Coachella, how would you feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend was going without you?

[Anonymous]

I bought VIP tickets to Coachella, and I was so excited to go since I have been wanting to go for years now, and finally my parents gave in as my birthday present. So I was bringing my cousin since she and I have been dying to go and plus she is family so my parents trust her and I, to be over there for 3 days alone. My boyfriend knew about how I wanted to go, but I told him that I probably wouldn't go since my parents wouldn't let me, but they did, and when I told him he was less than enthusiastic. He gave me an ultimatum that if I were to go to the festival, then we were over. I thought it was really mean of him to do that since I've been wanting to go for years, long before he came into the picture. However, I really do want a relationship with him. I think its unfair for him to do that, and I feel he is being extreme a tad because I do understand his point since he does care for me and is protective of me. It really went back to feeling he didn't trust me, since I wouldn't cheat or do anything stupid.He just kept saying that he doesn't trust the people there irregualrless trusting me; the guys would take advantage of me, and so on. How would you feel if your boyfriend or girlfriend were going to it?

[Anonymous]

that's not fear ... you will never waste your birthday's gift from your parents just because he doesn't trust you .. if he really cares I think he would buy a ticket to not let you down ... if he cares a lot about its price and he can't afford one for him he's doing the same by wasting urs price "" in the cost side "" and if we talk about the place .. that it is not safe for you ... I guess he won't be careful more than your parents

.. am not saying that to put the fault on him but come on you are very enthusiastic ! since years ago ... this is not fear !