What does it mean when a girl hugs and holds a guy for a long time?

[Anonymous]

When I say a long time I mean about one or 2 minutes. Because most hugs are over within 10 seconds.



There is a girl at work who is always giving me huge kisses on my cheeks and flirts with me a lot and we hug each other a lot and sometimes we just hold each other for like one or 2 minutes without letting go or moving.

But I'm not thinking too much about it because this girl flirts with a lot of the guys at work and she has even played some of them and has had them spend money on her. She gives light little pecks to a couple of other guys but she does it all the time with me.

What's going on here?

[Anonymous]

After a long hug, I'd check your wallet to make sure you aren't missing anything lol. She's trying to play you too. Be careful! xD

[Asker]

I'm not stupid lol

[Opinion Owner]

No, you are not stupid lol

[QueenBeatris]

maybe she's after your money

[Asker]

This is what I'm thinking too. But then why would she spend her money on me? And she knows I'm in a bit of a financial crisis at the moment and she offered to support me. This sounds dodgy.

[QueenBeatris]

ok well maybe not then

[DandDlove]

Hahahaha can you say mix signals. If she's like that with everyone else I wouldn't read so much into it. You have to be careful in total honesty. I'm not saying all girls are scandalous some are some arent. If this girl was into you shed show it in some other way not common amongst others.