If your girlfriend began to "mirror" your actions would you worry?

[LadyNikolai]

Everyone says when a guy your dating pulls back/ gets quiet its best to mirror or copy his "reserved" actions & pull back a little your self because this will make your boyfriend try harder again for your attention. Does this sound like good logic or not? Would you worry? any extra comments on the subject are welcome too! :)

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+1 y

I should have been more sepcific. I didn't mean it like play games. I just ment it as a general question because I know when a guys gets quiet, most girls wonder why & notice. All I wanted to know was if guys ever go through the same feeling.

[toulouse]

there are plenty of legit reasons to want space. there's no legitimate reason to not discuss it.

if someone wants space they need to inform their partner. otherwise they should not be in a relationship.

you should give someone space if you think they have a justifiable reason. not because you want them to chase u. if you want to be cased, break up and go date people who like to chase.

a relationship is supposed to be for support and respect. not games.

if someone only wants you if they have to chase u, they don't want u. they want the chase.

anyways ostensibly when people need space its them, not because they are sick of u. if its u, you should break up.

[Anonymous]

If they want space, give them space

[Anonymous]

I suppose it might work with some, but with others they might not even care or notice that much since they've already started to pull away.

[Moloch]

Might work for some guys, others will only withdraw even further.

[6Paul11]

It sounds like you are over thinking. Just use common sense.

[pingupassion]

Relationships mature. Eventually the both of you grow up and don't need all the games to remain a pair.