Hello everyone,
I am 30F. I do have a degree but not one of use to me. I have worked in Healthcare for a long time. As a phlebotomist and in microbiology lab. I am in my first semester back at school to get my bachelor's in psychology and am a little interested in pursuing addictions work.
However, this is where it gets muddy and I need advice.
I recognize at some point I will likely have loans for a career where I make the same/marginally more than I make now. And I am starting to wonder if it really is a smart call on my part. As I am not sure i really care about WORKING with my degree so much as it just is an area of interest for me. And part of me feels I am in school just because it seems disappointing that I haven't obtained a "high degree" that I am using.
Currently getting in state tuition breaks but hard to say how long that lasts. And its very conditional.
And to add another layer, my partner of a couple years who I am very happy with (and vice versa), is hinting at maybe us moving out of state. To somewhere we both really like. And I am fond of the idea but its making me really consider school I guess? Whether or not its reasonable for me here or especially if we were to move and make it more expensive.
I am struggling because dropping school feels like quitting but continuing feels like maybe bad financial call as it will not put me in a better financial spot and then I will have debt. Its a hard economy for this.
I was already debating this and then when he brought up moving (in the next year or 2) it has made me consider this a lot more seriously.
Thanks!
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You’re right that it’s not a wise financial decision. You should drop out. Quitting isn’t always bad. Quitting something you’ve come to realize you shouldn’t do is the only reasonable thing to do. Continuing just because of some sort of internalized shame when it comes to quitting is stupid. So is continuing for the sake of just being able to say you have a higher degree. That’s lack of self esteem. Work on that rather than build up debt that’ll complicate, cripple and limit your life in the future.
Spending time and money to make very little more at a job you don't want to work at is called stupid