Why are so many transgenders so sensitive?

[Anonymous]

And Im not saying this to be a dick pun intended ha, this might get taken down if the admins don't understand where I'm coming from but it's not a troll, it seems Everytime I have a conversation with a transgender they expect me to agree with them on everything and if I don't I'm a transphobic or ignorant, I can legit offend these people with no insults, I just got blocked for answering a question they asked and got offended when I told them the answer they weren't expecting , I've met maybe like two that are actually chill and respectful and that were cool people and it was all respectful cause even tho we didn't agree with certain things it was to each their own but these are rare occasions, I don't get it, they don't like transphobia but with the way they behave it's hard not to get angry, almost always im pressed with hostility by these people and that's without me even saying I don't see them as women, I keep that to myself to prevent conflict but no difference 🤷🏽

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I didn't know weither to put it on guy behavior or girl behavior so I just put it on the gag community topic since it's where I run into most of them.

[sawno]

In modern times a ton of them got lied to, they got sold a lie of a different kind of life they could have and after transitioning that's blatantly untrue. However if you just went trough all this effort to transition after being fed all this propaganda about how you can become the other gender and how much better your life will be it sucks if you hear that this is not true. You don't want that to be the case, so the more safe explanation is that people who don't see you as your new gender are bigots and that this isn't because you got cosmetic surgery and hormones rather than an actual gender change.

Now add on top of this that this kind of pro trans social circle tends to be heavily involved with the queer movement and that culture has been hostile in general and very destructive to society for anyone with different sexualities. Within their group they are probably encouraged for defending themselves against the kind of comments your making and applauded for how brave they were for standing up and how much of that gender they truly are.

[Asker]

So the whole things is basically a deluted movement to pretend to be what they aren't?

[fonduegirl]

That's heavy generalization.

I think as humans we're all unhappy, but some of us find the time to blame it on other people.

It doesn't help

[Anonymous]

That's weird, I've had almost the exact opposite experience. I am always very respectful and polite and do not push people. I've always hated conflict and done my best to avoid it.

But since I've come out as trans, suddenly people (people I already knew) started trying to pick fights with me. They bring up the topic, demand I explain myself, and no matter what I say or how i back it up it's not good enough for them. Suddenly I'm delusional and twisting facts. Suddenly I'm being selfish, arrogant, and defensive. Even hostile.

My personality did not change. My methods of reasoning did not change. The only thing that changed was that I stopped hiding this part of myself—that alone seems to strip me of all respect and rationality in their eyes.

I even let them call me by the wrong name and gender, but I am still being difficult because I admit that I don't like when they do that and I refuse to call myself the wrong gender. I'm being manipulative, because the truth makes them uncomfortable. I'm being sensitive not because of how I react (i don't), but simply because of what I am. It's exhausting, honestly.

I wish there were more people like you who could talk to trans people normally and not make a big deal about it or make everything about them being trans.

[Asker]

And I get it, how you feel is how you feel and I respect that as a fellow human to another, you don't seem like a disrespectful person but I personally don't agree or believe this is the case, it's my personal opinion, it's not for people to get angry

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, how are we disagreeing? We both just talked about our personal experience with certain people. Our experiences are very different, and I think that's weird, but it certainly isn't impossible. I don't think you're lying.

[fonduegirl]

I'm sorry to hear that 😞

[Asker]

I don't think you are lying either, I mean disagree with the whole idea in general, if I'm guessing correctly you used to be a woman right? What I mean by disagree is that I disagree on you having to change, I believe everyone is born the way they are and it's not a mistake, even if it might feel that way, which is where I'm sure we disagree

[fonduegirl]

I really think you gotta stop explaining yourself

[Asker]

It's my post, the one out of place here is you, i made a whole question to understand each the other side and so they can understand mine, you can't shut me up on my own question tf

[fonduegirl]

I'm not shutting you up.

Just telling you, as a member of LGBT myself, I really feel some people should quiet down while they are ahead. Some of these people aren't necessarily homophobic or transphobic, but they come across that way when they give excessive explanation.

You can take my advice or ignore it. That's your call,, mate!

[Asker]

I'm well aware I'm most of likely going to be called transphobic but it's only more proof considering the question is about that and if it happens in the comments of the question it's only proof to what I mean if it does go that way, im not trying to be homophobic I just want to express my point of view on the situation just how I'm giving them the freedom and judge free environment to express theirs, I'm not gonna hate or judge, just give my own opinions in return, besides me thinking they shouldn't have transitioned is still a personal opinion, it's no different than vegans that don't agree with eating meat when I personally find chicken delicious.

[fonduegirl]

It's their choice. It's their body. Shrugs

[Opinion Owner]

@chicofromthe305 oh okay. Well yes, we can agree to disagree on how people should live their lives. I can live how I see best, and you can live how you see best. That's our own personal choices which agreement isn't necessary for.

What I think we can agree on is that it's frustrating when other people misunderstand you and make you out to be something you're not (such as offensive and hostile).

[Asker]

Well calling out the hostile ones brought out the respectful ones, what can I say, you clearly don't fall into the picture because you state you can state your opinion without insulting which is what earns my respect, we agree to disagree and that's fine, disagreements shouldn't result in us turning into animals.

[Opinion Owner]

@chicofromthe305 Yes. I can't really blame those people I know because I also know why they act like that, i used to believe they were right. Now I'm learning why some trans people can be the same way with people who disagree with them too. It's sad to see how much we really have in common and know that those are the same reasons most of us won't ever be able to see how much we have in common...

[Asker]

Indeed, but interesting point of view, I appreciate you being respectful 💯

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

The question is more in the way you talk to them and whether or not you agree that they should even exist. If you are rude or don't think they are the gender they say they are then you are transphobic. You don't have to be afraid of them to be transphobic. You could just have an aversion to something to be phobic. It's literally in the definition of phobic.

That being said, there is a lot of hate thrown their way for just existing. If you were in the same state for being called out for your race or your sex or some other characteristic over and over, would you also not become sensitive to it?

[Asker]

No I wouldn't cause I know what I am, there's a form of logic and that doesn't change, is it possible maybe they react this way cause deep deep down they know the truth and they are in denial about it so it angers them, if the truth is the truth then there would be no reason to be mad but I could see myself reacting that way if for example I was going against a truth and I deep deep down knew the truth and people were calling it out.

I don't believe calling scientific facts in a respectful manner is strong prejudice against them, I thing many people have the definition mixed up.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Truth can be determined multiple ways. Your truth is that they will always be their biological sex while they believe in gender being separate from sex. I'm sure they realize they will always be their biological sex, it's just that gender wise they identify as the opposite gender (or they could be gender fluid, non binary or something in between I suppose).

[Asker]

Truth means factual and truths for the most part if not always, they go only one way and don't change, that's what makes them facts because no matter on the circumstances, they don't change, they can identify how they like but I don't think it's fair or sane to force others to believe it as well.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Nah, I agree with them on this part. Truth is subjective to the person in question. It's like that dress everyone was talking about a while back asking if it was white and gold vs. black and blue. When I viewed it, it actually does look white and gold even if it was black and blue in the end.

That's like the gender vs sex debate. Why is it when a guy becomes a teacher or a homemaker, inevitably someone says he's acting like a woman? Biologically, we all know he is male, but he is participating in something seen as a "woman's job." That's gender roles coming into play.

[Asker]

I disagree, I believe in one fact and those are the facts that are scientific proven to work one day, I believe subjective truths are just another way to stay in denial, because I can easily disagree with your gender and say it's my subjective truth that you are a man and even tho you are factually a woman I can deny it with this subjective truth crap, a subjective truth is a delusion because it's not true, if subjective truth was a thing then it would mean nothing is true and everything is true, that's not very logical, what you call a subjective truth is known as a subjective opinion, not truth, the difference between the two is that one requires evidence and the other doesn't.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

But subjective truth is a thing. I've already demonstrated that with the dress example, but think of it this way, let's say someone who is blind and has never seen the sky is told the sky is blue. How would they know what blue even looks like? They could be imagining it as something completely different than what you or I can see with our two eyes. It doesn't make the sky any less blue, but it is perceived by them in a different way. This can be transferred over to the debate between sex and gender.

[Asker]

Okay and now let's use your example to show how this subjective truth can be deceiving, now let's say this person that's never seen blue is asked how blue looks by someone else that's never seen blue and they tell the other and describe it how they think it looks, they already spread false information because the fact and truth is that blue doesn't look that way, what you described isn't a truth, they are being truthful but that isn't the truth, the only truth is that they believe that's the truth but them believing it doesn't make it THE truth

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

But it IS to them and that's subjective truth.

This is what is defined as subjective truth and another example.

Subjective truth is a person's individual perspective, experience, or preferences that shape how they perceive the world. It's based on opinion and is dependent on the individual. For example, one person might consider the weather to be warm, while another might find it too hot, and both views would be subjective.

Nobody is debating what they are biologically which is just a truth (although intersex people exist too). It's gender which is being debated.

[Miah04]

I gotta agree with you on this chris. Identifing as a woman is someone's personal choice.
That doesn't make you a woman.
Doing things perceived as a woman's job, it's insulting a guy by making fun of him for acting like a woman, like saying he is a wuss.

When a white person tries to act like they are black, we go stop acting black, you ain't black. Because no matter how much you claim or "act black" you will never be black.
Same concept. When they tell a male he is acting like a woman it's basically saying stop acting like a woman, you ain't one. No matter how much you try to be one, you will not be one.

There is nothing wrong with letting someone pretend to be a woman.

If that is what makes them happy, but they are not happy, because deep down they need acknowledgement.
They need approval, and they need it to be true.
And it's not true and it bothers them.

Now i am fine with the someone saying well i feel like a woman and would like to be addressed as one, ok, cool.

But it becomes a problem when they say it makes them a real woman.

Or that we all must call you a woman.

It's not fair to force someone to do give up their beliefs because someone who is not a woman wants to be a woman.

The trans person has just as much right to identify as a woman, as someone has to disagree.
Why does one belief hold more value than someone else's belief.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Calling them by their pronouns literally is just being kind and takes no real effort on a person's part. Nobody is saying you can't disagree at all. If you personally believe they aren't women (transwomen) or men (transmen) then that's cool, but being a constant reminder to them and calling them out on it is just cruel for no real reason.

Like if someone said I wasn't Mexican because my dad was white (even though my mom is Mexican) then that's just being mean to be mean. Whether it's true or not is subjective to each person. Some will say yes because I have brown skin, others will say no because of my father's heritage.

[Asker]

That's the whole reason I made the question, I'm treated like I can't have my own opinion and because my opinions cross theirs, they insult me or call me a transphobic when I simply just share my opinion, in this particular case when I responded to the question they wanted a reply for, I guess they wanted me to agree that it's the same or they asked the question to read people agree to make them feel better, either ways if you wanna put it to the test disagree with them and watch them switch up on you, all I know is that they aren't real women, it's just how it is, I didn't make it that way, I'm just the messenger.

[Miah04]

If someone does not agree, that it is okay, or right to call someone who is not a woman, a woman, they should not have to call a man a she, or a they.
Many people feel that participating in this can confuse children, and sets a bad example and cause unnecessary confusion and harm to our youth.

Why is it that a trans belief holds more value, than a person who believes it is wrong?
You have all the right to call yourself what you want, but they have all the right to say i think it's wrong, and do not want to participate in that.

You are trying to strip others rights, because you feel it is mean.

I'm not saying call them out.
Your argument was telling someone they are acting like a woman proved your point.
I was explaining how that does not prove your point, because they are not saying they are a woman.

But at the sametime, just like a transperson is allowed to go out and proudly boast they are a real woman, someone has the right to say no you are not, because you are making a false claim that will confuse, children to believe something that makes no sense.
Which is saying:

I can identify as whatever i want, and now that i have, i am that identity, even if it doesn't make sense and everyone must accept it, no matter what your beliefs are.

You do understand that how transgenders believe they are fighting for a right, so does the people who say wait what you are saying is wrong.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That's all and good, but what gets me is when people bring up children. Kids aren't getting confused by it really when it's explained to them. Most times, they just say "oh" and go back to playing. It's adults who have the biggest problem adjusting to something they don't understand. People use children as a shield to their own prejudices. Like it used to be with the gay panic and how it was bad they learn about gay and lesbian couples.

[Miah04]

So explain how that's hate?
Do we give parents a choice on whether it is okay to teach sex education? Yes. Do we wait until they are of a certain age? Yes.

Why is it okay to force it on children, if it's not okay to force sex education on children?
Children are innocent.
But they are also curious.
Explaining about transgender, can lead to questions about sexual organs.

How does pregnancy work with transgender, and even to the question of sexual orientation.

All topics i find inappropriate to talk about with children whether you speak about it, as straight sexual encounters, gay, bi or transgender sexual encounters.

I feel the discussion of transgenderism if brought into the school should be handled the same as sexual education, and should be a completely separate lession, with a completely separate permissionvslip and taught no earlier than 8th grade.

[IslaTheWitch]

as I mentioned it in some other question... maybe the problem lies not in what you say but how?

in Polish we have a saying "powiedzieć 'spierdalaj' w taki sposób, by odbiorca już się cieszył na czekającą go podróż" what you can roughly translate to "tell someone to 'get the fuck out' in a way that makes them excited about the journey ahead."

maybe try a different words, more polite way, try to look from their perspective to have more information to discuss... communication is everything...

[Asker]

Nope it's definitely what I said, cause I even try to calm the waters by throwing in an apology even tho I don't believe I assumed incorrectly and the person didn't acknowledge it.

[fonduegirl]

Interesting saying

[Miah04]

So. People saying I'm lying or, i am being homophobic, or lied to but.

This is the problem. Transgender is result of a person suffering from extreme case of gender dysphoria.

They only recommend gender reassignment surgery to people who are having an extreme case of gender dysphoria.

Gender dysphoria comes with depression, anger, and anxiety.

So when you see how they react, there is this need for you to acknowledge them, and accept them and their beliefs, so they feel more "normal" feel more like they aren't suffering from gender dysphoria. And if someone disagrees with them, they are unable to overcome the depression, anxiety, and anger inside.

There reactions mimic, others suffering from other mental disorders. They can't accept there is a struggle in their mind, so they must push the blame on you, to feel better.

[Asker]

So basically you are saying that if I want to have peace with them I'd have to feed into their delusion and agree with everything they say?

[Miah04]

Yes, but that is unfair to you. You are now being forced to agree with something you don't agree with.

You shouldn't have to hide your beliefs because someone else, is unable to overcome a fight within themselves.

You have just as much right to your opinion as they do.

[Asker]

Yea it's pretty mind-blowing no lie

[Miah04]

Yup. It's gotta stop.
We got to respect each other.
If we disagree we disagree.
We should be able to accept that we don't all think the same

[Asker]

Yep it's unbelievable, politics is another example of separation with beliefs

[Miah04]

Agree. It shouldn't make a person hated

[Asker]

Nope, hate Is a negative energy that only leads to negative results

[Miah04]

Exactly

[Razp_Sorbet]

Firstly transgender is an adjective not a noun. It's not " a transgender" it's "a transgender person" "a transgender man/woman "

Secondly this is a human issue not just a transgender issue. A lot of people will get annoyed if you don't agree with them, especially if it's something they feel very passionate about.

[Asker]

Yea but usually trans have a very short fuse, well shorter than most people, it's what I noticed from personal experience on trying to conversate with them, you probably haven't noticed cause you probably don't disagree with them for the most part

[Razp_Sorbet]

That's probably the issue then. Disagreeing with a person's very existence is quite a shitty thing to do. For example I'm not religious and don't agree with organized religion at all but im not going to bring that up with a religious person or expect them to defend their stance because I respect their right to believe in whatever they want to. If religious peoples freedoms were being taken away I would stand against that. If their existence was being debated I would stand against that.

[Asker]

Come on be real dude, there's nothing wrong with disagreeing or even sharing your perspective

[Razp_Sorbet]

No nothing wrong with disagreeing in general but to disagree with what makes a person who they are is an issue.

[Asker]

It's only an issue if they make it into an issue

[Razp_Sorbet]

But I assume you're the one bringing up the issue... Or the fact you have an issue with it... They're allowed to call out your ignorance and defend themselves.

[Asker]

Only cause what they tell me is against what I believe, like I said our differences cross paths, because they end up saying something and then I end up saying something within topic of what they said and it exculates, I'm not going to agree with what they say if i dont agree, for example if they say they are a woman and can give birth im not going to agree with and say yea i know because my point of view on it is different, the topic was about if their "vagina" feels the same as a real womans vagina and i told them no and why not which is they are different and a womans meow meow has bumps and shit and the person got angry 🤷🏽

[Razp_Sorbet]

If a trans woman is says they can give birth then they are just stupid and that's not on all trans people. I can't make a proper take on what you're saying as I didn't see the conversation so i won't comment on the rest

[Asker]

I think i triggered the person when they mentioned they can get a vagina through transition and I told them it still won't be equivalent to a woman's, some really think they are exactly the same as women

[Razp_Sorbet]

They can get a pretty accurate version which will only improve with time and research into the procedure. Of course it's not going to be exactly the same. Again I don't know the full story but to me it sounds like you're uneducated in some areas and unwilling to learn which can be very frustrating

[Asker]

Maybe in some areas but I know a man dressed as a woman is never going to make them a woman no matter how hard they try and until we see these improvements my statements stand, people are always talking about the future like it's the present, that itself can be frustrating.

[Razp_Sorbet]

See that's where the ignorance comes into play. Being transgender is much more than wearing specific clothing.

[Asker]

It's not ignorance, they aren't real women and that's the biological fact, weither it's physical or mental the truth is that, if anything denying that is ignorance and possibly even delusion, them claiming to be women is an insult to real women such as yourself because as a actual woman you get cramps and pains and have a whole menstruating cycle that almost immobilizes you from pains cramps and other complications for someone to come along and because they themselves believe to be a woman they get to magically be a woman's that is insulting and degrading to real women, they fight to have access to your bathrooms, they ruined the word completely, they tried to take it and when they failed to do so they came to the conclusion that nobody owns the word and threw themselves in a category of trans women and threw real women in the category 'cis women' then you ask them what is a woman and they respond that there is no definition and that if you feel like a woman then you are one, im angry for you because its just messed up, you see... for me its as simple as nature, born with peepee... man, born with meow meow... woman.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Yeah I can see why they get mad at you 🙃
Is a woman who's had a hysterectomy "not an actual woman" ? She doesn't get cramps. What about women who never got a period? Are they not real?
You don't get to speak for women. You do not get to speak for me.
It's also interesting how you only seem to have an issue with trans women.

[Asker]

I know why they get mad at me, cause what I say hurts, im not speaking for you, im angry for women in general is what I meant, i know you dont care and dont see the damage in it, like i said born with pussy =woman, born with a dick = man, how its been since day one, the truth is that they pushed past the line of all this being about only themselves a long time ago and that's what bothers me, they brought it into schools, put it in books for children, in parades, in sports in basically everything that has nothing to do with it, shit they even brought it into some churches, that's disrespectful to other people's beliefs but nobody says anything about that now do they, its all about their feeling apparently the world revolves around them now there's no reason why I should be forced to accept what they believe, I'm staying my believes and you can see why people get mad, even tho I don't believe, I shouldn't be allowed to express my opinions because it hurts others is what you are trying to imply here, just trying to clarify

[Asker]

I'm asking if that's what you are implying, I forgot the question mark ❓

[Razp_Sorbet]

You are telling trans people that they should not exist. That they should not be themselves. Never be seen nor heard. I know that's maybe not what you're intentions are but how do you expect them to live to your standards while being themselves?

[Asker]

No I'm not, if anything they assume it like you are right now, I only state what I believe and don't tell people they shouldn't exist, I'm not expecting them to make changes, I only express my opinion like they do, i dont get why they can tell me that they are a woman and i can't say that they aren't

[Razp_Sorbet]

Because your opinions come off as desires and are based on feelings not facts.

[Asker]

You just described them wtf 😂

[Asker]

They are the ones that react off emotions first, I only state my opinion, man no lie you are full of shit

[Asker]

They have the disability to listen to anything they don't agree with, even tho I disagree I still try to understand even tho I don't, they normally don't, they disagree and they assume I'm a ignorant transphobic for having my opinions

[Asker]

You called me uneducated because I don't want to believe that women with dicks are women, tell me how that makes sense because if they were women they would've been born with a reproductive system.

Since you brought up my beliefs on the topic being uneducated then explain this

Woman definition:

an adult female human being.

Female definition:

of or denoting the sex that can bear offspring or produce eggs, distinguished biologically by the production of gametes (ova) that can be fertilized by male gametes.

Like I said facts, emotions involved or not, i state facts 😂

[Razp_Sorbet]

Ok I'll ask this
Do you think transgenderism should be recognized and transgender people should be able to have access to the resources and care they need in order to live a happy, healthy life?

Yes or no.

[Asker]

Yes of course they are still people and have a life and soul

I just dont believe this stuff is as real as they claim it and by real I'm not saying what they feel isn't real cause I know what they feel is real but what i mean is that physically it's not real, they were born with the sex that they were born with and there's nothing wrong about it, I think it's all up here 👉🏽🧠👈🏽

[Razp_Sorbet]

Uh yeah there's no denying it's in your head... That's literally where you as a person lives...

[Asker]

Are you reacting off emotions or are you speaking in general?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Reacting? I agree with you... Science agrees with you... Trans people agree with you... If course transgenderism is in your head... Doesn't make it not real. Your gender is in your head, your brain is you after all.

[Asker]

Okay so you did mean what I assumed, cool, and yes I agree with that but the thing is that everything that is outside of what's in our minds is what makes things a truth because it never changes, many changes happen according to our thoughts and perspectives but whatever doesn't change are things beyond the control of our thoughts, they just exist and no matter what they will continue to exist and will always be that way and these are known as facts, so i believe transgenderism is real but in people's heads, which is why i believe that making decisions off these thoughts and perspectives doesn't change the facts that are outside of our control and our realities in our minds and I think gender is one of those things, I believe we are born the way we are born and that doesn't change even if you try to change it.

[Razp_Sorbet]

And transgender people are born the way they are. It's not a decision they made. They feel like their brain doesn't match their body which is very plausible scientifically.

[Asker]

People are born blank slates tho, babies can barely think for themselves, I think when they mature their minds develop and how they develop all relies on their surroundings and their experiences in life, what can be plausible is that it's scientifically a disorder or something in that aspect, Im surely not here saying it's not real and that they are making it up, I'm positive they aren't because If they had a choice I don't think they would choose this path so in a way there's definitely some science to it I just don't think that science is biologically related.

[Razp_Sorbet]

🤨 I don't think you even understand what your thoughts are on it. You're contradicting yourself

[Asker]

No I'm not, how's so? Maybe you are reading it wrong

[MisterWack]

A lot of men if a woman says, “your penis is small” or if another guy says, “you are so gay” it makes them offended & crumble instantly from either insecurity or lack of self confidence.

Men in general are upset that certain people exist instead of ‘let it be’. I know rednecks exist, I don’t care about their existence where it drives me mad 24/7.
Transgender bathrooms, I believe if those were everywhere these people would be angrily stomping around being upset with “today’s society”.

Just ‘let it be’ and let people be people, Jesus!

[fonduegirl]

Spot-on! Spot-on!

I lose count of times being called gay is treated as an insult

[MisterWack]

@anon1903 Thank you, I strive for clarity and truthfulness. If I couldn’t be truthful with myself, how the Hell could I be trusted to be truthful to others.

[fonduegirl]

Way to go 😸

[bannacookies]

I can't say I have come across across a lot. And some of the ones I have come across I didn't even realize they were transgender until later because I didn't pick up on it. I haven't had any issues where they got mad or anything like that. They never talk to me about the fact that they are transgender. It never gets brought up. I only see those type of things with people online over social media. And and that could do with religion, politics, all sorts of different things. I've noticed people getting upset about transgenders or other transgenders upset online along with the other things I just mentioned.

[sage2021]

Who gives a flying flip about those people? Weirdo's!
I don't have anything to do with them. They have their own clinic of people they should hang out with and stop pushing their agenda on other people.
All they want to do is argue with people that aren't like they are. So don't even bother with them.

Hey, we are all going to die in the future, so spend your precious time on this planet earth the best way you can. And arguing with tranny's isn't spending your only time on earth wisely.

[Staximus]

What if I told everybody that I now identify as a tree and legally changed my name to Big Piney or something ridiculous like that? If I held tree branches up over my head and stood in the park with the other trees and pretended I was a tree, they would take me away to the fucking looney bin.

[Asker]

Nah they might actually think you are a tree, I doubt they will be logical, they might decorate you with Christmas ornaments and everything 💀

[Staximus]

Fuck, I should have chose a better name than Big Piney

[Asker]

What about about piney bark 😂

[RavVid]

Could it possibly be they know they are FITHs? Fucked In The Heads. I think so. It is really sexuality that they have their differences in and have confused that with gender.

They are also FITHs for thinking people are going to pay attention to their pronouns. I'm just not going to work that hard.

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... I kinda get it. 😂

Wouldn't you be hypersensitive too, if you just wanted to live your life without catching shit from everyone, but instead, your struggle has been weaponized as a political talking point?

It's bad enough that you're going through life in a perpetual identity crisis that you know people are laughing at. Now you have a bunch well-intentioned people doing the most patronizing, pandering bullshit to you in order to look like good people.

[HawkPerception]

It's called being mentally ill. They think they're entitled to pick and choose what people are allowed to say in front of them when that's not the case at all.

[Asker]

Yep it's wild ngl

[the29thhuman]

Same with Christians, Politicians and other societal groups. It’s a trend to force those that are not them, to being accepted under very toxic and unrealistic conditions. Should anyone have a point of view, a question or be silent, then the trending societal group will lash out and victimize themselves and create a matter that could have been avoided. Just smile and look the other way.

[StudyingAuthor]

Yeah I don't know... a lot of the time people block me for no reason too. i don't care tho.

[Asker]

It is what it is I guess

[StudyingAuthor]

Yep que sera sera.

[Asker]

You used Google translate for that 💀

[StudyingAuthor]

No... I got it from this show called "From" the theme song was like "Que sera sera, whatever will be will be, the future's not ours to see, que sera sera. what will be will be."

[Asker]

Glad you learned something 😂

[StudyingAuthor]

yeah... I'm always learning something speaking of my last day of high school is December 4th. Woohoo! Taking the fast track to hell!

[Asker]

Again with that shit smh

[StudyingAuthor]

wdym? I love school!

[Asker]

Nah with the hell shit I meant, I don't fuck with it

[StudyingAuthor]

Oh... sorry. I forgot.

[coxoabean]

Because they're prideful and want everyone to do everything their way unfortunately.

[Asker]

So it seems

[electromagnetic]

I don’t faq with that community cause if I make someone cry, I’m the bad guy.

[Asker]

They cry for everything 😂

[Pete671]

Perfectly said sir! so many are same as gay men, narcissistic and arrogant, and yes, if you don't agree with everything they say you must be wrong because you're not gay/trans!!!

[Asker]

Yep I don't get it

[fonduegirl]

There are some gay men who are Misogynistic

[Pete671]

@anon1903 I think most of them are imho,

[fonduegirl]

Hahaha

[Anonymous]

What does this question have to do with Gag community? 😂 This should be either in Other or Sexuality

[Asker]

Read what I said lol, I'll have to give you a nickname mysterious anon 😂

[Opinion Owner]

"Ask about the site and learn more about our community. Not sure where to find something? Do you need to make changes and don't know how? Ask!"
So are you saying that Gag is a community of transgenders? 😂

[Asker]

No I just put it there cause this is where I run into most of my encounters with them, stop being a little smart ass anon 😂

[psychobabble]

They are defective mentally ill people. What else would you expect from them. They are consumed by their demons and are being eaten alive by anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, drug addiction, homosexual trauma, and so on. The are one step from suicide walking time bombs.

[psychobabble]

*They

[Berethor]

Don't expect from a mentally ill to be logical, and every trans is a mentally ill person.

[Dongie]

Well, first thing to remember is they have a severe mental illness. It's probably best not to interact with one unless you know HE isn't violent. Nice pun.🤙🤙🤙

[midnightmoon05]

Don’t know and don’t care.

[Asker]

Lol okay

[Anonymous]

1-10 trans people doesn’t equal all trans people. They are not all the same. Stop making generalisation

[Asker]

That doesn't change anything

[Opinion Owner]

There are millions of people who identify as trans. They aren’t all the same. Blaire White for example is trans and seems to be in touch with reality.

[Asker]

I know but I noticed this behavior is higher in transexuals than it is on normal people, their sensitivity seems to be more easily triggered than most.

[Opinion Owner]

I bet you have only got trans women on your mind

[Asker]

You wish, you must be a trans, I detect the sensitivity 😂

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

They are seriously mentally sick so don't expect nothing normal from them.

[Unit1]

Surprise, surprise, it's not limited to the transgenders.

[fonduegirl]

What did you say

[Asker]

The person asked if vaginas feel different than what they can offer (which is their booty) and I said even tho I'm a virgin I know they are different cause vaginas were designed for penetration and that vaginas normally have grooves and bumps and they are all different with these bumps and the person said that they can see why Im a virgin and that I'm ignorant, I don't believe anything I said was transphobic, then they brought up that they can get a vagina and I proceeded to tell them that it won't be the same and I'm sure you can guess they didn't take it lightly.

[fonduegirl]

That's not transphobic.

[Asker]

I didn't think so either but apparently it is according to that person

[fonduegirl]

Trans or not, people gotta keep it real

[Asker]

Agreed

[Friendlybro79]

How many conversations with different trans person have you had? Out of curiosity

[gorydetails]

Transgenders are mentally ill. You can't expect rational reaction from them

[Indio1375]

What do you consider them sensitive about.

[Ladsin2]

Mental Illness

[noohair]

Hormones?