Are my sh scars unattractive (warning for FADED/FULLY HEALED pictures)?

[Anonymous]

I just feel so ugly. Is there literally any hope or are these just gross looking? What's your opinion on girls with sh scars? Should I give up hope on literally ever having a good relationship? lol (i already have)

how my thighs look, arms are more faded + not as severe scarring

:(

[SueShe]

You can try to have those self-harm scars reduced through laser treatment but I am not sure that you will ever be able to fully get rid of them.

Most important is to find out why you self inflicted yourself those scars and to address that problem with psychological help. Once you address the cause and understand that you have (had) an issue and that you have to do something about it, you can try to put the entire issue behind you. You will however be reminded every time you see them that you had a problem

Some people don't mind those scars but a whole lot of them will judge you and probably not want to take any risk in terms of being in a relationship.

Don't give up on finding a relationship but be ready to have to give a lot of explanations and you have to convince the future partner that you have overcome the problem. Good luck.

[Asker]

i'll probably try to do laser stuff when i'm older & able to get therapy in a better mental state.. thank u for the honesty

[SueShe]

It is important that when you have the need to harm yourself again, you think of the consequences and how those new scars will affect your future.

If you have the opportunity to talk with someone before you self harm yourself, make use of that possibility and talk about it. It can be a family member, a good friend or even someone on a hotline. Be safe!

[Asker]

thank you for such a kind response.. i'm doing my best to be safe : )

[MemeSupreme]

oh those have healed up good dw some people scar badly, but you're not one of them. there are ways to make them fade more too

i used to worry about this A LOT, but i realized no one cares as long as you've stopped. literally its only people that i've just met who care enough to ask and i just troll them at this point lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

The importance is that you stop cutting, the scars aren't unattractive, it's more the shape of the legs men are attracted too, as long as what's on them isn't unhygienic or caused from bad hygiene such as warts or a form of herpes, then the way the scars look won't make your legs unnattractive to many men, men will just know you were possibly suicidal at one point and that might be where it can effect their decisions, if the scars bother you so much look into skin treatment, I heard about this roller thing thats meant for scarring, mostly acne scarring but can work for this, it basically a roller with spikes that pokes holes all over the skin and allows it to heal smoothly, meant to treat basic scarring, but most definitely do your research before use and maybe let professionals do it or guide you.

[Kaneki05]

No guy you would want to date would judge you for them. And no I don't find them unattractive.

[Asker]

thank you

[worldscolide]

No, though seeing that is heart breaking. Let me put it a different way, If i saw that on my wife, i would feel like a failure as a husband because she was in that much pain and i didn't see it, or didn't do anything about it.

[goaded]

I know at least two women with scars like that who are very happy in their relationships.

[Asker]

that's relief to hear at least

[seeyounexttuesday]

dude, you need some mental help. This is fucking sick.

[Asker]

i know but i'm unable to get it as a teen since my parents don't really care

[seeyounexttuesday]

I doubt that seriously.

[Asker]

okay!! won't even bother answering next time lol if ur not gonna believe me

[Anonymous]

Have the scars fixed.

[Asker]

how? i would if could, but it'd also be pointless because i'd probably just make more when i get depressed again

[nl171]

It’s kinda weird but I like scars on women