t even trip on marriage material standards. People are people, everyone has their bullshit. Find someone who has a manageable amount of it who will also put up with a reasonable amount of yours. I feel like looks kind of handle themselves and we usually end up with people relatively comparable to ourselves. I don’t know quite how it shakes itself out, but just walking around the supermarket, that generally seems to be the way of the world. But that’s all secondary. Pursue connections you feel on a soul level. Find someone you’d love being with even if you went blind. That’s marriage material.

Joshydavid25 · Accepted Answer

Makes sense since most women are average or "normal" looking.. But there's Billions of women and millions of beautiful who were raised the right way all around the world.. But logically most of the women who wannabe wives or would be good wives would be normal..

IslaTheWitch · Accepted Answer

The number of women who can be described as overwhelmingly beautiful is quite small, just like those considered outright unattractive (apparently, as I haven't seen one yet). This follows the normal distribution in statistics. At both ends, we have the fewest representatives, and as we get closer to the middle (the broadly defined average), more people fall into that category. The same applies to intelligence. 50% of people fall between 91 and 110 points. 16% between 81-90 and 111-120, making it 82% for the broadly defined norm of 81-120 points. This means that only 9% of people are above average in intelligence.

Now, compare this to the beauty of women. Roughly 0.005% might be considered beauty icons. We know about them because they are captured and shown to us on TV, billboards, etc. Perhaps 2% are classically beautiful women.

What are the chances of encountering one of them? Especially since you set the bar high for them. Wanting a woman who can earn based on her appearance, yet is humble, enjoys cooking, cleaning, taking care of her husband, children, and the garden... the chances only diminish.

You can't have everything. If you want some qualities of personality - give up on appearance. If you want the appearance set her free and let her be herself.

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Hmmm, am I average looking then? 🤔😶

I disagreed because it’s easy to judge and generalize someone’s appearance as marriage/identity justification when it takes one to know someone and if there’s a deep connection/compatibility to determined it. Some average looking people may not even be dateable and some may be more dateable depending on them as a whole person and who they’re connecting with lol. I just think it’s case specific no matter how someone may look.

serenalovesramen · Answer

Marriage is a deeply personal matter and can't be boiled down to a single generalization. Different people have different preferences when it comes to physical appearance, and one person's "average looking" may be another person's ideal. The criteria for marriage should ultimately be based on compatibility and mutual understanding rather than superficial considerations such as looks

mandyfire98 · Answer

Majority of people are average anyway and we are all flawed. I wouldn't say that "pretty people" are more flawed or less flawed just based off of looks. It's an individual thing.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

So you found a girl that's marriage material but she's average in looks? Is that it?

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am very average!! Love being average. I have been told many times I’m a marriage material 😜

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

MOST of everything will be kind of average thats what average means.

rigmarole · Answer

Most women are average... That's what you'd expect from a normal distribution.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Most people are average looking at best… so yes most women who are married are average looking. Being average looking doesn’t make you a worthy partner though.

Anonymous · Answer

Avg. To slightly above avg.

I mean you probably find her really attractive. But then you get to know her.😆

She exasperates the F*** out of you. But deep down she's a good person. That's why you want to marry her. Because women who are legitimately good people are rare.

Nikki1989 · Answer

If you think there is somehow “proper qualifications” you have already failed.

LazerBean · Answer

I mean, most women are average looking period. So yeah I would think the math checks out

JordanianNumetal · Answer

Actually for the most part your right, the really pretty ones know they can most of the time have any guy they want so they won’t sacrifice for anything else than lavish riches.

NathanDavis · Answer

not in my experience, no...

douride2 · Answer

Most men & women in general are only average in looks. There are a few above average & most like an equal number below average.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

I think you need to go out more.

Anonymous · Answer

That's true of both women and men.

Anonymous · Answer

What a shallow question...

sheikalana · Answer

False.

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