Girl: I'll let you know

[MarikYo]

Asked a girl what she is doing on Friday, she replied I don't know.

I invited her to hang out. She replied me: "I'll let you know"

Is it a rejection?

How to deal with it?

[Anonymous]

Yes it's a rejection.

You should try roping her for something really casual or with a group of common friends instead. I believe girls who are not so 'into you' have to be tackled using the 'friendship' method. Let your friendship mature first. Then move on from friends to dating.

You might argue that you'd waste a lot of time and risk being friendzoned. Sure you might not get a girlfriend, but you'd get a friend instead. If you're not even willing to spend time building friendship then she's not the one for you.

[krisdaschwab912]

It's generally not a good idea, in my experience, to ask women to hang out on a specific day when you're trying to get to know them better. Just say "Would you like to go out sometime?" And if her reply is anything other than a "yes," she's most likely not interested in you. And if she does say "yes," then ask her when she would like to hang out.

[MarikYo]

From my experience I've learnt that women like confident men. I've asked that question before and it let me nowhere. I'll rather hear - yes or a no.

[krisdaschwab912]

I find that whenever I ask a woman if they want to hang out on "X" day, she'll say something like "I don't know, I'll get back to you" or some other bullshit. But if you leave the ambiguity up to her, she may take you up on it. Might be a cultural thing between where I am and the UK, though.

[Anonymous]

It's a semi-rejection

the way to handle this is by not replying or texting back "ok cool"

and then don't text her again until she texts you, if she does say she's free Friday just make up some excuse saying you're actually going ____ to hang out with a buddy or something like that

make her want you, don't "pursue" her so to speak

trust me

[confugirl]

It kind of is a rejection, in the sense that she would not guy out with you if anything else comes up. And I really mean anything else. Even then, she might not accept your proposal, so I wouldn't invest too much in this one.

[Anonymous]

A backhanded rejection in a sense. She's keeping her options open while not letting you down outright.

[Tarvold]

She's keeping her options open.

What you need to do is to do something completely awesome on that Friday regardless if she's coming or not.

Don't ever accept being any girl's backup option. They are never worth it.

[CareBearCountdown]

She is waiting to see if anything else pops up. Or if something urgent might happen.

[MarikYo]

Something else better?

[bryanda02]

Definitely keeping her options open by saying that. If you truly are interested, don't make her your priority. Just go with the flow and don't let her take you as a back-up plan.

[Anonymous]

shes waiting to see if something better comes along

[mantobee]

more proof that girls only want good looking guys

[Nastya]

you're her back up plan

[Anonymous]

It's like a kind way to reject someone

[MarikYo]

well its her loss