They all text you at the same time, which one you helping out first?

[Oliverlogan263]

Granny

Spouse

Mother

Daughter

[StarWarGirl]

Question is to whom we will be helping first.

So granny, because it's just request for food and it's basic need which is needed to be fulfilled sooner. It doesn't need extra time and efforts.

Then I'll ask spouse that what for he wants the money and if I feel it's not so much important or can get delayed I'll tell him to do next time. Or if it's urgent need and important then I'll think of other options what could be cheaper and I'll suggest that or I may say him to borrow for this time I'll pay later.

Daughter prom is important for her I do understand but it can be compromised.

So next I'll ask for all details about surgery and insurance and after knowing everything and making sure that yes money is going rightly and there is no scam I'll pay my mother.

So conclusion is that I'm not giving my money to anyone simply just because they have asked but granny asked for food not money so she will be getting help first.



And if I have enough money to pay them all. If I'm rich then...

First I'll get food for granny

Then I'll transfer money to my spouse (ofcourse after inquiring why)

Then I'll go home and will talk with my mother and would ask all details about treatment and insurance and surgery then if I feel everything is perfect, they have perfectly consulted all doctors and rightfully this surgery got planned then I'll transfer money to mother.

If they are already doing surgery now and she is in hospital then I'll try to visit her and will transfer money before her. If I can't visit then I'll transfer the money to her before transferring to my spouse.

And prom is never emergency. It is often get planned earlier. So after talking with my daughter about her prom and her plans, I'll transfer her money maybe more than how much she needs.

[HelpfulWoman]

granny. she's only asking for a couple of dollars so shows she's truly in need. mom can kick rocks but nhs anyway so not something i have to car for. daughter isn't just gonna get that kinda money for a fucking text message out of nowhere and partner lives with me so we wouldn't need to transfer money that way (plus he's the bank account it all goes to lol)

[DJB72]

Prom is a "want" not a "need"
If you have to lend money to your spouse then money's not the problem.
Granny needs food is more important than mum needing surgery because there's zero possibility your mother only just found out the insurance won't pay. And in most cases unless it was a pre-existing condition that was known about but not declared the insurance won't refuse to pay because the seven-figure compensation award plus bad press for not paying for a newly diagnosed cardiac condition.

[Chazmatazz269]

None. The adults are responsible for their own choices, and the (possible) child needs to learn that lesson.

[purplepoppy]

Heart surgery takes presidency, I'm sure the other people would understand that. Then you drop a food parcel off at grannies.

[LiamJHayden]

I have none of those living, but hypothetically, mom. After that I'd set granny up with a few food delivery services. A spouse would have access to the accounts from her phone already. The daughter. would be last, but would be taken care of.

[NathanDavis]

it would take less than a minute to respond to all of them... so it doesn't really matter

I'd would just go from top to bottom

[JacobJordan]

Wife first. I don't talk to my family so have no reason to help them. Daughter I would take in person to get a dress

[katiesmuff]

Granny as that would be such a shock that she even would know how to send a text!

[Summeroflove]

My gosh I’m glad my family isn’t like this. Bur definitely the heart surgery.

[jamesgoldman]

In the real world my mother the only one I've got

In this scenario grandma, mother, daughter and spouse

[electromagnetic]

e transfers for everyone. I’m thankful I make enough that this isn’t gonna be the issue.

[avery58]

I would choose to save my mother's life first of course

[Anonymous]

Mother can deal with granny but you're probably going to have to support mother and her heart.
Explain to spouse and ask her what she wants to do about daughter.

[The_Sexpert]

Granny of course, I'd feel ashamed if she has hard time for food with me still alive

[handsomelad70]

Three, which shows the disgusting nature of U. S. for-profit "health care."

[RedInnocent69]

Granny’s the only one with an immediate timing imperative.

[Nikki1989]

My husband. The others don't exist.

[FunkyMonkee]

Mom, wife, granny, daughter.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Granny

[Starrrboy]

Out of these , it would be the mom..

[Dongie]

My mama no matter what. She was the Queen.

[JosyJosy]

I throw that phone in the lake

[exitseven]

My spouse