Are you approachable?

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Maybe_Maybe_not · Accepted Answer

Anecdote:  One evening, like 10 or 11pm, as I was walking down one of the streets in the city center, a woman came out of nowhere and started walking beside me, matching my pace. She told me there could be shady guys around at that hour. I almost told her the obvious: "well, I'm a guy" in response, but I sympathized with her approach instead. Then she asked me if I could just walk her until she reaches the next street. I walked with her like 300 meters, then she said thanks and disappeared.  After the facts, I wondered if that was a very peculiar form of flirting, but I decided against. Because it made no sense to see flirting here, since she went away after the mission was done. So I concluded I have been used as a temporarily trusted stranger. Trust based on what exactly? I won't know. I guess I must be approachable then, but without me knowing lol

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah I am

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

Many people told me how I first came across and one of the things they pointed out was how I looked "harmless/innocent and kind" and I don't know what made them feel that way whether it's my body language or expression but I'd say that means I look approachable as I've been approached by many people not just be it for friendship, dating or simply asking for help/assistance.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i guess so

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Not generally. I’m a big, bald, ugly white man who shaves his head and only smiles when laughing. I imagine that’s fairly off putting to most people. Once i open my mouth though, people tend to gravitate toward me. I’m smart, funny and i can hold up my end of the conversation on most topics. I’m sure that surprises most people. Hell, they’re probably just happy that i’m not going all “The Hills Have Eyes” on them. Ell oh ell!
Problem is, i’m an introvert. So i don’t often open my trap; sometimes to my own detriment.

OneViewpoint · Answer

ROFL, no! I'm decidedly unapproachable as a conscious choice. People comment on it all the time. I'm "hard to engage" in conversation. I'm "quiet". I'm "scary". I'm "opinionated". I'm "rude". I'm "brutally honest". I don't smile "enough". My face is "expressionless". I'm "hard to read". Guilty on all counts.

I've seen a lot of what humanity is and what people are capable of. Both good and bad. And I'm just weary of it. I don't have the patience or the need to have them like me. With most people, most of the time, I just want to avoid them. I suck at faking it. I'll engage and turn on the charm for the right people. Everyone else? I'm fine if you just walk on by.

DishLady · Answer

Yes I can be very f-ing approachable when i want to be...

(Kidding.)

Of course I have to be bc it's part of my job, but there's also a hard edge to it -- "tough love" -- to be dispensed as needed for difficult cases and unrelenting sorts of people.

A lot of folks have told me that I am, so I'll take their word for it.

YourFutureEx · Answer

Yeah most definitely. I don't look intimidating at all. But a lot of girls have mentioned to me that they have always believed that I'm already taken which makes me less approachable. So, it's a mix.

In case of guys, I easily make friends and I have a memorable look I guess as a lot of people have mentioned that they have seen me somewhere.

DJB72 · Answer

It depends on the circumstances under which we meet.

I can be friendly and polite while telling you to go to hell in such a way you'd be excited to leave.

I can also be highly aggressive in a way that might make people feel I'd be highly protective so they stick around.

glennos89 · Answer

People often tell me they wouldn't approach me because of the look in my eyes. Apparently some of them told me I look at them like I'm dangerous or intimidating.

But I'm actually pretty friendly as long as you aren't disrespectful to me for no reason at all.

ohsheeT · Answer

I'm very approachable. In fact I like it better that way because sometimes something could be right in front of me and I allow it to go over my head

Shiprex · Answer

I often get confused as someone who "knows" stuff and get approached by tourists and people in general.

MemeSupreme · Answer

i try not to be lol i just want people to LEAVE ME ALONE

lilBigPotato · Answer

I think so but would have to ask other people 🤷‍♀️

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'd say probably not I kind of have a resting bitch face lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. Respect me and yes. Tease me and more than likely gonna get it back so watch out and be ready.

Caliguy88 · Answer

I could probably smile more! But I’m good to talk to!

CubaPirate · Answer

I'd like to think so. Just try me and see lol

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if she's my type of girls, she can approach me anytime.

ambitious_male · Answer

I guess I am approachable. Are you approachable?

exitseven · Answer

I am approachable most of the time

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes, just don't come at me funny.

Desi_Butcher · Answer

No. But quite frank if someone does.

SotiCoto · Answer

As approachable as the Tortoise is to Achilles.

Arcadian222 · Answer

Yes. And are YOU?

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Depends on the pesron.

SamWinchester058 · Answer

When I'm not wearing RBF, yes.

Tom567456 · Answer

Yeah, I welcome good women

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

No, I bite

Caroline91 · Answer

Sometimes.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes I am

KateCrombie · Answer

Yes, i am

Alex-Snow · Answer

I hope so

Emmytexrex · Answer

Yes I am

dudeinohio · Answer

Sure

nl171 · Answer

I feel like I am

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes I am.

Jeff51 · Answer

Yes I am

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