How long do you/ did he take to make it official?

[Bunny212]

Is one month too soon?

What is your opinion on one month after is it just infatuation? Or do men use one month just to speed up having sex with the girl if she said she doesn't have sex outside of a relationship

[archer86]

If the two of you have been close friends for years and finally decided to get serious: No time at all.

If you just met the guy and one month has gone by with no sex: It's probably not going to work.

If you have known the guy for a while, say at least one year, and one month has passed: It should be official in another two weeks.

If you just want sex and it's taking a month to get it: Find someone else.

If you really wanted this guy from the start and it's been a month: What is your problem?

If he wants sex now and it's been a month: It's definitely not going to work no matter how much time it takes.

Hope this helps

[Bunny212]

why is sex so important to determine compatibility?

To me sex is like a way I protest my feelings for you, if I am just infatuated and like you I can't give you sex.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I generally don't take longer than a month. I've generally decided if I want to continue things within that time, and if after a month I don't think it will last, I won't make it official. I'd actually just end it. Nothing personal. She's probably a great girl and everything (or probably VERY much not) but that's it. It's over, and I'm moving on to somebody else. My decision is not based around sex, though.

[Jonny_]

To make a relationship official? Where I am they don't really do the who exclusive/non exclusive thing... You're either in a relationship or you aren't. I don't really know why it's like it is, but it suits me.

[Jonny_]

Sorry that should be *the whole

[Anonymous]

It would be about 2 -4 weeks.

Making it official is quick because there's no point in dating too long if both of you wants to be with each other in the long term.

[Ryanben]

Two- three months is enough for me to know someone. Also if we are to have sex it is may happen more naturally. I like trust and character before I take em of the market. you won't wanna wait too long as doing so gives another man the chance to scoop her up.