How often do guys realize they've screwed up and lost a good girl? How often do they go after her? (Page 2)
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How often do guys realize they make mistakes? Not as often as girls think.
Life is about choices, and some choices you have no way of telling that it's full of consequences.
When guys do realize that they've made a mistake then of course we have regrets. Some guys will chase the girl right back and some will just simply move on. Either choices is the best way for a guy to take responsibility for his actions.
Sweetie, guys won't change unless they really want to make that conscious effort to change. I understand what you are trying to say because I've been through it myself. My advise is, stop banking your hopes on this guy if it's been years of disappointment. He may not be able to give you what you are looking for. Also, the part you hope he will try to get you back (by not talking to him and acting angry) doesn't work most of the time... Sorry.
Can I just politely say: Maybe you girls aren't as great and "good" as you think you are? That would explain why men leave.
Not often because most people are spiteful. If they can get a chance to now have the upper hand they will take it
So she will most likely reject him and move on because it makes her feel
Better. Besides she's already kinda move on and her anger is fierce lol
I was once in this position with an ex and I saw the break up coming months in advance (subconsciously).
I wasn’t surprised when the day came. There was shit I needed to figure out on my own. She deserved better than what I was at the time.
Later I fantasized about her and i being reunited (I have changed over the years) but I look back on what caused the break (I wasn’t ever that physically attracted to her but loved her as person) and realize that’s not going to happen.
But I didn’t get closure about something really shitty that happened after the split. She took the cowardly mental shortcut and exaggerated my faults in order make herself feel better for her decision. She could even say my fucking name when we met up later for business purposes. That hurt, REALLY hurt.
Well if it was his fault and he did something im pretty sure he would try to apologize and if your saying she left i guess she didn't really give him a choice , if it was a long/deep relation ship he will try to contact her by any means the girl should just help him or be comprehensive and responsive in this case IF she feels like it.
Any time I've left a relationship, the more distance I had from it, the more I wished I'd gotten out sooner.
Even if she left you? He's tried to talk me a little, nothing big just striking up conversation, offering me a drink. I've been trying to ignore him as much as possible and act like I don't really wanna talk when I see him...like I'm still angry. But maybe the distance is just gonna make him decide its too much trouble. I feel like he's been reaching out a little bit and I don't want to shoot him down, but I don't wanna appear too eager either. What do I do?
a lot of the times in my case. I really do lile the woman, but she'd rather be off with some other guy and stay unhappy, i guess afraid of leaving who knows. Then I'm stuck wondering, really, why won't you go out with me. Walk away in defeat and heartbreak.
I wouldn't rely on this because most guys care only about pussy and themselves. Look for someone, who will treat you each time you see each other like you would see each other for the last time - not literally but similarly. Because something terrible might happen to any of you.
all the time, i mean my thoughts are a lot of guys dump a girl quickly without thought and then run back to her later on but the thing about that is they oobviously didn't value the girl for whatever reason and they might miss the attention but they don't really want to be with her...
She may think she is a good girl, but that doesn't mean she was what he wanted. Guys for the most part never go back. If they do it's because they think that problem has changed. But people dont change so they soon learn it was a mistake to go back and they end it again. In short never go back to an ex
Wow I can't even with these comments ... well I can honestly say that I'm not like a lot of boys out there
And I can definitely say this I've never screwed up like those boys out there it them that give guys like me a bad name
But the saw does cut both ways
I find some of these comments disgusting especially on the males side
I don't think it happens that often at all with guys unless they screw up by cheating or something obviously wrong like that. Women exchange their partners far more often than men do. Also, most people think they are a better catch than what they actually are. If a guy lets a girl go he usually has a good reason for it.
Maybe you aren't as "good" as you think you are. A lot of girls blame the guy for taking the, for granted but maybe the GIRLS just aren't worth it. Ever think about it that way?
*I'm not saying you specifically are not worth it, it's just another angle which I feel girls need to start considering*
aren't worth it in the way they treated the guy or themselves?
@Janieyu maybe some girls aren't as worthy of their boyfriends than they think they are. Maybe they do not treat their man well, it's common among modern relationships.
she always said one day she would leave me if i kept ignoring her and not coming to visit more often and then one day she did.
i did realise what a mistakes been made but its already too late and no amount of birthday cards and flowers over the past 8 years make any difference once they go off you because you treated them badly thats it
Very few and rare of them are going to be good. Most of them are whackjob psychopaths or your classic golddigger or your classic cheating whore or a combination of all the above if not two or more. So the question then becomes why would a guy waste his time chasing after a freak like that. Answer he wouldn't unless he was hard up and desperate for pussy
I'm going after one right now... I don't know what I did been a day and a half since I heard from her. 2 of her social media gone... i wanna call but already sent a text. I don't know if I'm blocked. Anxiety through the roof
Why are you hiding? This is not anonymous questions!!!
Every woman is a good woman. But some are perfect. When I was younger and stupid. I lost several perfect women by trying to hard and being possessive. Including my true love from High School.
They might never do, cause they've rejected you for their own subjective reasons that decided you weren't good enough. But it will be their loss and a chance for you to meet people who will love for who you are.
Sometimes they don't know what they have until they've lost it.
My husband fought pretty hard when he realised just how badly he had messed up and I told him that I wanted him to leave.
Some guys do, some don't.
It's what you see in the other comments, it's also what I see in real.
When exes return after years and also keep trying and apologising for years.
And then some not coming back or not really.