It is possible to reform a slut?

Question

Is a slut born, made by society or daddy issues. And if you want to reform a slut so she can be made into girlfriend material, is it even possible to do?

front2back · Accepted Answer

Yes, a lot of girls who go down that path regret it and want to reform themselves. Being used as a sex object and never getting actual love and care is not fun (For either sex). Most girls who are sluts are sluts because they need to fill a void somewhere inside of themselves. Just like men who are sluts or abusive, etc. Some girls do it for the attention, others because they want male companionship and see promiscuity as the only way.

Either way, once they come to terms with what is going on, they have to be the ones to change themselves. Just like any other human. No one can make her stop but herself. If she is unhappy with her current lifestyle, she must be the one to change it. If she isn't, there is no point in changing her lifestyle.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

people change overtime , unfortuently many girls would fit into the "slut " category now days as clothing revealing and with birth control options having sex is so care free its common for girls to have already had multiple sex partners by there early 20's if not earlier .

but over time girls like this move on to other things like careers or have kids / get married and don't sleep around as much

but if your trying to date a so called slut and she's still in her say late teens/20's I don't think its possible to change her at that age she unfortuently will have to learn from her mistakes and grow up later down the road

heavenonearth · Accepted Answer

1) The term "slut" is so arbitrarily defined that it's pretty meaningless without context. If you're a girl, there will always be someone in the world who thinks you're a slut/slutty. They might even spew some psych-babble about how you have daddy issues, but the truth of it is that some people just still have a hard time grasping the concept that women like sex too. It blows their mind or something lol.

2) A 'slut' and 'girlfriend material' are not always mutually exclusive.

3) Never get into a relationship trying to change someone. They'll only change if they want to change, and if they're happy the way they are then you either except it or walk away.

skinandbones · Accepted Answer

...how  does the burden of reforming sluts fall upon YOUR shoulders? are you well-versed in the language of sluts? have you encountered many? are you a professional slut-identifier? was your mom a slut? before I can answer any of your questions, I'd like to know more about your slut-reforming qualifications.

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

Um, if the person stops having casual sex frequently then they aren't a slut anymore, but they will always have been a slut in the past. And it's perfectly possible for someone to stop, just most won't cause they like it and if that's what they wanna do with their lives, so be it.

sirspauldo · Answer

Don't go into a relationship expecting to change someone, more than likely it will end badly, like the person for who they are, if they change it will be completely on their own doing.

cheesesteak7 · Answer

yes, you can change them.  I know some reformed sluts.  ...though they're not dead, so I guess there's still a chance they could revert back to their slutty ways.

Pseudofailure · Answer

Can you reform a terrible person? I hope so, because if not, you're stuck like that.

Anonymous · Answer

I think you should stay away from women.

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