If your boyfriend had a very sexy body + large package, would you be OK with him wearing a speedo?

[Hamburgers]

It's yourself, your boyfriend, a few of your girl friends and a few of his guys. He says it's because it's more comfortable and because he likes lay and tan in the sun.

Are you OK with that? Why or why not?

Yes

No

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+1 y

Alright, to dead a few misconceptions.


Your boyfriend looks like the guy on the right. Not the left..

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And DEFINITELY not this guy (Dedicated to you, mrs. pr3ttybrown): link


How about now?

[Anonymous]

I guess if he really wanted to, go ahead. Whenever I don't care for something my guy wears or whatever he just says, "it's not for you to like". Which is true, and just fine. He'd never wear a speedo though lol. I did date a swimmer so when he was practicing he'd wear one, not weird. BUT, just chilling at the beach . . . I dunno, not necessary. Swimming trunks are much sexier. Don't even bother asking me, "Oh but a bikini is OK but speedo isnt'?" Because yea, that's exactly right. The only junk I wanna see is my guys. The less clothes a woman wears, the more good stuff there is to look at, right? A guy wearing tight skimpy clothes just takes away from the sexiness and masculinity of his body, IMO.

[Hamburgers]

I suppose I shouldn't be upset about the double-standard, I mean, I too think it's fine for a guy to sleep with whomever he wants, but if a girl has sex casually she's a slut. There's pro's and con's for both, I forget that.

[cun7n1nja]

I don't really like speedos on ANY guys, lol. It would make me laugh if he came out wearing one and wore it to the beach in a joking way though for sure. Otherwise I don't really care. I don't LIKE them, but he can wear them if he really feels the need, haha, he can dress how he wants. They just seem kind of pretentious and show off-y if you're not a swimmer or someone who does water sports. Like 'LOOK AT MY SPEEDO-ENHANCED BULGE LADIES, LOOK AT IT, BASK IN ITS GLORY' lmao. Which is why I'd be amused if he wore it for laughs. I prefer the way shorts look on most guys.

[Hamburgers]

Is it any more pretentious and show off-y as girls who wear yoga pants outside yoga classes? "Hey look at my yoga pants enhanced butt!" and they don't even have to tell us to bask in its glory. We for damn sure already are. ^_^

Bikini's = bra and panties, btw

[cun7n1nja]

Not necessarily, lol, it depends on the intentions. Yoga pants are good for all kinds of activities, non-yoga workouts, being comfortable and getting s.hit done around the house, running some quick errands [because they look much more pulled together and presentable in public than say, some baggy sweats]. They look good, sure, but they're also practical and that's why so many women like to wear them. I don't think they should ever take the place of actual pants though, lol.

[cun7n1nja]

It's kind of funny that a lot of women just choose to not even bother getting dressed for the day when they go out anymore, they just throw on some yoga pants. I understand the DESIRE to, because they are way comfortable, but they're not every-day pants and shouldn't be worn as such. It's just a better looking version of wearing your PJ pants out in public all day. I don't wear bikinis though, lol, so that doesn't apply to me. I'm not comfortable with that degree of bodily exposure in public.

[Hamburgers]

So presenting in public that they're being banned in high schools across America? Last time I checked, speedos on the other hand aren't banned in beaches or pools. Hmmmm. Guys who wear speedo's also swear by them being much more comfortable than shorts. I know someone who did it as a joke then never went back

[Hamburgers]

It just seems like a double-standard. Women can show their bodily imprints in public, men if show theirs in what is supposed to be an appropriate location are frowned upon. I honestly won't even wear speedos and I'd look gay in them lol. I just don't think bikini's are publicly appropriate. If I had a daughter basically walking around in a panties and bra I wouldn't be happy about it.

[cun7n1nja]

I wasn't aware of that ban, but it makes me laugh, lol. I get that they end up being a distraction for a lot of guys. But at the same time, it's probably better because these girls can get dressed in real clothes to go to school just like everyone else does, haha. =P But I'm not concerned about what's banned where or not, that was never part of my issue. I'm just not a big fan of speedos. I don't care if a guy I'm with decides to wear one if that's what he likes, I just don't prefer them.

[lilstrwberygal]

Personally I don't think it's a double standards as much as it just point blank looks retarded. They can do it and if they like it that's all well and dandy but it doesn't make it look anymore ridiculous. Sort of like those UGG boots, they may be comfortable and people love to wear them but they still look like they buy their shoe-wear at the UPS store.

[ColdFeet]

Why not? Sure speedo shorts are nicer but both show off his body so long as gravity hasn't taken it's toll on his junk. Nothing worse than saggy crotch speedos.

[Hamburgers]

I'd never actually wear a speedo but I didn't even know speedo shorts existed! They're actually pretty cool

[Anonymous]

There was a very cute albino bunny hoping around in the forest, eating some small berries and just hopping around. In all just doing what all very cute, fluffy, albino bunny do. The bunny then had to go take a sh*t. As it was doing its business a bear came up next to the bunny and started doing his business as well. The bear then asked the bunny "Do you have a problem with sh*t getting stuck to your fur? I have a big problem with that. Whenever am done taking a sh*t I always have little sh*t particles stuck to my fur, it's very annoying." The bunny then says "No, I don't have any such problem." So the bear says good and picks up the bunny and wipes his ass with him.

[jdfarmer]

I'm built the same way as your boyfriend, however most women would rather see me in a tuxsedo than a speedo!

[JohnnySS]

a tuxspeedo

[lilstrwberygal]

Personally, regardless of how fit or how unfit my boyfriend looks, I don't want him out in proper society wearing anything hat looks like a three year old little boy's underwear.If he really wants to wear it I'm not going to stop him (not the type of girl to dictate what my boyfriend wears) but he'll need to understand why I suddenly have a headache when he wants to go to the beach.

[Hamburgers]

Ok so he can wear them if he wants. Great

[lilstrwberygal]

Well yea, I don't think a girl has any right to tell her boyfriend what to wear, that's far to controlling in my personal opinion. I mean, she can say "I don't really like those on you," but to forbid him to wear something is crossing a line and you know a girl would have a fit if a guy tried to do the same.

[whattothink]

Unless you are an Olympic swimmer (Ryan Lochte shoo son), or competitive swimmer, speedos just look ridiculous. They are called that due to the "speed" they give you. I prefer a low slng pair of swim trunks, boxers, jeans, anything really that's just about a 1/4 inch away from revelaing too much. Be still my heart.

[Hamburgers]

Yoga pants are for yoga, but people wear those publicly, right?

Also, what's so bad about being 1/4 inch away from revealing to much?

[whattothink]

It's not bad it's very very good. Yoga pants are a bit different. They cover you up. Would you go to the grocery store in just a speedo?

[Hamburgers]

Yoga pants are used for something other than its original purpose. How is that different than guys not using speedo's for "speed"?

Not to mention, high schools across the country have banned girls wearing yoga pants.

Would you go to the store in just a bikini?

[ShesSoSilly]

Whatever he looked like if he was more comfortable wearing that, who am I to stop him from doing what he wants and tell him what to do? I'm not his mother.

However I don't personally find them attractive, again no matter what a man looks like, that's just my preference. So I can't say I'd necessarily like it either.

[lumos]

Speedos are always unattractive. Doesn't matter who wears them. They look dumb. However, I can't and shouldn't control my boyfriend's wardrobe. He should be able to wear whatever he wants. I know I wouldn't want him to scold me for my clothes, so neither should I scold him for his.

[Blondeandfree]

No, I don't like speedos, they're awful. A surfer bathing suit looks a lot sexier than that. If he wants to tan the whole body will be better naked than in speedo, haha. Sorry, but talking seriously if he wants the whole body to be tanned he might go to one of those tanning bed places.

[Enideqa]

Yes I would, why not its just body parts. I mean I don't know many guys saying you have big boobs and a nice body don't wear a bikini. I have trust in my guy, and the way he dresses to a beach or swimming in general is not high on my priority list.

[Hamburgers]

Respectable answer.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

No. It doesn't matter boyfriend or not I don't like when men wearing speedos. I'd ask why can't he be sexy in board shorts? It's not an underwear promo it's a beach and if you wear them I will pretend I don't know you.

[confugirl]

No, I'm sorry. It just looks awful on even the most hot and sculpted guys. Just don't. I won't command him to put something else on, but I will be embarrassed and a little distant if he goes out like that.

[musicbrain5]

If my guy wanted to wear one, I'm not going to stop him. He has the body for it. However I don't exactly find them attractive. They're too skimpy for my liking.

[musicbrain5]

I asked him if he would ever wear one and he told me he tried one once and felt so exposed, so never again. I think he looks way hotter in regular swimming trunks to be honest.

[RedSmartie]

No, it looks really dumb and is really awkward. Just put on some regular trunks and save the speedo for swim practice.

[THChowder]

Hmm, no.. I don't want the girls to start fantasizing.

[Hamburgers]

Hello again, Chowder. Fair enough. Will guys equally fantasize about you in your bikini?

[THChowder]

No.

[THChowder]

I don't want girls fantasizing about his package. xDDD

[THChowder]

Oops, I forgot and body. I mean, he can show it off but I wouldn't be comfortable with it.

[Hamburgers]

Lmao, if you don't think guys fantasize about girls in bikini's you don't know guys. Guys also fantasize about girls in Track and Volleyball uni's. Basically shows the girl package.

[THChowder]

That's expected. Not a good enough reason for him to wear a speedo. BUT if he wants to, go for it. It's not attractive.

[Hamburgers]

So unattractive that your friends would fantasize about it. :)

[THChowder]

Hey... They might like speedos, while I don't.

[Hamburgers]

He wears it for "comfort" and "tanning" purposes. ^_^ Not to make you warm and fuzzy.

[THChowder]

I'm sure his balls wouldn't like it.

No guy wears it for comfort, I'll be damn.

[Hamburgers]

What if it IS comfortable, though? ^_^

[THChowder]

I would suggest he shouldn't wear it and if he wants to, be my guest. I'm sure he's wearing it just to show off.

[Hamburgers]

I have no quarrels with that. I actually agree. But I also think girls wear bikini's for the same reason. They know exactly how it looks. If they didn't, they wouldn't take sexy photos of themselves wearing them.

[Anonymous]

I'd rather NO men wear speedos, haha!

Even if my man was beautiful and perfect, I'd prefer he not wear a speedo.

[Hamburgers]

And why's that?

[Opinion Owner]

I just don't like them. They look dorky to me.

[Hamburgers]

Does that guy in the update look dorky to you?

[Opinion Owner]

He looks like he's trying too hard to be noticed. Just wear shorts, I say.

I think it's funny that men get made fun of for tighty-whiteys, but encourage speedos. Haha!

[Hamburgers]

If you have a hot body you won't be made fun of for wearing some Polo or Armani tighty-whitey's. :)

Try hard? How so!

[Opinion Owner]

Trying to show off. I'm not really into show offs. And like I said, I just don't like the way they look.

Just my personal preference :-)

[Hamburgers]

Why is it showing off for a guy wearing a speedo, but a girl can practically wear a bra and panties on a beach and it's ok?

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer one piece bathing suits on women as well.

[Hamburgers]

Oh really! This I did not know. That's what I get for being prejudice, eh?

The reason I asked all this is because I do feel bikini's are a bit inappropriate, but what reminded me was an article on those younger Kardashian girls. I remembered how they were slammed for wearing bikini's in a photoshoot and thought to myself "If they're so wrong, why is OK that so many girls wear them in public?"

[Opinion Owner]

I just see why people feel the need to be SO naked when they're swimming.

Stylish one piece bathing suits look better, in my opinion. They also look much classier.

And I prefer men be a little more covered as well.

Now if it's just the two of us, that's different. But in public, I just think it's classier when people are a little more covered.

[Opinion Owner]

I just don't* see why...

[Hamburgers]

I completely agree. How covered do you prefer men to be?

[Opinion Owner]

Board shorts, of course.

[Hamburgers]

Nothin wrong with that.

[Opinion Owner]

:-)

[britannny]

No. I don't like speedos on ANY body type. They remind me of diapers.

[Hamburgers]

Lmao!

[Anonymous]

I'm a competitive swimmer, as is my boyfriend, so it seems like the only time I see him is in a Speedo, not literally, but it sure seems like it. :/ I don't have a problem with it, but it could just be because I'm around guys in speedo's so much.

[JamielovesKU]

Id be OK in him wearing anything he was comfortable in

[Cookie1995]

That's good. I find it funny when girls say that their guy shouldn't wear certain things.

[JamielovesKU]

It wouldn't be my place to tell him he couldn't wear something

[Cookie1995]

;)

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't feel comfortable with his balls printing out like that. Lol. That's like equal to my nipples printing out.

[Hamburgers]

That' happens with bikini's all the time, and booty, and camel toe!

[Anonymous]

Personally I'm not really OK with any guy wearing them! I think they are kind of gross and show too much! So whether or not he was my boyfriend isn't really a factor!

[Francia]

Mhm... He has the body for it, so it's up to him if he feels comfortable with it. I am okay with it.

[kangaru]

Hmmm...look like swimming trunk but again it seem odd kinda of skimpy.

I voted yes though.

[Hamburgers]

Why is it skimpy? Do you consider bikini's skimpy too?

[kangaru]

Bikini is fine but when I see the speedo is bit hmmmm embarrassing

[emzy-89]

I don't like speedos at all, but I can't control him, he's free to wear what he likes