Ex blocked me on Facebook after 3 months NC.

[Anonymous]

So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We were together 8 years, known each other for 15. He said he had no time for me because of working & being in 2 bands. I went no contact & haven't seen or spoken to him. I even got rid of Facebook. I decided to go back on a few days ago. I wasn't sure what to do about my ex. I'm friends with the same people & his family. So today I went on & he must have blocked me. He dosnt come up. My sister is still friends with him on there. Does anyone know what this means? I've given him space & seriously have not spoken to him. Did he do this because he hates me? Is he playing mind games? I'm not calling or texting him to find out. Did he do this to get a rise out of me? I am still in love with him. I know many of you told me to block him, he beat me to the punch. Please help.

[Yeahthatsme]

The 1st sign for you to move on should have been him telling you he had no time for you... You love someone and want to be with them you can always make at least some type of time... Even if it was to watch him play... It's not like he was signed to a major record label and had deadlines to get music together...

If you've been blocked on Facebook by him,it should be a good telling sign there's something he doesn't want you to see or know... I think it's time for you to let go and move on, seems he did 3 months ago...

[ryanontario]

its common for ex bf's or ex gf's to block or delete people once they break up , in fact very common . I've had this happen to me a few times with girls after we had issues or such they'd seem to eventually delete me or just ignore me and not ever talk to me on there . honestly I'd just move on if you guys already broke up , its not worth worrying about at this point

[Rubzie]

Well firstly I'm sorry to hear that but I think he has had enough time to think about if he really wants to be with you or not. And if he can't even be bothered to chat or speak to you then I don't think he wants to get back with you. But if you think you still in love with him maybe you need to bite the bullet and speak to him. Call him maybe?

[cupid101]

Time to let go amd stop wondering. Sorry your going through a tough time but keep up the nc and leve him in the past

[quantumdefender]

um, when someone abandoned their Facebook account, some people just want to keep things organized. my brother stopped using Facebook 2 years ago, it made no sense to keep him up there if he never updates.

in the radio biz...its called dead air, listeners don't listen to dead air, they change the channel

[MrAtticusLebowski]

Sounds like he's moved on. Probably doesn't wanna' have to explain to the next girl why he has an ex Girlfriend 8 years on his friends list. Would you want to be with a guy that seamed to have an ex Girlfriend of that long still in his life in any capacity? I wouldn't. Sorry, hope it gets less painful for you soon.

[prettymuscle]

Sounds like this guy has moved on to another women. You must be doing something to make him act like this

[douride2]

He's your ex why care?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

He's an ex. Doesn't matter