Great question, by the way. An important one, I think everyone could benefit from a little introspection now and again.
Leo Zodiac personality traits, Chinese Zodiac Fire Snake, Myers-Briggs ENTJ "The Commander" personality type
I don't necessarily fall into all the stereotypes of the zodiac signs, or even all the Myers-Briggs test, but there are some I resonate with. There are a couple sides to who I am. How I see myself is different from how I know I come across to others, which is also different from how those who know me intimately understand me.
I am a paradox, in that I am quite kind and generous, soft if you will, but I am often seen as hard or unyielding. I have a strong sense of boundaries and also of justice. I am playful at heart and when I am most relaxed, at home or in the company of friends. I love to make people laugh, or delve into their inner thoughts and find out what they are feeling/thinking, and why.I prefer small groups or individual connections, but I can enjoy a larger party. There just gets to be a point where it is so big, I don't really get much out of the extra people that are too many to actually interact with; I get that some people want to lose themselves in a crowd like this, but that's not me. I don't really enjoy concerts or festivals; they are fun for a short period of time, an entire event gets boring to me. I like to interact with people, and oddly, when an event is too massive, it feels paradoxically lonely and disconnected from others in the ways I like to be connected.
I'm very helpful by nature, I like to support others in various ways, be it praise, guidance, or just arriving early to a party to help set up, or staying late to help clean.
In my personal dealings with myself, I am an extremist. I will live a very Spartan existence for months at a time, very basic and disciplined, up before dawn, very productive and structured with a strict diet. But I also have more lax periods where I neglect many of these practices, and only focus on a few (like a more "normal" person). But I typically feel best and more fulfilled when I am more productive and disciplined; I feel proud and happy with my development.
There's a lot to me, I could literally write a book, and many people have suggested that I should. But that's enough to scratch the surface of a few things about me, for now.
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I'm autistic lol XD I've analyzed a lot of life and social interactions to make things easier for myself and fit in but I have to figure out a lot of things consciously and intentionally that just comes naturally to other people so if there's a million things like that there will always be some that I don't have time for or just prioritized other things and then I have these random hang-ups because of something I never paid attention to before and now I have to figure it out because it's come up randomly in my life and I feel like I'm a child because I'm dealing with something that nobody else has a problem with.
But I've gotten really far and I'm generally chill and smart/wise and funny in my own way and I'm trustworthy and reliable. I treat others like I want to be treated so I'm considerate because I myself get bothered by some things that other people don't care about so I take extra care in some ways.
I need more alone time than most people so socializing with me is a bit more difficult but I see a lot of good in people and encourage them. I've dealt with a lot of mental health stuff so I can give perspective on that and I believe things will get better. I'm generally very optimistic because I've been through a lot but I got through it and I feel like I'm developing and improving every day mentally :) And I've also had a lot of good things in my life that I appreciate very much :).
Quiet, quirky, awkward, nonchalant, relaxed, kind, sardonic, pessimistic and sweet.
I'm evidently horrible.
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I seem to fit the ENFP stereotypes in many ways:
My friends often describe me as an enigma but I think I'm very simple. I'm just interested in like a gazillion subjects and literally think out loud.
I’d say I’m kind of an ambivert. I do well in groups, but I also love to be on my own. I’m generally laid back and just not looking to be bothered. I’m a jokester, I have a good sense of humor for jokes, giving or receiving. Fairly cool😎 Sometimes my girlfriend says if I don’t think the crowd I’m amongst is “cool enough”, I can clam up and come off arrogant😅 Like if you ever saw the movie “I Love You, Man”, think Jon Favreau’s character😂 Especially when they show up to the restaurant and he’s like “You told me this was a drop-by.” Lmfao
https://www.youtube.com/embed/gBzFRgvAatwBut usually I’m very cordial and polite😝
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As a matter of temperament, I'm a melancholic-choleric.
Introverted, introspective, brooding, and studious, but I can also be goofy and fun.
I'd also say cautious and calculating, friendly but formal. Generally conflict-averse, but I'll admit I can also be pompous and abrasive at times.
If you were to compare me to fictional characters, I'd say Henry Cavill's rendition of Superman, James Raynor from StarCraft, Tony DiNozzo from NCIS, Data from Star Trek: TNG, and Jake Peralta from Brooklyn Nine-Nine.
Introverted for the most part, but extroverted once I get very comfortable.. A goofball, who is friendly, and but a good listener... I'm kind of a softie too.. Okay... Not kind of.. I need to cut it out.. Lmao..
Helpful, Caring, considerate, Loyal and probably considered outgoing. With a hint of bad boy in the things I get up to, although never mistreat women or cheat on them!
Oh we're to begin. At first shy, awkward and quiet. Once I open up quite the opposite, I'm loud and talkative. Easy going and straight forward, no time to sugar coat things
Disillusioned middle aged man. Hard work - hard play kind of man. Fed up with bullshit, you do you but don't expect me to do you.
Engaged, parent, ambitious, depraved and perverted, communicative... Among many other things.
i'm a pedantic "know it all" when i know my shit. and open minded when i have no idea xD
Dry sense of humor, quiet, inquisitive, thoughtful, respectful, humble, quirky, down-to-earth
I don't like anything and there's nothing remarkable about me
I'm a likable asshole
An old fart with old school values
Quiet, socially awkward, introvert.
Cold lol
I'm an antisocial social person🤷🏽
Chill, goofy, honest, nice
I'm a shy introverted person.
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